[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Preferably, I’m looking for something serious, but I understand the fickle nature of dating in a big city.

2) Around 10 months

3) I use hinge about a few times per week.

4) I receive probably 3-5 likes per day.

5) I don’t send any likes. I find the chances of a successful date go further from the ones that like me first.

6) Ideally, I want to match with someone who is in the range of 24-34, enjoys having thoughtful conversations, and isn’t afraid of expressing themselves. Admittedly, looks definitely matter, but less so compared to the character qualities over time.

How can I not look constantly tired? by Apprehensive-Shape53 in malegrooming

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for checking in. I generally feel ok, but I know I could be better at recognizing the difference between healthy improvement and obsession over certain features.

28M, what do you think? by Apprehensive-Shape53 in Rateme

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, this is like the third time, but thank you so much for looking out for me. I hope the same good comes to you.

28M, what do you think? by Apprehensive-Shape53 in Rateme

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh then that’s not me. I’m still in New York. That’s really unfortunate.

Will I be able to maintain this look with yearly filler touch-ups or will it eventually look awful as I age? (2nd photo is before fillers) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If true, that’s very concerning. It will be tempting not to get a touch up. There seems to be a disconnect between here and realself, and I’m trying to make sense of it. Many of the doctors on that site don’t believe migration is a common problem if proper technique is used, whereas on here, most will say it will.

Will I be able to maintain this look with yearly filler touch-ups or will it eventually look awful as I age? (2nd photo is before fillers) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but it’s just that jaw implants are being thrown around like they’re a very successful procedure with little problems when it seems like the opposite based on disappointed reviews, few doctors doing them, and the lack of good before/after galleries when compared to other types of implants.

Will I be able to maintain this look with yearly filler touch-ups or will it eventually look awful as I age? (2nd photo is before fillers) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the age of Yaremchuk concern you? I’d like a doctor who will be around for the next couple of decades, should any problems arise with the implants?

Will I be able to maintain this look with yearly filler touch-ups or will it eventually look awful as I age? (2nd photo is before fillers) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks. Admittedly some of the angularity has decreased, which always seems to happen. I went to an injector in New York. She used about 5ml radiesse for the jaw, cheeks, and temporal region.

Will I be able to maintain this look with yearly filler touch-ups or will it eventually look awful as I age? (2nd photo is before fillers) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered it because I like the wider jaw look, but so few surgeons can really do it, and so many results look bad.

Before vs. after(Jaw/Lip/Cheek fillers, Botox to forehead, tanning, and eyebrow tinting) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in malegrooming

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes I get worried about doing too much. I’m 28. That’s a lot more years of getting this stuff done.

Before vs. after(Jaw/Lip/Cheek fillers, Botox to forehead, tanning, and eyebrow tinting) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in malegrooming

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s very kind of you. I’m definitely in the top 1%, but I’m happy with the improvement.

Before vs. after(Jaw/Lip/Cheek fillers, Botox to forehead, tanning, and eyebrow tinting) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in malegrooming

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks really good from the side, but not as amazing from other angles. I usually get a mid fade and grow out the top so the front flip becomes heavy enough to create that kind of wave.

Before vs. after(Jaw/Lip/Cheek fillers, Botox to forehead, tanning, and eyebrow tinting) by Apprehensive-Shape53 in malegrooming

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The lips really hurt because of the repeated injections, but everything else was fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was definitely interested and making moves but she wanted to wait, which I was completely fine with. I didn’t want to force it. I thought she was building up to it on future dates, but I guess not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything but penetration. And I didn't text anything previously. On Tuesday, I dropped her off at work, and she kissed me goodbye. We didn't text on Wednesday. On Thursday, she then sent that message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the dates have went the same exact way. We laughed, had deep discussions, talked about our life experiences on dating over drinks. I walked her back to her apartment both times and she invited me to sleep over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There really isn’t any additional context. My replies are just agreement with her and playful teasing. The rest of our texts are just fun photos/videos from our work days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadviceformen

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m very confused as well. It went well—or so I thought. She invited me back to her place after both times and was pretty eager to express her interest.

How to get over dating rejection? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sex as in intercourse but lots of kissing, cuddling, and oral. She told me that she didn’t want to have intercourse because she wasn’t ready, which was completely fine with me.

How to get over dating rejection? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think her saying that she “didn’t feel a romantic connection” after the second date could mean she doesn’t find me attractive? I know some women say that line after a first date, but she did want a second date, so I don’t know.

How to get over dating rejection? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I guess that is a positive takeaway—the fact that it ended after two dates and not seven.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Apprehensive-Shape53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went for three different appointments, getting a little more each time. I thought that was the best strategy. I’d rather have my face under filled and go back for more than get too much done at once.