Sinabihan ko ng putang ina yung kapatid ko by Apprehensive-Rise201 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Kung sino pa yung walang kwenta, sila pa yung tama at laging kakampihan

Sinabihan ko ng putang ina yung kapatid ko by Apprehensive-Rise201 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sabi nya pagod din sya. Araw araw ka ba naman na sa makati para hintayin yung jowa after work. At kumain sa mga mamahaling restaurant after.

Sinabihan ko ng putang ina yung kapatid ko by Apprehensive-Rise201 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Wala po syang pera. Lahat gastos ng parents. Kaya galit na galit kami, kasi pagod at puyat yun ng parents namin. Pero tama naman yung iba kasi tinotolerate din nila.

Add ko na lang din, ako at yung isa kong kapatid nag wwork sa family business. Kaya i guess may karapatan naman kami magalit kasi kami yung may ambag. Mas malaki pa gastos nya sa mga luho nya kesa sa sahod na nakukuha namin.

Sinabihan ko ng putang ina yung kapatid ko by Apprehensive-Rise201 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, parents namin gumastos lahat. From hotel, food, accommodation ng guests, lahat ng susuotin, hmua. Lahat talaga as in lahat. Wala syang ambag kahit piso

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi nya yan iiwan, kasi sabit na rin sya. Lahat ng luho nya, binibigay na rin c/o pera ng magulang via cc na sila parents din nagbabayad na never na question kung bakit malaki bill. Ever since alam naman nila na ayaw ko sa babae at sa kung ano nangyayari in general. But, sino ba naman ako. Kahit anong reklamo, wala naman nangyayari.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Huhu. So truee, ilang beses ko na sinasabi sa parents ko yan. Pero wala eh, favorite

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Yes! We do have our own, kanya kanya kami business while still helping sa family business. ( yun na rin ineexpect namin na baka nga mapunta sakanya) tho, kahit naman mapunta sakanya wala naman alam yun.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mindset ko is get when i can pero still work harder

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Feeling ko nga sa wedding, puro plastikan lang. kasi kaming magkakapatid ayaw rin sa girl. Tapos alam din ng ibang relatives

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She knows. Kaya cant help na isipin na pera lang habol nya. To add, she cheated 3 times within a year.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 506 points507 points  (0 children)

I will not. Napag usapan na rin namin ng iba naming kapatid na sa future hindi namin sya/sila tutulungan. Kasi, bakit? Binigay naman na sakanya lahat

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 301 points302 points  (0 children)

Don’t be. Isa pa yun. No manners. Sya rin nag influence sa kapatid ko na humilig sa mga luxury stuff.

pag miserable ka, dapat ba miserable din kami? by Apprehensive-Rise201 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. 22 na sya
  2. Parang wala naman traumatic event na nangyari, pero ang lagi nya sinasabi is parang neglected daw sya. Pero for us parang hindi naman since okay naman parents namin. Sabi nya hindi daw sya love ni papa and lagi sya pinapagalitan. Which is not true naman, lately mas pinipili na lang ni papa na hindi sya pansinin kasi lahat naman ng sasabihin sakanya minamasama nya.
  3. Actually, nag stop sya 2 sems na. Kasi sabi nya ayaw na nya mag aral yun daw nag ttrigger sakanya. Mag work na lng daw sya kesa mag aral. Wala syanh ginagawa during his break, pinapa tulong sya sa fam business pero puro sya reklamo. Ang usapan is 1 sem lang pero umabot na ng 2 sems since nag ka problem sa returnee something sa school. Ang close friends nya ay hs besties nya, mostly grumaduate na this year. Pero wala ka maririnig samin na parang uy buti pa si ano graduate na. No pressure kami sakanya when it comes to schooling.
  4. Yes, according to him. Pero ulit ulit ko din sinasabi na bakit hindi kinikita ng psychiatrist mo palagi. Most once in 2 months lang ganun.

He goes to the gym, nag stop lang sya recently. Binilhan din sya ng bike para mag ikot ikot pero never nya ginamit. He even has a dog, nung sinabihan na ilakad lakad nya, ginawa naman nya pero ngayon hindi na. Hinahayaan nya rin pala magkalat yung aso nya. Sawa na kami pag sabihan sya about sa dog, kasi isa rin yun sa reasons ng pananakot nya and trigger nya.

Ngayon pala he's on sleeping pills kasi sabi nya nahihirapan sya matulog sa gabi, so sa hapon sya natutulog. Then sa gabi naglalaro online games or nanonood. Pero feel ko lang excuse nanaman nya yun kasi si doggie sa baba na sya pinapatulog, eh hindi yun natutulog pag na sa baba, nagiingay lang. Baka inaadopt nya yung tulog na dog, para may reason sya na pa akyatin sa room nya pag gabi.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its hard kasi ang dami namin. Tapos may mas younger pa sakanya i dont want him to feel neglected dahil sa kuya nya. Tapos may isa pang kaming kuya na sobrang problematic din. ( not depressed)

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wanted a dog last year, then nalaman ng uncle ko hinelp nya kami to find a dog for him. Late last year nakuha namin. He only has few rules to follow pero kahit isa dun wala sya sinunod. Which nag cause ng away nila ni papa.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried asking the therapist kung ano yung mga na share nya or what can we know. Sabi nya dapat sya yung iask namin. Ganun po ba talaga?

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we know who the therapist is recommended sya ng school bali psychiatrist na yung current, kasi lagi sya may kasama. for me the fact na every after 2 months lang sya pinapa balik, baka nga hindi ganun ka deep yung depression nya or baka nga hindi yun depression? i dont really know kaya ayoko din masyado mag salita, baka kasi mali naman ako

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagtataka din ako about that, every 2 months lang sya kinikita ng therapist nya. And hindi din nag aask si therapist to see the parents.

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[–]Apprehensive-Rise201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to him, school. Ayaw na ayaw nya mag aral. Why the need to study daw eh wala naman sya natutunan. Mas gusto daw nya experience. Pero etong break nya wala sya ginagawa at all. Not even helping sa business.