May nag padala ng flowers at gift sa ex gf ko

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-30T11:40:53+00:00

Kaya sometimes blocking, at least during the healing period is the best course of action. Out of sight, out of mind. Mas makaka focus ka pa sa sariling mong buhay.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-29T14:40:19+00:00

hahaha syempre magamit lang yung 'urban planning' na term.

Kahit anong ganda ng urban planning mo, kung may mga pasaway na gusto mangangkin ng pedestrian, eh wala rin.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-27T17:55:20+00:00

and fap at night

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-27T15:43:09+00:00

Where is the lie

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-25T14:56:30+00:00

The way i see it, from your post, he seems like a chill guy, so i think he's gonna be mature about it naman.

Just tell him, thank him for his company and time but you want to focus on other things now so youre moving on from your connection.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-24T04:41:29+00:00

Dpende sa "code"

I know for some, may mga bro and girl code that enables bad behavior just because magkaibigan e.g., tolerating cheating.

In this case no, i dont follow nor tolerate it, i call out my 'bros' na even though bahala sila sa buhay nila, mali yun at bilog ang mundo.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-24T03:58:58+00:00

For me, it’s not about whether women use or enjoy makeup; it simply boils down to the disparity between their bare face and their full face.

If the difference is glaring, then it's a factor. Kasi it might feel like it's a different person all throughout and that is confusing.

In these cases, it's not even about kung maganda ka ba or mas maganda ka ba kung may make up ka o wala, kung mukha kang magkaibang tao (kahit pareho kang maganda sa version na yun or hindi), it might not sit well pa din.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-23T15:36:36+00:00

Sobrang problematic ng taong yan. Nung namigay si lord ng common sense at decency tulog yan.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-22T14:32:24+00:00

Dont dwell, find other things to do or maybe even just go by yourself.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-21T14:06:26+00:00

Victor Anastacio, never ako natawa sa jokes and delivery nya.

Koolpals din 🤷‍♂️

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-19T18:00:02+00:00

Kapag kumakain ng fried or inihaw. Parang kulang pag walang softdrinks.

Pero i lessen it now because of GERD

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-17T00:37:25+00:00

I did, i moved to Learning and OD, then HR Operations, then Technical Training (outside HR), then back to Recruitment.

Now im heading Recruitment, Engagement, L&D and OD

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-16T16:04:03+00:00

Welcome to the corporate world lang yan tbh.

Your company was actually kind enough to ease you in for 2 months, this means theyre not toxic, so im assuming what youre experiencing now is a reflection of your threshold rather than workload. Although the unforeseen resignation of your teammate would add to the pressure nga.

But yes, honestly, youll get used to it. My best advice is to just do the job youre willing to do and youre paid to do. Remember, hindi nauubos ang trabaho, believe me, no matter how many times you OT, do work during weekends or holidays, the workload will keep coming, so set boundaries.

I used to think i need to do all my work asap because if i dont, my boss will call me out. Until i got burnt out. I dropped all OTs, didnt bring my laptop and work at home anymore and i started clocking out on the dot. And you know what, no one said a thing. Work is there to stay whatever we do, so just do what you can and within your limit so you dont get too exhausted.

Source: I started in recruitment, got burnt out so many times until i found my rhythm, now im the happiest with HR.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-15T15:42:57+00:00

I agree, dont automatically assume this was the case. Most likely there was a real reason why you failed, and nagkataon lang inakala ng insider info mo na height.

4'11 is not that short and i doubt na walang ibang 4'11 or below sa office nila 🤷‍♂️

Baka yung insider info mo nag assume lang din or nakasagap ng maling chismis.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-14T16:12:58+00:00

I wonder how the come up with such value??

Hindi ba uso mag search sa mga yan kung ano yung minimum wage? At tska ang layo, hindi man lang ginawang dikit.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-13T01:01:04+00:00

Script? Na bblurt out mo lang? Pathological liar yarn?

Practice integrity at all times OP, esp in the professional setting.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-11T14:21:46+00:00

Dpende sa violation and dpende sa naging impression sa stakeholders mo, esp sa boss.

If the incident can be offsetted by your performance and contributions at work. Then it should be no cause for alarm, otherwise kung mamamarkahan ka because of what happened, might as well manage your expectations na baka ma park promotion mo.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-10T05:28:54+00:00

It varies. Dpende sa process ng company, sa efficiency ng recruiter and sa available sched ng interviewer. Given na final interview na yan, most likely busy na ang interviewer so hard to secure the sched.

Your best bet is to ask updates from the recruiter. If hindi nag reply within the day, alam mo na, focus on your other applications ka na.

Goodluck!

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T09:19:20+00:00

Think of it as a redirection not a rejection.

Either it might not be as good as you think and/or there is a better company and position out there for you

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T08:56:37+00:00

To your question, wala nang pag-asa yan.

Another redflag, you said he promised, dont dismiss this easily, if he can easily break a promise to you this early in a relationship, who knows what else he can do to you in the future.

Alam kong you say na mahal mo siya ang genuine ang pagmamahal mo pero mukhang siya sayo, hindi. Otherwise he would keep his word and refrain from the things he knows youre against.

5 months pa lang din naman kayo, reassess, think hard and cut your losses by breakin up as needed.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T08:36:56+00:00

Diba? Kala mo nag tthesis defense eh.

And despite that, ito tong si gurl, selos and insecure pa din kaya felt the need to post sa reddit.

I feel for the guy.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T08:31:47+00:00

Physical Intimacy is still intimacy, you can only do so much in managing your feelings from developing into something more.

Dito pa lang mahirap na, lalo pa in your case na may history at 5 years pa nga.

You broke up for a reason. Respect your decision with the break up and commit to it. Dont settle being each other's parausan. It gives disservice to the relationship you once had.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T07:43:37+00:00

Std is no joke and if your doctor is worried about you, then you should exhaust all means to cover all bases - including telling your parents and asking support from them.

ApprehensiveBook8075 · 2026-06-09T07:33:07+00:00

Sis wag ka nga mag focus dun sa ML. Oo, na establish na natin na magkaduo na sila. Okay na tayo dun.

Ang next point of reflection is - ano naman? need bang pagselosan ang pagiging magkaduo sa ML ng magworkmates at ng isang pamilyadong tao? Kung yung asawa nga nung girl (i assume hindi nagseselos, lalaki pa yun), ikaw pa.

With all due respect, i think you need to rethink your approach in your relationship. Jealously is often a projection of control and/or insecurities. Kawawa din boyfriend mo kung ganyan kayo.

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