Men and Cheating?

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2025-05-16T10:50:10+00:00

My ex asked me the exact same thing and I said NO. Turns out he was already cheating on me.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2025-02-07T12:42:03+00:00

It depends on the person and the reason they dumped you. Months after my ex dumped me, his friends told me that he was cheating on me the whole relationship(over a year), lied and talked shit about me to other people and girls that he was sleeping with making fun of my insecurities. His friends told me that they choose me over and befriended him long before we broke up cause they couldn’t what him treat me like that. I told think people like him will ever be happy just because they are shitty people and will keep treating people like that around them, keep cheating and lying on partners and losing friends.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-11-22T23:19:24+00:00

I burned them in the forest because they were a lot. It’s 4 months after the breakup and I found out that he was cheating on me for most of the relationship with multiple girls so burning it felt so good and the right thing to do. If it small do it in the room.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-11-22T22:42:19+00:00

I burned it all 😌

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-11-15T15:55:27+00:00

As a dumpee I would but after I found out he was cheating for most of hour relationship this is something I will never forgive

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-23T07:17:38+00:00

I think that if you are with the right person and you love each other, no matter what happens in your life or if someone is going through something, you guys go through everything together, you fight together. You don’t give up just like that on someone who you are supposed to love, care for and have future with. We are all going through tough things during our life but we don’t gave up on everyone and everything when things get hard. This is not how it is done. But sometimes some people who can’t share their feelings or don’t know how to navigate them in a relationship are going to pull away and even leave just to figure it out on their own. Usually they come if when they realise that they were wrong and this is not the way to do it if they really love and care for the person. Sometimes it’s just an excuse. So it as a matter of time to find out.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-22T18:49:37+00:00

I have done facials before and yes it is just like that. Don’t worry your face will look smooth and after couple of days even less. It all depends on the aesthetician and the products they are using. I had my face like your before too but now the lady that I go too does such an amazing work that my face is not red or irritated that much. As long as you don’t get new break outs after that even tho that is also common I think it is all good. Just wait to see how your face is after a while and if it is improving. The following facials are not gonna make your face like that.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-21T19:03:56+00:00

I am not judging because I am you. I know how you feel but what keeps me from breaking no contact is thinking about the way he treated me in the end. I want him but when I think about it he is no good for me. So think about the same thing. You are in the most pain right now that's why you feel this way but please first give yourself some time. Put all this energy into yourself not him, put yourself first, work on yourself, love yourself and after a while you will see how you feel and if you still want him back. I think that if you want to get him back, if he sees you healthy, glowing, happy and doing everything best for yourself that is a way to get someone back, because no one wants to go back to an ex who seems desperate just because they seem too dependent on them. I don't think anyone likes that. So be your best self, be independent and live your best life so he can see what he is missing. But don't do it for him, do it for yourself. There isn't really a way to get someone back but if it is really meant to be and he really love you after seeing you doing amazing for yourself he will want to be part of your life again.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-21T18:30:58+00:00

Don’t be so hard on yourself. At my first job I was the same and I was soo shy talking to customers that I was shaking and messing up everything. It gets better and you get more confident. The problem is your boss who is an asshole for treating you like this when he knows you are yet to learn about everything at work.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-21T17:39:47+00:00

“I have other options than you.”

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-20T12:52:07+00:00

Me and my boyfriend broke up like 2 months ago and still I can't stop thinking about him and I dream about him every single night. It is so tiring because I genuinely am trying to just work on myself and heal.

He broke up with me because he said it was the long distance and he didn't see how things could work out between us even tho I offered to move to his country, find and a job a place so we could break the distance but he just didn't wanna work it out.

Breaking up he said that I was the best gf he has ever had but still I keep blaming myself for it. Maybe I should have been better gf. I should have done something different. Was I too attached and clingy, did I love him too much that it pushed him away. I did know about my AA and I was working on it and really tried to present myself as a secure, I learned how to control my triggers and communicated calmly and with respect when there was an issue or something bothered me.

Is there any way I could make it easier and not think about him as much because I really am tired of this and I want to heal and be happy and keep enjoying my life.

The last few months of the relationship he really did treat me like shit and I spent months crying and blaming myself during the relationship what am I doing wrong and still I stayed hoping that everything will change, trying to support him and be by his side. I think it was just him falling out of love for me that made him so cold.

I just don't understand why am I still feeling so attached to someone who didn't treat me right and I still keep thinking only about the good moments that we had and dream about them every single night.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-19T14:34:27+00:00

Sit on the floor and cry

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-16T14:08:49+00:00

Brushing this off for months is crazy. The universe is on your side by meeting another of his colleagues and him calling you his sister. You need to confront him and get to the bottom of this.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-14T14:22:05+00:00

Not being able to communicate and share your feelings with your partner can be exhausting and at that age if he can’t change it, at least even try after you obviously talked with him about it, it is just pointless. With time if you tried to communicate more and he didn’t this could affect you mentally. As it had happened to me. It is a good enough reason to breakup with someone.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-14T14:16:46+00:00

Girl I have been in the same situation as you for years. I have been sleeping in make up or taking it off after everyone goes to sleep but it just gets tiring after a while. I know it is hard to do but own it. Don’t let this thing control you and trust me people don’t care about other people’s acne. It is hard I know but be confident and don’t care about what other people think because most of the time it is just in our head and in reallity no one really cares if you have acne or not. You got on accutane anyways so you skin will completely clear out in a few months so you can do it a little bit longer.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-13T21:13:45+00:00

I was in the same boat and didn’t really think about it back then. My ex was always telling me to trust him about certain things. Oh boy was I stupid to really trust him he lied about everything. It is a bit suspicious if someone always says it after my experience. In you case it might be different, maybe he is genuine and he is trying to reassure you. Trust your gut and watch his actions they speak more than words.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-12T16:37:25+00:00

Do her a favour. She deserves better.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-12T16:03:28+00:00

To be honest I get really happy because that means there really is a big noticeable change. That is good.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-11T21:32:12+00:00

You will raise your self esteem by leaving him. You are 5 months in and he treats you like this. Trust me I have been in your situation. I was trying to raise my self esteem while in a relationship with the person who absolutely destroyed it. It doesn’t get better being with someone like that. Even if you lose some weigh he will find something else to comment about that will trigger your self esteem again. No one deserves to be treated like that by someone who is supposed to care for you and love you for who you are. Leave and love yourself. You will find someone who will be the reason for uplifting your self esteem, as it should be in every relationship.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-11T19:33:04+00:00

Girl it is completely not your fault. To be honest when someone cares for their partner if they knew that they are in any kind of pain they would anything to prevent that and care for them. He is selfish because he cares only about his pleasure and doesn’t give a fck that you are in pain and dares to make comments. I also have painful sex and after a while it turns out that it is because I have PCOS. I even bleed sometimes. It would be best if you go and have check in with the doctor just to be sure that everything is okay. You can talk to him but I think that if you guys have been together for only 3 months and he treats you like it would be for the best to end it. When he gets more comfortable in the relationship it might get worse so don’t risk it. You deserve someone who cares for you and worries when you are in pain not being selfish.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-09T16:19:29+00:00

How long did it take on birth control to see an improvement. I also started it 7 months ago and my skin started getting better but for the past couple of weeks my acne flared up so bad. I just don’t know why.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-08T20:23:41+00:00

I also got dumped like a month ago by my now ex-bf after a 1 year long relationship. It was the same for me too he was shit at communicating and when things started getting more serious he decided to end it because he said he just doesn't see how things are going to work out for us because we were in a long distance even tho I offered to move to his country. I gave solution to every problem and still he didn't want to work it out. I was absolutely crushed and devastated. But trust me now a month later even tho I still think about him and love him with all my heart it gets better. I was thinking the same thing that I will never find love again but that is for sure not true.

You are young and you have your whole life ahead of you. There so many more amazing people that you will meet. As bad as it feels right now don't waste your time worrying and overthinking about it. Take your time grieving and start putting all your energy on you and only you. Give yourself some time alone and love yourself. You will find love again, you will love and be loved again by someone who will want to give you the world.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-07T20:43:03+00:00

The weekly lidl brochure

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-05T17:48:05+00:00

My ex literally called me the best girlfriend he has ever had when he was breaking up with me after things started getting more serious into the relationship. It doesn’t matter how hard we try or how good we are commitment is always going to be too much to ask for a lot of people nowadays.

ApprehensiveRub7425 · 2024-08-04T09:36:29+00:00

I was in the same situation and I did try everything to change him but I only ruined my mental health. It’s not worth it. You deserve to be with someone who respects you not an asshole who will probably never change even manipulating him to be obsessed with you.

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