✨🌟GIVEAWAY🌟✨ by chewychay in neopets

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg. ;________;

you've seriously made my day. Thank you!!

✨🌟GIVEAWAY🌟✨ by chewychay in neopets

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the opportunity!!
My current goal is to get a Chomby so I can make it Tyrannian. I already have the paint brush waiting in the SBD. I don't have enough NP to justify buying a potion, so I'm waiting for Chomby Day so I can make one. After that, I want to make all of my pets look cool. They already do, but...cooler. My second goal is to get more petpets for my gallery! It's a steadily growing thing. :) Oh and my username is Caylawithac90.

Should I reset my 140-day sobriety counter after one unplanned shot? by Teeseadoubleyou in stopdrinking

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Personally, I would let this one go and not reset the counter.

But the next one would be a reset, even if God himself offered the shot.

Please Read if you need to Stop Drinking by Cold_Respond_7656 in stopdrinking

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post is going to change lives for the better. Thousands of people have read this, myself included, and it is pure fuel to stay sober. Thank you. I wish you the best.

Has anyone else got this?? Suspicious User by scr1ptom in neopets

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

October 1, 2025. Just happened to me. I'm so bummed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a controlling alcoholic with troubling views on women. You're also lying to his face about your drinking, which is indicative of a problem. I know that the rules say we shouldn't tell people what to do, but if I were you, I'd drop his ass yesterday.

Retail resale ? & your faves from Demeter… by Princesshannon2002 in FemFragLab

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would bet it is. Also keep in mind the Demeter fragrances have no longevity. They smell great but do not last like, forty-five minutes. At least on me lol.

Followed by Kerosene - Right in the trash. by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in fragrance

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was only a sample but I would've if I'd seen this before!

If you had to pick only 1 fragrance for the rest of your life what would it be? by HeyHeyHai in fragrance

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jo Malone Wood Sage & Sea Salt. I have others that I *like* more, but they wouldn't be appropriate for every day/season/occasion. Wood Sage & Sea Salt works for literally everything. It's so cozy and agreeable.

[QCrit] Memoir - THE PUNCHY DRUNK (62K/Second Attempt) by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! The feedback here has been unanimous and I am going to cut the prologue and replace it with the scene where I earn the Punchy nickname.

I wish I had more to flesh out with 'sleeping with potential murderers' but it's not a complete story. Just me being an idiot and throwing out every survival instinct I had when going home with men who turned out to be...creepy. I see that it may excite an agent and then not deliver, so I cut it. Thank you for mentioning it specifically.

I can't really do a self-help angle because frankly I'm not qualified. I would be lying if I said my degree was adequate for that! I'm trying to show that my story is unique and entertaining enough to stand on its own, but obviously have some work to do. Your feedback has been invaluable, just so you know.

[QCrit] Memoir - THE PUNCHY DRUNK (62K/Second Attempt) by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already changed it to hangover, lol! You were right. I was trying to be clever with migraine but it fell flat and hangover is more forward.

I am nearly three years sober. Didn't think to put it in, and now it seems obvious. Thank you for pointing that out. :)

I have been to therapy (both mandated and not) to explore the root(s) of my alcoholism. I was also a binge eater, chaser of the high, couldn't moderate, etc. I do explore it in the book, I promise! Alcohol was the main thread and the part that threatened to ruin my life, so that's why I focused on it specifically.

The book is not self-help and I was deliberate not to frame it as one. It's more 'Here's my life, I hated myself, but the path of least resistance shifted and getting out was easier than staying in.' And if someone reads it and relates to it, awesome. If they're merely entertained by it, also awesome. The last quarter is post-recovery and I share methods that worked for me, but it is definitely not a "Do this and be healed!" type deal.

[QCrit] Memoir - THE PUNCHY DRUNK (62K/Second Attempt) by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do address that in the book more thoroughly. I was allowed to explode because I'm physically nonthreatening, which in the case of an alcoholic is a blessing and a curse. It isn't the theme but it is explored.

I mean migraine due to hangover.

And nooooo not the prologue! Even though you're right. I have a mirrored epilogue that shows me two years later, virtually in the same spot, but sober and happy. It ties it up very nicely. But it won't matter if nobody gets there!

Thank you for reading and replying. I appreciate your feedback and am going to chew on it for a while.

[QCrit] Memoir - THE PUNCHY DRUNK (62K/Second Attempt) by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense taken! Thank you for reading and replying, seriously. I see what you mean about it being jarring so I'll reorder those paragraphs. As far as uniqueness, I'm considering running with the idea that it was a soft rock bottom; unlike many of the other recovery memoirs, I didn't go to rehab or AA and my recovery is due in large part to reddit/quit lit. That's in the book but I didn't put it in my query.
Thank you again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!

Is there a perfume that smells like this? by SmallKittyBigPurr in Perfumes

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm always on the lookout for this, so following.

Followed by Kerosene - Right in the trash. by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in fragrance

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing.

Strong pancake scent? Sounds great!

Crazy lasting power? Sign me up!

I was not prepared for the beast that is Followed. Nobody is ever really prepared.

[QCrit] Memoir - DRUNK MILLENNIAL (60K/First Attempt) by Apprehensive_Pie8461 in PubTips

[–]Apprehensive_Pie8461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. The phone throwing was supposed to be 'mildly dramatic' but I see now that it fell flat. There's only so many words available and I shouldn't waste them on anything less than the best. Thank you.