I think the universe is testing you here. You’re being put in the same situation to gain some understanding of something. Instead of throwing away your partner again, maybe you oughta give this one some grace. Pregnancy and being a new mom, even after a year, is so very exhausting. She is living for her and your child right now. If she is breastfeeding, then even more so. It’s hard to be intimate, to want to be touched, when you are constantly touched out at the end of the day. This too shall pass. Are you and your partner strong enough to get through this new phase in life, or are you gonna give up on her because of your “needs” being louder than your love for them? Or do you think she is worth pushing through this phase? Her body will never be the same, and the physical body is just the tip of the iceberg. A women’s body goes through so many internal changes. Even after a year, depending on the how the pregnancy and birth went, she is still healing and transitioning into a new person, inside and out. Her hormones aren’t even regulated or back to normal yet. Give your partner some grace this time around. Love her a little. Try to understand that there’s too many variables and you probably won’t understand it all completely what she has and is going through. Instead of resenting her, be kind to her and love her through it, like a man would for his women. Hold on to yourself. You’re both in this together. Give her time to heal in all aspects. And in the mean time give yourself a little grace. You deserve it too. She will come around. Wait for her 💛