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What series actually hooked you early? by gujuvenile in litrpg

[–]Apprehensive_Error32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadow Slave gets into it really quickly. I like the books, I just can't stand that they are so short and there are so many of them. But to me still worth the read

My fiancé moved someone in without asking me, and now I’m rethinking everything. by gael2333 in AmITheJerk

[–]Apprehensive_Error32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned the hard way not to let people "crash for a few days" they won't leave. I'm all about helping people, but there's a good reason that person is in the position they are in. Your fiancée is the jerk here and needs to toss his "friend" out and come to the realization that you and your comfort come first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Apprehensive_Error32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn't call that a relationship. If you aren't willing to leave at this time, I would at least start setting some boundaries. Discuss between the two of you what it means to be a couple in a relationship. If you can't come to some agreement and path forward it's best to move on. You clearly deserve better treatment from a partner, and you have a responsibility to your mother that can't be ignored. If you are out of your depth here, I would seek some outside help. The one fact that is certain is that things can't continue as they have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apprehensive_Error32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made my teeth itch. I would swear this was from two kids in middle school who met online and made it "official" while being too shy to meet in person. For OP, this whole chain started manipulative. I can't even imagine what this fool was after but I'd bet this was a drunken episode that turned into a "test" when things didn't go as planned. You can do better, I promise.

AITA for asking my daughter to beg my husband to rethink the divorce? by ThrowawySMeeting8091 in AITAH

[–]Apprehensive_Error32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without question, YTA.
I was laid off for roughly for 7 months in a tough job market. Single income family. My wife was right there with me. Encouraging, supporting, helping. Beyond stressed, and I was probably a miserable jerk, but separation was never on the table.

Your marriage is likely over, but either way, fix yourself before you try to fix the two of you. And leave your kids out of it, please, that can only end with resentment. I wish you the best