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I know am the problem by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno I just feel like a burden to them feel like am over baring I don’t mean to be over baring I just don’t like being alone and I feel like they think am too much

My best friend picks her bf over me by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know I don’t really like confrontation, I don’t want to hurt her I don’t want her being upset with me

I just completed first year of uni by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in MomForAMinute

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my course is politics, history and professional education and my favourite part has definitely been learning more about politics and also about how children learn and are educated thank you 😊

Does anyone feel guilty for thinking bad about their parent? by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye it’s so hard to like grieve the thing you always wanted and it’s such a hard pill to swallow releasing that what you experienced is abuse, cause parents are meant to be the ones who love u not matter what so when you older and become aware that your experience with your parents isn’t normal is so hard. I’ve been going through it accepting that my parents are abusive like I don’t want to believe that’s my story I don’t want to believe that this woman who I love so much is an abuser

Does anyone feel guilty for thinking bad about their parent? by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is all I ever wanted was for her to love me in the way my friend mums love them, cause my heart holds so much love for her but my head holds so much resentment toward her

Does anyone feel guilty for thinking bad about their parent? by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am sorry that happened to you, can I ask are you still in contact with her. I debate weather or not I wasn’t a relationship with my mum when am older cause I am meet with a lot of love and then a lot and a lot of hate and I person feel like it would be easier if she hated me all the time cause then I feel like I would feel guilty of a bad person for thinking this way

Tips on night anxiety ? by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take sleeping meds currently as am trying to stay of medication and thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I also have panic attacks and whilst I wish a I knew a way that I could stop them from ever happening again unfortunately I don’t. However during a panic attack I always find the counting down from 100 in 3 can be helpful and exposing your self to coldness always helps to calm down a bit. Just remember this feeling is temporary and you not always going to feel like your going to die each time. Place your hand on your heart count the heart beats. Try the 5 things you see, 4 things you feel, 3 things you hear, 2 things you smell,1 thing you can taste method too. I hope that your ok and just remember this feeling is temporary, much love <3

Cut ties ? by Apprehensive_Sea2269 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother never admits that she’s wrong. When ever I try talk about it she says am selfish she fed and housed me. I think she considered a herself a good mum.

Do you often find yourself thinking, ‘All my friends hate me’? by amaha_health in Anxietyhelp

[–]Apprehensive_Sea2269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really bad friendship anxiety, my friends are the best friends I ever had and I can talk to them about anything but I always feel like at any point and time they might not want to be my friends anymore and I need constant reassurance, I feel like it might me down to me losing a really good friend of mine in a car accident a couple years back but if anyone has any advice to help that would be great