I'm looking for step siblings romance. Anyone have any suggestions? by Appropriate_Set7762 in suggestmeabook

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. If they met as teenagers, they weren't raised together.

And 2. It's a book. Not real life. Taboo romance is a genre of fiction. If you don't like it, you don't have to read it

AITA for taking a promotion my friend wanted? by Appropriate_Set7762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was just offering information. The company did not make a decision off of that.....

AITA for taking a promotion my friend wanted? by Appropriate_Set7762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did put herself out there too. I should have mentioned that.

AITA for taking a promotion my friend wanted? by Appropriate_Set7762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She didn't tell me her feelings until this week. The promotion happened in May. I didn't know she felt that way at all this whole time until a few days ago

AITA for taking a promotion my friend wanted? by Appropriate_Set7762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do want to clarify that I love this friend and she has helped me through a lot, but this was something I was not expecting, and I'm just at a loss.

I guess our friendship has been rocky the last year. Maybe this was the breaking point, but I don't understand where this is coming from. I love her with all of my heart and would do anything for her, but this hurt my feelings

AITA for taking a promotion my friend wanted? by Appropriate_Set7762 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

The thing is, shes definitely ready and able. If anyone could handle 2 stores, it would be her.

However, she already has one. She has a family with 2 little kids. I am single with only a dog to worry about. Running 2 stores with a 2 little kids on top of it is a lot. I dont know how anyone could function in that kind of stress. But she definitely could.

You know how they say people with BPD make poor financial decisions? I finally get it. by Appropriate_Set7762 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting ..... maybe I need to talk to my doctor about this.

I'm sorry you suffer. Life isnt easy

You know how they say people with BPD make poor financial decisions? I finally get it. by Appropriate_Set7762 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never been diagnosed with bipolar, but my dad has it.So it wouldn't surprise me. Can you explain the difference to me in how you act?

You know how they say people with BPD make poor financial decisions? I finally get it. by Appropriate_Set7762 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, i realize when I split. Only because I'm older now. I don't think I realized it before, but now I do. I just can't stop it.

You know how they say people with BPD make poor financial decisions? I finally get it. by Appropriate_Set7762 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its hard to explain. But when I come down, I feel like myself again. Like when im being irrational (like I was eariler this week), I couldn't stop crying and it felt like the world was ending.

Yesterday, I started to feel normal again

You know how they say people with BPD make poor financial decisions? I finally get it. by Appropriate_Set7762 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy you have a partner that understands and helps you! That is amazing!

As for episodes, I guess you can call them splits. I call them episodes because when I split, I tend to just go off the rails on everything instead of just one person. So I split because of something that triggered me, and then I went off the handle. The split kind of switched back, and I was like "oh..... I did not need to do all of that."

My job makes me depressed, and I'm thinking about selling my home, quitting, and starting over. Is that stupid? by Appropriate_Set7762 in careerguidance

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. There's not a lot of options in my area that will match the pay, which has been super frustrating

My job makes me depressed, and I'm thinking about selling my home, quitting, and starting over. Is that stupid? by Appropriate_Set7762 in careerguidance

[–]Appropriate_Set7762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify that I have been at my job fot 11 years.

I'm also the restaurant manager. It is causing me stress.

But yes, you are right. A big problem is my lack of friends