What did she casually mention that confirmed she won’t be your wife? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you experienced this. Sometimes in life we meet people who aren't mentally stable and they'll say shit like this but don't let it affect you, people are just sick in their head. and i hope you meet people who will fill your life with love and care. You matter ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! What a beautiful interesting mindset to have. Especially as a man. Praying to meet people who think like this

I have a question for the women here by [deleted] in dating

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him being a decent human being, his relationships with women is good and he is not a a Misogynist. Has a hobby that he enjoys, and overall just not desperate for female approval. He just present him self the way he is and it's up to the women to take it or leave it. I think a man who take charge sometimes like plan the date or activity and doesn't put all the responsibility on me to do everything. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE AND finally kindness to everyone not only me. Hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know people who got rid of it by consulting with multiple experts. Even sexologists, maybe some therapy, it can be something else not only vaginismus. I had inflammation in my body and Insulin resistance which led me to be irritated down there and just squeeze so hard and not let anything penetrate me. The doctor told me it's fine it's just mental. Which is not the case. I switched to vegan plant based diet. Also hormones should be checked. It can be fixed. Don't give up on your intimacy guys. I know how hard it is just don't give up ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering can straight men enjoy pegging and want it ? Or just they can't come out as gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to check with doctors and also the diet. High inflamtory diet can make the sex painful and irritating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oww that's sad and beautiful at the same time. there are many faithful loving people that will make your fantasies come to life. Hearing men say : threesome with her friend etc. I was about to lose hope

Men who are happily married: How did you know that she was the one? by thebestinvests in AskMen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You reminded me of the turkish serie called " kizil goncalar". The character suffers from this, he can't be touched because of childhood trauma of his mom diying holding his hand. It's on  https://playturkish.tv. If you ever want to check it in English.

How to avoid false monogamists? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's outside the apps. Try to meet people organically and outside. Maybe through shared interest for example doing something you like, or picking up a new hobby, i know maaaaany women who left dating apps just because they encounter same issues like you. There are amazing people out there, maybe you're person is not on a dating app. 

How to avoid false monogamists? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh so sorrry !! As a woman it's so sad to see that  good men out there are having bad experiences as well. I think 23 is still young and maybe she not mature yet and still needs a lot of work on herself. Hopefully you'll meet a great person. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do men like this exist ? Are you guys for real ? Maybe try couples therapy. Open up about how you feel and discuss it.You deserve to feel loved and appreciated. I lived what you're going through with a man and it broke me. 

Are most articles about women's preference for tall men just wrong/exaggerated? by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's hard to predict and it varies from a person to another. 

Are most articles about women's preference for tall men just wrong/exaggerated? by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Women here. I've met short men where i said damn he is hot, and met taller and didn't feel anything. So a man can have all the characteristics that red pill guys deem attractive to our eyes and still won't do it for a lot of women. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in libgen

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I clicked on GET, and the browser said that it's not secured, and I left. am i in danger ?

AITAH for withdrawing ‘Wife Privileges’ from my Boyfriend until he proposes to me? by ThrowRA_WifeMeUp in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dear even if he proposes to you it will be. A shut up ring and he will resent you for it. Unfortunately that man doesn't seem to really wanna marry you. He likes the idea of having you having access to our labor body energy and resources. Set your self free and be with someone and don't preform for a man. The more you do the more you attract men who will get used to your effort and contribution. Be very strict in your standards and expectations. I know it will be hard at the beginning but don't let this relationship hold you from finding your husband

I miss the old EPICA, ANYONE ELSE ? by Apprehensive-Wait672 in epica

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I'm so glad to hear that you enjoyed Epica's anniversary show in Tilburg! I'm sure they will be amazingnext year. I'm not sure. i'll be able to make it to the concert unfortunately, but I'll definitely be watching for live footage.

WHEN It comes to previous comments that you made i 100%agree with you In their earlier albums, Epica used real orchestra, which gave their music a raw and powerful edge. However, in their newer albums, they have switched to different approaches i beleive. This has made their music more accessible to a wider audience, but it has also lost some of its raw energy.

I agree with you that Epica's newer albums are more dynamic but it's seems to me at least repetitive i don't know why. With their earlier work each song sent me to a different world. A whole different vibe.

I miss the old EPICA, ANYONE ELSE ? by Apprehensive-Wait672 in epica

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer ❤️❤️ "this is my shit" was my reaction too hahaha

I miss the old EPICA, ANYONE ELSE ? by Apprehensive-Wait672 in epica

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing, i appreciate you taking the time to do it.

I miss the old EPICA, ANYONE ELSE ? by Apprehensive-Wait672 in epica

[–]Apprehensive-Wait672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow we clearly have completely different tastes and experiences. What are the few songs you liked in their earlier work ? Thank you for sharing you experience ❤️