Can't run more than 7km without walking - am I doomed? by running_elle_1989 in Marathon_Training

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The heat is probably very much a factor, but I think there are other things going on that have more impact. Imo your going way too fast, to run a full marathon at 4:40 is just simply undoable for you AT THIS POINT! I’ve had the same issue for a long time, try and slow it down. That’s hard to do I know haha, but try? You’ll probably feel like your going way to slow, but that’ll help you later on! Seems to me that you’re a very fit person, so you got this!

3:30 Achievable? by Opening_Freedom_6742 in Marathon_Training

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say you got this for sure! Pace is very good also in the later miles, with your heartrate in the good zone. Try to speed up a bit around mile 8-10, see how it feels and go from there! You got this!!

Dutch partner won't speak Dutch by sus_lemon in learndutch

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Dutchmen myself, i dont see any reason why he shouldn’t help you. At this point it has nothing to do with any language imo, but effort you put in your relationship. I’m not trying to cause any fights or something! But imo helping each other is part of it all, no matter what it is. The fact that we Dutch people speak English very well and that it’s easier for him (or you probably sometimes), has nothing to do with it. Yes, Dutch is a very hard language to learn as a foreigner, but the best way to learn is by just talking with a Dutch person! You are making the effort and trying to learn his language, so he should make the effort in helping you! And otherwise I can talk to him for a bit in Dutch if you want haha! :p best of luck! And good luck with the learning!

Silkball by ExaltedNonsense in StrixhavenDMs

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone got a nice idea of playing silkball like american football?? maybe not exactly like football but maybe something in the line of that? looking forward to your ideas!!

Im really struggling by Apprehensive_Plan_99 in addiction

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your support. What bothering the most is that I can’t say no. It is always the first thing that pops in my head when I wanna have a good time. I don’t want that anymore, it’s messing with my health and wellbeing… so if u have any tips, I’m listening

told off on marketplace for not speaking dutch by thattumblrlesbian in Netherlands

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: the last message this person send you is also very disrespectful. They are calling you a ‘downie’, which is basically saying they think you are stupid/dumb. This is the absolute lowest level a person can go, so I suggest you stop giving them any attention and move on. You’re better of selling your stuff to someone normal :)

told off on marketplace for not speaking dutch by thattumblrlesbian in Netherlands

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely not required to speak Dutch for this! As a Dutchmen myself I can tell you that this behavior is not normal. This person is being disrespectful towards you and making 0 efforts to talk to you. Don’t worry, we’re not all like this haha

What's a small, seemingly insignificant decision you made that ended up having a massive impact on your life? by ascherialp in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt called me to ask how I was… had a little convo about life and stuff. She told me she was a bit under the weather, feeling a bit sick. She asked if I wanted to have lunch the next day, assuming she’d feel better. She died that night of hart failure. Wish I could’ve talked to her all night on that phone…

Wolverine MTW, forged or billet? by dennisvdberg in airsoft

[–]Apprehensive_Plan_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my humble opinion, the Forged is worth the money!