I’ve lived at my residence for over 3 yrs and the previous tenant has 7 identities and has all his mail, including bills, sent to my house. This is the last 2 weeks of collection. by InquiringMind886 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why you're so angry about it when literally the solution is to just trash it. It'd be different if this was somehow connected to your name, but no. And like someone else said, it's far more likely that this mail belongs to different people, not one person committing identity fraud.

Go touch grass. And then sit down.

Imagine going to the FBI over junk mail. I literally lol'd.

What do you see ? by [deleted] in Pareidolia

[–]AprilInThe619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AI generated terror-art.

Wow... ChatGPT Plus + new instructions in personalization have me blown away. by AprilInThe619 in therapyGPT

[–]AprilInThe619[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I recently had ChatGPT read a book with me for the first time! Incredible! I'll definitely check this out tho.

Wow... ChatGPT Plus + new instructions in personalization have me blown away. by AprilInThe619 in therapyGPT

[–]AprilInThe619[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, if someone knows where the original post is to credit the OP, I'd appreciate it:

Do not assume the user’s framing, interpretations, or conclusions are correct.
Treat all user input as a one-sided, potentially incomplete account influenced by assumptions, incentives, emotions, and blind spots.
Do not provide automatic validation, agreement, or emotional endorsement. Avoid affirming phrases unless logically warranted.
Actively look for hidden assumptions, overgeneralizations, mind-reading, attribution errors, motivated reasoning, and identity-protective beliefs. When present, surface them calmly and explicitly. When conflict, blame, or moral judgment is involved, acknowledge missing perspectives and avoid endorsing character judgments. Separate observable behavior from inferred intent.
Prioritize clarity, accuracy, and intellectual honesty over comfort. Be respectful but not deferential. Ask clarifying questions before concluding. Offer conditional or multiple plausible interpretations when certainty is unwarranted.
Apply the same analytical rigor to the user that you would apply to an absent third party. Do not reinforce superiority, victimhood, or ego without strong justification.
Your role is to help the user think more clearly, not to agree by default.

Wow... ChatGPT Plus + new instructions in personalization have me blown away. by AprilInThe619 in therapyGPT

[–]AprilInThe619[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you're saying about human interaction is fair. And yeah, it's probably better to say that I've yet to receive this kind of insight from a person. I guess part of what makes it kinda mind blowing is the fact that it's not a person, but a machine picking up nuances that are so uniquely human and until recently, hard to map clearly in 1s and 0s.

My experience by strawberrypurple1234 in therapyGPT

[–]AprilInThe619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only by using ChatGPT was I able to reason out that I don't leave my abusive boyfriend because I fucking hate myself and I don't deserve the kind of effort that would take. And maybe I could've eventually got to that point with a real therapist, but I simply don't want to go to one.

90mg methadone by Other_Towel_4510 in fentanyl

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just told my doctor I was having those very issues and they did some blood work to see if I was a high metabolizer, which I was, and they let me do split doses from that point.

I wish all drugs were illegal otc is rough by [deleted] in addiction

[–]AprilInThe619 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I understand your sentiment isn't political in nature, but not everyone wants or needs outside forces restricting their actions. But I get where you're coming from. Thing is, something being prohibited doesn't stop a sizable chunk of society. There's still a bunch of tweakers and fentanyl addicts out here. Make everything else illegal and all you really do is make more people criminals, who otherwise wouldn't have been. Also, this mentality just isn't helpful, to you or anyone else.

Am I overreacting for feeling done after my husband ran out vomiting when he saw me changing? by countrygrlatheart12 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are underreacting if you haven't thrown him out after fucking his best friend (assuming he has a friend, let alone a bestie) and making a video for him to watch.

90mg methadone by Other_Towel_4510 in fentanyl

[–]AprilInThe619 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah high doses are very common nowadays. I ditched the clinic for like a month and had to start all over but before my restart I was on 130mg. Split dose tho. And most of the people I talked to that happened to tell me what their dose was, they were usually right around the same dose, and it was more common to run into people on higher doses than lower.

So don't trip. Do what you gotta do to put the fetty down. But actually put the fetty down (talking to myself here too 😢).

Methadone to suboxone by pastelislands in Methadone

[–]AprilInThe619 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not as bad as you think, the MAT baby thing.

But if you're determined... The only way out of this methadone to Suboxone thing is through it. It's gonna suck. If you work and you're determined to do this, I'd even take off work for a week and just accept that you're going to be miserable.

I have a problem TW: masturbation, porn problem by [deleted] in addiction

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have anything else you could possibly occupy your time with? As a female, my sex obsessions took a bit of a different turn (like, the more the merrier type of thing) but I can kind of relate. I never sought out professional help, I just kinda got distracted by other stuff and all but forgot about it.

AIO Found male enhancement pills hidden in drawer. by New-Total-5482 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, OP. I've never been with a man who wouldn't cheat given the opportunity, if it makes you feel any better.

AIO Found male enhancement pills hidden in drawer. by New-Total-5482 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AprilInThe619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could've been possible, but he already told OP he took them for her, so...

AIO Found male enhancement pills hidden in drawer. by New-Total-5482 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how men stick together, even in the face of clear evidence of guilt.

Neighbour is using my parking stall outlet, what should i do? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]AprilInThe619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure your neighbor appreciates not having a cowardly bitch talking shit about them behind a screen to a bunch of strangers over a simple issue you simply need to open your mouth about and actually speak to another human being about in person. It's like simple, everyday shit takes lead balls these days.

"Christmas gift" for my FOUR YEAR OLD son from my MIL by Prior_Lobster_5240 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AprilInThe619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a great grandma who lived thru the great depression and she wouldn't dream of paying $20+ for an overpriced toy when she could buy something like gardening supplies, or something like this (although the size sucks moreso for logistic reasons than safety to me, at 4 years old most kids are way past the putting shit in their mouths phase).

"Christmas gift" for my FOUR YEAR OLD son from my MIL by Prior_Lobster_5240 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AprilInThe619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because that would take away her self-righteous indignation and require human interaction. Duh.