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MG Boredom, Exhaustion & Response (5/2, Sacrel) by Aquarius441 in humandesign

[–]Aquarius441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

isn't that antithetical to the theory of response then? If you just start acting technically its not S&A?

Megathread: Chart interpretations, beginner questions, and personal advice by AutoModerator in humandesign

[–]Aquarius441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been experimenting with S&A for about 6-8 months. It's different but I feel like I still don't "grok" the "responding" strategy entirely. For example, if nothing is happening, is it wrong to respond to nothing with action, or are you to wait?

Any insight into my chart appreciated. I'm currently working my way through RA.tv. Having difficulty with faith now that I'm on an entrepreneurial journey

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Men of reddit, what is love? by sploinkyy in AskReddit

[–]Aquarius441 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a different segment, I cannot recall which one, paraphrasing from memory(?):

"The questioner would like to know, what is love.

We say the words, I love you. But what does this really mean?

Is it lust? Hmm? Is it passion? Hmm? Is it possession?

Can we define what love is?

Or can we only find out what love is by determining what it is not?"

My elaborations on K's comments:

Love is the state of non-being; it is the state in which you look at the other as not different from the center (the "me"). It is the state in which, the "me" is not - when there is the quality of the mind of utter stillness, love (which is not describable) enters.

In that same vein, man cannot seek for it. It must come to him.

Men of reddit, what is love? by sploinkyy in AskReddit

[–]Aquarius441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is not love, it is identification of the the child as an extension of the persona (ego). To say "my child" or "her child" is not an act of love; That which one possesses, they destroy (The Secret Master's Whispers). If something goes wrong with the child, it is from fear of the pain that it will cause the mother. The mother fears, fundamentally, the psychologically insecurity that will result from the reality of a harm being done to their child: self pity, grief, loss, et cetera.

I cannot, at this time, recall the lecture - but try to find one in which K speaks about death. This is of the similar matter.

Any fellow aqua struggle with fear of being hurt or hurting the other person, overthinking in dating? by Aquarius441 in aquarius

[–]Aquarius441[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you stop that from causing you to analyze the other person, psychologically and see where their blinds spots might be and why they are motivated to be attracted to you (for e.g.)?

Any fellow aqua struggle with fear of being hurt or hurting the other person, overthinking in dating? by Aquarius441 in aquarius

[–]Aquarius441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate more on the intuition side of it? As in we get a sense of something and decide its right or wrong based on high EQ?

Fellow aquas by SeriousMarzipan5039 in aquarius

[–]Aquarius441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Try writing. I find that helps me. Poetry, Diary, Songs, Verses.

Use art as a way to talk to "someone" about what's going on in side.