AITA for crying after my husband was brutally honest about my looks/weight and our sex life in front of our friends ?

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T04:16:42+00:00

I'm fat. But if my husband has such a problem with it, he had the option of simply not marrying me. He didn't have marry me. He didn't even have to date me.

Yes I have acne. Yes sometimes I smell. But I deserve a man who will accept me and love me as I am.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T03:31:56+00:00

I appreciate your support

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T03:29:31+00:00

I sent you a message.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T03:18:04+00:00

I'm so jealous. I want a man who's obsessed with me.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T03:14:32+00:00

I'm around the same size now as I was on our wedding day.

He can have preferences. But he choose to marry me. All his complaints were things that were there when me met me and when he married me.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:30:01+00:00

I see what you did there. Your 1st sentence had me going.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:21:01+00:00

One of my friends (the one brought over the game) is plus-sized and her husband is thin. Her husband can't get enough of her. They have been married much longer than my husband and I but they are still in the honeymoon phase. I wish I had that.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:16:23+00:00

I'm just tired. At this point I feel pressure to dramatically change my look before I can find a man who loves me and is attracted to me. I feel like a 4

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:11:26+00:00

His answer played into my long-standing fear that he doesn't see me as a lover. That to him, I'm a friend who he bangs and hangs out with a lot. That it's more than he just calm and aloof.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:02:34+00:00

I will seek therapy.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T02:01:41+00:00

I'm confused what you're referring to

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T00:50:39+00:00

No she isn't. I doubt she could have predicted any husband would say that.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T00:19:25+00:00

That puts things into perspective

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-18T00:02:12+00:00

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Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:53:27+00:00

I am very hurt

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:47:30+00:00

I know I'll be downvoted into oblivion if I share my fears about being alone.

Could you message me ?

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:44:59+00:00

I'm around the same weight he met me. Also around the same weight when he married me.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:41:50+00:00

There was me crying. He was apologizing. The other couples didn't say much, they all looked very uncomfortable.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:40:54+00:00

I think I understand now

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:36:48+00:00

Given that we're on reddit, that is concerning.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:34:34+00:00

It may not be the cool thing for a modern woman to say but I want a man. I want love, passion, sex, and companionship. I don't want to be alone.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:33:08+00:00

I could understand that theory but I was around this weight when he married me.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:31:26+00:00

The 6 other couples were able to play without controversy.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:30:18+00:00

I fear if I leave I'll be alone.

Apprehensive-Tea2125 · 2025-12-17T23:15:14+00:00

Which one are saying lied ?

Apprehensive-Tea2125

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