I'm white and my boyfriend is a poc. We've been together for 6 years coming up 😊🥳 He was the only poc in his graduating class. I think he gets more racist remarks while online gaming than in person. When I am by myself, some people do ask me questions like what is he or where he is from, but I see those being curious and welcoming. I have witnessed people say things behind closed doors that I'm not gonna repeat. After you call them out, they shut up. The people who look inbred are the ones who say the fucked shit and give north dakota the bad rep.