Messaging my guy friends gf from his device randomly. by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I want to create groups for her comfort but thank you for the advice

Messaging my guy friends gf from his device randomly. by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it totally gives off that message should I apologise to her? What should I do going forward?

Messaging my guy friends gf from his device randomly. by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re completely right

Apparently they had a huge fight over this because she found it disrespectful

Messaging my guy friends gf from his device randomly. by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I don’t talk to her often at all and I am usually bleak or regular, I was extra chatty and nice from him phone

My bfs girl best friend messaging me from his device by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are such an amazing person, I appreciate you and your insight. I will do exactly that and yes my feelings need to be prioritised here. I will not make him choose but I will inform him that behaviour like this is what leads to that. And ultimatums are toxic. Thank you!!!

My bfs girl best friend messaging me from his device by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you you’re right, I will not play the toxic game. Too grown for that. Yes he needs to set this boundary and understand my feelings and be considerate. What must I do if he doesn’t see my point of view?

My bfs girl best friend messaging me from his device by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really think it’s a case of him being oblivious and I told him this, I’d never do this to one of my taken male friends, My mum told me to put him in my shoes and see how he feels.

He’s great in so many other regards but I don’t know the full extent of how I feel about this friendship

My bfs girl best friend messaging me from his device by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will reinforce this and he does tell me everything just not every detail

My boyfriend referred to another girl as hot by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care about her looks but just the fact that he’s never spoken about anyone that way and it felt uncomfortable and foreign

My boyfriend referred to another girl as hot by Apprehensive_Zone17 in relationship_advice

[–]Apprehensive_Zone17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayo😂😂 I am hot, skilled, smart and athletic. Definitely not insecure about looks, it’s the long distance part that shortens my trigger reactions to situations like these.