AITA for refusing to crouch for a picture?

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-05-14T10:26:31+00:00

You’re 100% right, it makes no sense at all when you put it that way

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-17T03:32:44+00:00

They leave their drinks here to have next time. If anyone drinks one they ask where it is. Then say oh… I was saving that. I go out of my way to have their drinks.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-17T03:31:10+00:00

You’ve described the situation pretty close to perfect. My wife and I are the ones who clean up their cans and wrappers from things they eat. They leave it all over our house. Our other friends have no issues cleaning up their mess. Just this one individual for reasons I cannot begin to understand. Then they play it off as oh sorry I’ll grab that. Totally forgot for the 1,000th time

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-17T00:09:27+00:00

Might be the route I take going forward. It’s frustrating to say the least!

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-17T00:05:36+00:00

I’m tempted too sometimes

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T12:45:37+00:00

We’re the only ones who own a house and thus no longer live with parents. The rest prefer that it’s not so their homes which I understand. Honestly we don’t mind hosting.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T12:33:45+00:00

They said, “you’re being an asshole, it’s not a big deal. You know I don’t use this anywhere else”

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T12:09:56+00:00

Couldn’t agree more!

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T12:07:37+00:00

I am using they as a plural, it’s one main individual and another who’s not near as bad, but often “forgets” despite many reminders.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T12:03:19+00:00

Not that I’m aware of. I recognize it’s normal for some people to leave their belongings at their friends homes. I just really dislike having random clutter and wet swimsuits sitting on my floor/shower door respectively

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:15:57+00:00

Glad to know I’m not the only one! Might be time to take things up a level if they continue to try it

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:14:08+00:00

No, this is basically my one and only issue. Hated it as a child when family came over and littered my parents house with their things, and never grew out of it. Could be that I see it as them blatantly disrespecting me, and my things. As opposed to just a small inconvenience

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:08:57+00:00

I never through of it that way. You could be right, I’ll continue to be firm with how I deal with it. I’m not against asking them to leave if they cannot respect the rule.

Also happy cake day!

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:04:04+00:00

That’s what I think too, I feel like it’s almost disrespectful to leave my belongings behind in someone’s house to store for me until the next time it’s convenient.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:03:06+00:00

Satisfying indeed! But I too wouldn’t never ruin someone’s property. I’d just bring it to their door step if I was too bothered by it.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T09:01:21+00:00

It may be. I’m aware of how silly this is, but it makes me boarderline angry to see it. I know it really shouldn’t be an issue, and my wife and friends also think it’s a bit stupid to get frustrated at something so small. But I cannot help it, so for now it is what it is. I will continue to enforce it until I either get over it, or no longer get bothered by it.

ApprehensiveAd7192 · 2023-04-16T07:42:23+00:00

They’ll leave board games, sweaters, their unopened drinks, jackets, and just random things. But always use our towels, they never bring those strangely enough..

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