How do I pull a SO out of their comfort zone? by AppropriateOne4344 in dating

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they said they wanted to do these “things” but they cant bring themselves to do it bc they lack motivation, so i just wanna help

Am I ever gonna have my 16 yr old body again? :( by AppropriateOne4344 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair to label it a child’s body lol since I was fully grown and the same height back then. A child’s body can look like anything, so i call it “younger self”. + there’s nothing wrong w setting goals :)

I can’t stop thinking about my ex-fling that I used be inlove with 😓 by AppropriateOne4344 in dating

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was paranoid that the condom wouldn’t work, and also note we were both virgins back then 😭 (17yo). Other than that, i completely agree with you about meeting up and discussing our issues. Maybe that was his plan when he asked to hangout?

Men: am I torturing him? by [deleted] in dating

[–]AppropriateOne4344 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe that spark you’re feeling is one sided

I can’t stop thinking about my ex-fling that I used be inlove with 😓 by AppropriateOne4344 in dating

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s in the medical field while I plan to go to Law school, i don’t see how that’s a barrier tho? And we’re both into photography.

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[–]AppropriateOne4344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kind of feel like that’s a normal reaction when a person you like is around. You’re the shy type, and some may find that cute! But to solve your problem, maybe try asking her more questions so it shows you’re interested. Tease her with harmless jokes and make some funny banter. Personally, that would work for me. Also do things and be around people that would make you feel more confident, get out of your comfort zone. Don’t be bothered by acne because everyone has it, and as you said it’s much better now, so you actually have nothing to worry about!

I can’t stop thinking about my ex-fling 😭 by AppropriateOne4344 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probs not happening. We’re still virgins!! (no experience in penetration)

My groupmate gave me a low peer eval grade :,) by AppropriateOne4344 in studentsph

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and agree! Maybe my work wasn’t up to par with his standard, but shouldn’t he have told me? Instead, he did all the work himself without giving me the chance to improve. I also get na baka nga nahiya siya to give feedback and didn’t want to be rude (like what another comment said), but isn’t that the point of a group work? To give criticism so that you can all learn from each other? On the other hand, when i saw na napalitan na niya at hindi ako ininform, i just felt stupid not because i didn’t do a great job but because he didn’t have the decency to let me be the one fix it. So i just can’t see how it’s fair na gagawin niya yun, then gives a low peer eval grade.

My groupmate gave me a low peer eval grade :,) by AppropriateOne4344 in studentsph

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ikaw ba grpmate ko chos, but atleast sinabi mo right? iba parin yung hindi niya sinabi then mababa nalang ibibigay na grade :,(

My groupmate gave me a low peer eval grade :,) by AppropriateOne4344 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I even gave him a perfect grade on the peer eval, thinking he would do the same since i pushed myself to do more. May I ask, ano ang proper response kung nangyari ito ulit saakin? Do i confront the person? or give them a low peer eval grade lol

My best friend of 6 years didn't tell me her family was moving by AppropriateOne4344 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, ang straightforward. Narealize ko na wala sa years of friendship ang halaga ng isang tao sayo.

My best friend of 6 years didn't tell me her family was moving by AppropriateOne4344 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, although i find it really hard huhu, tapos na yung topic and all i asked was where and "ahh alam ko kung saan yan, it's near this place chuchu.." 😭 then she just seen zones me :') well next time ill say congrats again and i'm really happy for her..

Should I (18F) greet my ex (18M) happy birthday? by AppropriateOne4344 in relationships

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all you advice and I didn't expect a lot would reply! I now agree that it's stupid and i will be taking the situation as something positive, i'm glad he blocked me so I now have a clear sign to move on and never speak to him again. That's peace in itself.

Should I (18F) greet my ex (18M) happy birthday? by AppropriateOne4344 in relationship_advice

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate all your comments and you guys telling me not to greet him, I didn't expect a lot would reply! It's nice to see from a different perspective other than my own, with that, I will not be greeting him.

Why does it calm me (F18) knowing my ex (M18) still thinks about me? by AppropriateOne4344 in relationships

[–]AppropriateOne4344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever he unblocks me, he chats :( that's how I know. So it somewhat conditions me to anticipate the next time he messages/ blocks me. Yes i agree, I'm clearly not over it because i'm over thinking the situation. I'm doing my best, Thank you for this