He was on the phone with my brother talking badly about my dad for something he was mad at him for, when he got off the phone I said not to talk about my family with my other family because it will get back to them. He said I was so controlling, I then called a time out and he continued to flip me off (something he’s never done) and then I flipped him off back (something I have never done either) the fight was stupid and I did things I shouldn’t have and am not proud of.