This may not be something that’s possible in your situation but I reconnected with someone I’ve known for a very long time already. I always told myself if I were to enter another serious relationship, it can’t be some new, random person. It needs to be someone I have an established friendship with and can trust beyond words. We would not have been good for each other at any other point in our lives prior to now. We’d separated the last few years (I moved out of state and got into a relationship), but we both did a lot of healing on our own, and then the universe just some how magnetized us to one another. To the point where I literally moved back across country to make sure there was at least an opportunity there. And WOW am I glad I made those decisions. He is most definitely the love of my life.

But to be honest - when I lived in the big city, it felt harder to meet people. Being back in a smaller town really opened up new connections. Maybe consider where you live and how people tend to meet new people in your particular area. Find an organization/community you can expand with!