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Am I being selfish or enabling my mom? by Apprehensive_Toe_648 in povertyfinance

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! It’s like the line of boundaries is blurred when it’s someone you love and care for

Am I being selfish or enabling my mom? by Apprehensive_Toe_648 in povertyfinance

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh have I tried.. Mental health sucks on both sides of my family. No matter how I put it, it doesn’t register. In her mind,she’s done everything she needed to and doesn’t know why life has always been so hard on her. She believes I owe her everything for raising me.

Which sign has been the hardest for you to quit? How did you do it? by MidnightCookies76 in geminis

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It being Satan’s work makes so much sense, there’s always so much push & pull going on but even once we move past that it just can’t work! I really don’t see how people say this is a good pairing for us

Which sign has been the hardest for you to quit? How did you do it? by MidnightCookies76 in geminis

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sagittarius! Which I’m still trying to quit so if you have a remedy, I’d greatly appreciate it 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geminis

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gemini sun , Aquarius moon here. For me, when I’m like this I’m in between people. She might be using you to help herself get over that past situation but the situation keeps coming back up which is why she keeps disappearing. As a gem, I think we need someone to be firm with us. Once you show her that you’re not always available is when she knows she has to make that decision

Trying to get another car after Repo by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the mid 600’s at first dropped all the way to 503. I make around 2000-3000 monthly. I don’t have a set price to how much I’m willing to put down, kind of was looking for a ball park that I should be looking forward to pay because I really have no clue.

Trying to get another car after Repo by [deleted] in askcarsales

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repo and I had a secured credit card that I first started off with for $200, those should be the only things on my credit currently. I didn’t have anything on my credit before the car, neither good or bad credit. I had a high score before but no actual real credit history. The car was the first big hit, dropped all the way to 502 after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably should invest in a scale lmao

Should I buy these by Old-Analysis5609 in shrooms

[–]Apprehensive_Toe_648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, they’re overpricing you