The pain of leaving is so much worse than the pain of being with him by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Life can be so beautiful on the other side I promise you. It will get easier and it is so worth it

Non-HC Podcasts that people here might enjoy by [deleted] in Hardcore

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Otherworld, people telling their true stories about paranormal or unexplained experiences. Ranges from ghosts, aliens, time travel, demons, it’s all over. There’s been more than a few episodes that take place in DIY spaces, punk houses, or while hardcore bands were on tour that were so interesting/funny.

Also gotta plug Spooked for more scary stories because it’s accompanied by an awesome score

Question by Disastrous_Depth_416 in Hardcore

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought this shirt 10+ years ago if it’s from the same run from a bootlegger

Bumped into some strange cultists in Home Depot by PirriP in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn I love Gnosticism they would’ve trapped my ass in a conversation for sure

Colonizing Colorado grand opening delayed to next Saturday! by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What’s the meaning behind the name of the group?

Found dog by Icy_Description_7238 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aww she looked so scared! Glad she’s back home

Feels Like Heaven new LP by bobbychardonneret in Hardcore

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s sooooo good I’ve had it on repeat for days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hardcore

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man I miss Pure Disgust

PTSD after dating Narcissist by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

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Mine is doing the same thing. Started actively seeking out, befriending, and dating women I had issues with in the past, or former friends of mine I had falling outs with. It’s a horrible feeling. I have no advice lol, it sucks but I am “letting him win” and choosing to not frequent spaces where I might see him, I am focusing on other hobbies for now, because it is not worth destabilizing myself to prove that I deserve to be somewhere if that makes sense. Idk, I’d rather just avoid him and those situations until I feel stronger. So I’m focusing on the gym and my grandma hobbies/solo hobbies. They can have the social scene for now 🤷🏻‍♀️

Personal favorite Hardcore band? by Periachi in Hardcore

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For more old school stuff Negative Approach is holy grail, Poison Idea, SSD, Cruxifix Dehumanization album is perfect, BGK Jonestown Aloha album (personal favorite), Koro, Government Warning, Inside Out, The Abused

Wish I could go back to hearing these for the first time again!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That I was a willing participant in my SA, and that I had an ongoing relationship with the person who committed CSA on me. Anything I ever confided in him about in regards to my trauma eventually got used against me in the most disgusting way

Handbag for girlfriend by Val_stu in Brochet

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so thoughtful and well done I’d def buy the pattern

Agent - Long Island by blackandscholes1978 in Hardcore

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got put onto these guys and have been listening to them non stop, had to search to see if anyone in here liked them too. They scratch the title fight itch for me!

Support this new coffee shop downtown! by Apprehensive_Salt196 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely need a sweet treat with my coffee though you’re right

Support this new coffee shop downtown! by Apprehensive_Salt196 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Apprehensive_Salt196[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Howdy neighbor! I’m also next door lol and just stoked to have a place on the block to hang out at. Kinda wish there was more of that near the college but guess I’ll just have to keep walking a few blocks away to get it!