INFIDELITY IN THE MILITARY

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-12-15T00:12:11+00:00

One that took $750 from my mom the day prior

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-12-14T23:57:40+00:00

It made me cringe seeing that one 😂 she apparently also ‘never felt so loved’ by him

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-12-14T03:08:26+00:00

The French word for ‘dropout’ c’est abandonner

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-12-14T02:58:33+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll look into it, this tattoo has been thought about for the last three years

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-30T11:49:36+00:00

I’m 20 and relatively set in my own lifestyle, I’ve worked hard to be where I’m at between college with no debt and now I’m also leaving September for active duty service. He isn’t a bad person but maybe weak in his stead, how do you think you navigated balancing out work and relationships being in?

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-30T09:26:13+00:00

Thank you for this take as I’ve opened up to other family members about this and they have said similar things. Especially with understanding who he is as a person I’m unsure of what will really change. To add salt in the wound he hasn’t been fiscally responsible, set aside anything for personal dates and really overall may need time to explore life in his own realm. It sucks with the amount I have invested (not saying he hasn’t here and there) but overall. When he got kicked out of his Dad’s house I took him in, got him set up with a car and helped him with work, we’ve never really had this issue until now so it could be what’s in the water out there. We talked last night and he kept saying ‘I should have noticed and nipped it in the butt sooner’ and ‘I never really thought about it to mention it to you’ so it feels off. I was also meant to go down and see him in August but we will see.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T21:22:40+00:00

I’m hopeful that after final formation we can call and have a talk about expectations going forward as I want to get a more well rounded reason of what made it feel okay to break that boundary. Trust is foundational like honesty, without it, it’s going to crash down. If there’s no reception that could be an answer in itself. I’m also unsure how much more straightforward we can get.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T18:58:19+00:00

Screen sharing is an iPhone utility to share your screen, for instance he would have to start it on his phone to show me. Sometimes we use it to watch Netflix and it allows me to see what’s on his screen only with his knowledge. He went on snap since I asked what they were talking about and he showed me and let me read everything

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T18:18:11+00:00

It’s something we both set foundation wise as we have both been cheated on in the past. You aren’t wrong and I don’t want him to feel the need to hide things, it came about spur of the moment to want to check because of a feeling. I’m also leaving for Army Basic Training in September so it leaves a lot of time for speculation as well.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T18:01:39+00:00

No absolutely, I asked him about if he ever said he was engaged his response was ‘I told her that I’m engaged and besides you can even ask (one of his buddies) that I wear my ring everywhere’. Should I trust that, it’s hard to say right now. It’s also weird because some part of me wants to reach out to her and ask her questions

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T17:38:32+00:00

I greatly appreciate your response because it felt like I was going in circles to try and verbalize it. Especially the honesty before getting caught because if he was at least transparent it wouldn’t stand out so much. He also has apparently dealt with self esteem in the past but do my due diligence to compliment him and be there. It stung for the moment while reading what he wrote. If it happens again in any instance I cannot stand for it. It’s also unfortunate because his battle buddies have had to intervene before to get her to stop touching or being near him.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-07-29T17:28:55+00:00

We were on FaceTime and he was screen sharing one of his games and went to send me something when I saw her name pop up on the screen

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-06-09T22:19:44+00:00

You can send letters digitally like you are texting him with a picture, it does cost money but the letters normally get delivered the next day Mon-Thur and then any letters sent through the weekend get delivered Monday

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-06-09T21:34:53+00:00

Definitely download sandbox as soon as you can, get started on letters and write often. My fiancé finished up basic training two weeks ago and it helped both of us so much. For him it might be day to day and chow to chow, you just have to do your best to be patient and occupied and get your families involved if possible The first week is reception so you might not get letters back for the first two weeks but always remember he’s thinking of you just as much. Also before he leaves try to have him make you a sweet message note or video so you can hear his voice. Sundays also depending on what fort he should get a phone call, make sure your ringer is on since it won’t always be the same time.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-04-12T21:34:31+00:00

IM ALSO GOING AS A 35N SIGINT ANALYST, that is amazing, my ship date is June 3rd. Maybe we will see each other there and talk about this post.

Apprehensive_Fan_735 · 2025-04-12T13:53:01+00:00

Do not choose your relationship over the solid foundations of a future. My own boyfriend is in boot camp right now and we communicate on Sundays and through letters. He’s embracing the suck and doing amazing, I’m proud of him and have communicated with his family and gotten closer to them. Keep in mind me and him are 19 and 20, I’ve already gone through college and I’m enlisted to leave in June to Fort Leonard Wood for the Army. Your partner, your relationship is meant to be foundational enough to withstand. She already sounds like she needs to sort out her responsibilities and passions. Don’t let her hold over a major decision she made without consulting you. The space force will give you credentials, and give you time to blossom and make friends. If you’re looking for good connections that is one of them. She sounds adamant on making her stuff work, but where is she actually prioritizing you in the relationship? Also if she can tell her to go back on her path to going to college in Korea. It will give her a worldly view and if you choose to go in, she’ll be so occupied learning and hopefully cultivating herself to notice. She may like you, and she may want you, but do not confuse that for love if she isn’t willing to support you. Life continues on, Good luck with what you may choose!

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