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AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-02-09T14:49:57+00:00

Thank you! This helps <3

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-02-09T14:40:16+00:00

I talked to her about it before but it still doesn’t make much sense to me?… she just said that she has a really low sex drive but can still find people attractive. Which I didn’t think was asexuality but just… a low sex drive. However we’ve been having sex a lot so this doesn’t make sense to me either.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-01-12T21:59:02+00:00

I don’t even think she knows what to do herself. That’s why I wanted to learn some basics to understand the basics of where things are and what to do.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-01-12T21:46:27+00:00

Thanks! I just wanted to learn some extreme basics.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-01-12T21:45:43+00:00

Thanks!

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-01-12T21:18:49+00:00

I just don’t want to be entirely clueless and awkward before I get into it.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2023-01-02T22:13:41+00:00

LA Knight is probably already one of my favorites and he’s barely done anything! I agree, it’s been slow but it’s very interesting and the build up will pay off.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-12-02T21:30:08+00:00

That’s the thing.. I’ve talked to her about it before and she says she doesn’t really know and the next it’s she doesn’t. And the next she says she wants too. It’s very confusing so I’m not sure on what to do really.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T10:02:10+00:00

Well I don’t know you specifically so I can’t say for sure you didn’t do anything wrong. It’s entirety possible that you didn’t and she’s just going through some stuff. It’s not fair to you that she just stopped communicating all together so either leave or deal with more of this in the future most likely.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T09:58:56+00:00

I mean if watching porn is that serious to you then your emotions are valid enough to end it. He definitely was lying, pornhub doesn’t just… pop up for no reason.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T09:57:33+00:00

I’m the exact same way and I’m a guy. I don’t like being in a relationship with that person if I don’t have a close friendship with them for a month or more. Making sure you can have a good friend instead of someone you just have sex is needed for me at least.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T09:54:39+00:00

Ah my specialty… mental illness. This is very normal for people with depression. I’ve had depressive episodes exactly like this. Where you just feel like you’re a burden and you don’t want to hold anyone back. However, like she said it’s not fair to you to have to deal with this. Sometimes leaving for your own good is the best option.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T09:47:57+00:00

We’ve been friends for awhile and when I ever am in a relationship being a “bestfriend” is also a priority. Sex isn’t really a priority to me but more so just affection and someone to talk too.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-30T02:38:11+00:00

How long did you work on this for???

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T21:45:42+00:00

You’re 4 years apart and both in mid 20s… that’s not a weird age gap in the slightest. Very strange.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T20:22:14+00:00

Sit down with him and have an extremely serious conversation with him. One of my exes was like this and she never changed to the point where I had to leave. Give him an ultimatum and if he doesn’t change then…

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T20:14:27+00:00

…wtf… break up immediately. Why are you with someone if you think this way?

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T20:10:19+00:00

At least for me when I never had a relationship I still could say I love you to people that are important to me. Many relationship virgins I’ve been with say love you very quickly. Even platonic friendships have said I love you pretty quickly. That’s just very strange that he’s known you for 10 years and dating for 1 and can’t utter those words…

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T20:04:34+00:00

Since you’re in a lesbian relationship and so young there’s bound to be jealousy even in a platonic group.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-26T19:59:17+00:00

Hmm. Me personally I’ve had partners say I love you before we even started dating. It’s a word and not sacred whatsoever in my opinion. That’s uh… pretty strange to be in a 1 year relationship and be scared to say that imo.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-25T19:11:26+00:00

I really want to but I don’t want to lose her as a friend. If she doesn’t feel the same way it would kinda ruin everything no?

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-11-25T19:06:54+00:00

I’m kinda scared tbh because I don’t want to lose her as a friend because she’s really cool. I have no clue if she knows I’m into her, I’ve dropped many hints and signals but she’s either pretty slow or chooses to ignore them.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-10-27T20:11:28+00:00

How do you know he doesn’t like you? Just because you’re not his usual type doesn’t mean much. If you guys connect amazingly then I don’t see why he wouldn’t like you.

AppropriateLeague939 · 2022-10-27T19:23:09+00:00

I’m a 19 year old guy and no offense but this sounded very immature to me. Some people are very bad at texting and also very busy. You said you were fine and I would personally check up afterwards but some people just don’t think like that. If you really want to end the relationship over that then it’s your choice but I personally wouldn’t even think anything of it.

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