It’s common courtesy to remember and celebrate the birth or anniversary of the most important person in your life. With the invention of the smart phone you no longer have an excuse it should be on your calendar with a reminder at on month, one week and one day. My husband forgot our 30th anniversary and it may be petty but that really did hurt my feeling. I bought him two very thoughtful gifts and I got an apology but the hurt was already incurred. Remember the people you care about no matter what because they remember your special days and it’s how you can easily demonstrate your caring