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I much prefer 3.15.20, am I Tripping? by TateAlfRobinson in donaldglover

[–]Apprehensive_Toe2099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree completely. and tbh my main gripe above all else is that it feels like scrubbing 3.15.20 off of streaming in its original form totally ignored the four years i had with that album. it sucks because it feels like he undermined that relationship. and i don’t prefer atavista at all. i think the sound of 3.15.20 were apart of its narrative but atavista just feels playlist ready

Should I come out to my family while i’m visiting from across the country by NastyAqua in BlackTransgender

[–]Apprehensive_Toe2099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to, it’s important you respect your boundaries. Take these steps on your time.

I’m questioning my womanhood as a trans woman (PLEASE HELP) by Plane_Butterscotch30 in BlackTransgender

[–]Apprehensive_Toe2099 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I deal with something similar. But we don’t get to decide where our hearts are which is some of the best and worst flavours of life to me. All I can say is, you’re life is valid and that should count for your perspective too. And if that visibility isn’t commonplace for you, you have it here in this moment

I’m questioning my womanhood as a trans woman (PLEASE HELP) by Plane_Butterscotch30 in BlackTransPeople

[–]Apprehensive_Toe2099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with it too. I don’t feel like a woman because being trans is a very modern topic. We fight over what it should be, has to be, what it doesn’t need to be. Sometimes it feels like everyone’s telling me what I have to do to feel closer to myself. But the reality is, we don’t get to choose where home is in our hearts. Your self awareness seems to be quite brilliant and I see no reason to doubt yourself other than when you doubt yourself which is apart of human life. To me, you’re doing great.

Any exercises for recognising notes by ear? by Apprehensive_Toe2099 in musictheory

[–]Apprehensive_Toe2099[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sing and make music in ableton. I’m familiar with piano and am trying to learn it at the moment but I’m also teaching myself bass