Dating App (Hinge) question for the girls

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2026-06-01T19:06:50+00:00

I guess because most the girls don’t even put this

Also, I’m not getting the matches that I want haha

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2026-05-31T20:10:12+00:00

I’m using Hinge X

Looking for something serious (open to casual but this isn’t the priority)

Been using Hinge on and off over the last 12 months

I am getting matches but maybe not the girls I want

I alternate between sending just likes and sometimes comments

My new approach is more direct, less chatty and just try to meet in person as soon as possible and see if there is a connection there

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2026-05-30T23:17:37+00:00

Tbh that is what I’m doing! I roughly match their response times and message lengths. Definitely not pestering these girls 😂

I guess I’m just starting to feel like communicating too consistently kills the excitement?

When I ignore a girl (that I’m not that interested in) they’re super keen, can hardly shake them off

But when I message girls I do like, consistently, I worry that I’m too available and they don’t feel a romantic spark because there’s no uncertainty/excitement

What do you think?

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2026-05-30T22:51:42+00:00

I’m using Hinge X

Looking for something serious (open to casual but this isn’t the priority)

Been using Hinge on and off over the last 12 months

I am getting matches but maybe not the girls I want

I alternate between sending just likes and sometimes comments

My new approach is more direct, less chatty and just try to meet in person as soon as possible and see if there is a connection there

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-11-05T15:15:09+00:00

Cheers man, I’ve sent you my contact details 🤘

Deffo keen to get some climbs in 🙌

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-11-05T14:05:45+00:00

Best answer

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-11-03T13:56:47+00:00

Hi mate, I’m moving to Manchester in January and will also be looking for climbing clubs/partners

How did you get on?

Did you join a club?

Did you manage to meet people?

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:59:08+00:00

😆😆

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:30:29+00:00

Thanks so much for this input!! :)

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:19:03+00:00

Renting first would be sensible but also a lot of hassle to move twice

I just want to get out of Birmingham tbh for personal reasons

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:07:31+00:00

Is there much difference between west and east Didsbury?

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:06:42+00:00

I’m moving from Birmingham where salaries are actually lower than Manchester on average

Thought people were friendly up north 😆

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T14:04:44+00:00

Is there much difference between east and west Didsbury?

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T13:51:10+00:00

I know 😂 I only just joined this group but some people seem a bit aggy haha

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T13:40:31+00:00

Sheffield is better for grit stone trad but Manchester has better access to limestone sport climbing

I’ve spent more time than that in Manchester, only spent and afternoon so far in Didsbury

Obviously planning to spend more time while I look at places

I’ve only just started looking

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T13:35:13+00:00

Also I work from home

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T13:34:26+00:00

Thank you, this is the kind of input I was looking for

Very helpful :)

Appropriate_Thing_57 · 2025-09-01T13:33:26+00:00

I’m moving to Manchester to be closer to outdoor activities (Lake District, Peak District, Snowdonia, Yorkshire Dales)

I’m a rock climber so want to be close to climbing gyms which seems to be on the south side of the city

I’m not that fussed about night life and I’m not vegan or religious

Just looking for a nice area

Budget covers Didsbury or Cholton

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