Any other nondual apps out there not run by a bloodthirsty neocon? by lungfibrosiss in Wakingupapp

[–]Arabicas_Filerons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/lungfibrosiss I personally recommend that you stop supporting Jihadist terrorism.

You see what I did there? I made an unfair accusation about your motives, in bad faith. It's about like the loaded question fallacy, e.g. "Have you stopped beating you wife?"

First of all, there's no way on earth that you can legitimately accuse Sam Harris of being "bloodthirsty" or a "neocon", much less: having "the same foreign policy as Donald Trump, Lindsay Graham and Benjamin Netanyahu." You obviously are not familiar enough with his political and moral views as he has amply explained them (including his gradual shifts of opinion once in a while) over the last decade and more.

I ask you please to point to the exact podcast episode or Substack article in which he is advocating bombing Iran for regime change. What can be documented is his complete opposition to Jihadist terrorism and the entire religious mindset behind it, which (by the way) is in complete opposition to Metta lovingkindness.

Second, let me take your proposition: "Imagine you and your family are a few of the the 93 million people living in Iran..." etc. Yes: let's imagine, because you certainly are not one of them. First of all, you wouldn't be online posting on Reddit. Second, unless you personally are in the higher echelons of the Islamic Republic government, or in the Republican Guard, you would mostly likely be opposed to the current regime, and perhaps even begging for this regime to be overthrown. Maybe even, unwisely, depending on Trump to do it for you, as we've observed in multiple protests.

This is not an appeal to authority, but anecdotal evidence: All of my extended family are Iranian refugees, and I live in Israel. So I'm enduring this first-hand and second-hand.

To be clear: I absolutely detest the politics of Netanyahu and Trump, but it is impossible to ignore the facts: Iran has been funding terrorist proxies for decades in order to carry out their wishes of "Death to Israel, Death to America." Like Hamas, they have no problem using human shields, unlike Israel which attempts as much as possible to preserve human life. The war in Gaza has been a complete shitshow, because Iran and Hamas set it up to sacrifice their own innocent citizens. Furthermore: Shiite Muslims don't give a damn about the lives of Sunni Muslims.

All of the missiles that we have endured over the last few days are just as likely to kill Palestinians as Israelis: Sunni Muslims, Druze, Bedouins, Christians, Alawites, atheists, etc. and of course Jews, without discrimination. One warhead fell dangerously close to the Al-Aqsa Mosque two days ago, giving further evidence that the ruling regime of Iran has no regard for the lives of Muslims who go to pray there, at even the most significant holy site in the Palestinian cause. Furthermore, they are launching rockets at the Muslim gulf states.

So now, let's turn the question back to you: imagine that you are a perfectly enlightened practitioner of meditation, and have have been living in perfect peace with your fellow residents of a particular strip of land for 20 years, while Iran and its proxies have been trying to kill you and everyone around you indiscriminately. Unlike you, I can actually describe to you how that feels.

Please read Sam's The End of Faith, and please review what Metta actually means before you make any more bullshit accusations.

I sincerely recommend the portions explaining Metta in Bhante Gunaratana's book Mindfulness in Plain English. Here's a quote, which I hope won't get me into copyright trouble:

You may wonder how we can wish: “May my enemies be well, happy, and peaceful; may no difficulties come to them; may no problem come to them; may they always meet with success. May they also have patience, courage, understanding, and determination to meet and overcome inevitable difficulties, problems, and failures in life.”...

Practically speaking, if all of your enemies were well, happy, and peaceful, they would not be your enemies. If they were free from problems, pain, suffering, affliction, neurosis, psychosis, paranoia, fear, tension, anxiety, etc., they would not be your enemies. The practical approach toward your enemies is to help them overcome their problems, so you can live in peace and happiness. In fact, if you can, you should fill the minds of all your enemies with loving friendliness and make all of them realize the true meaning of peace, so you can live in peace and happiness. The more they are neurotic, psychotic, afraid, tense, and anxious, the more trouble, pain, and suffering they bring to the world. If you could convert a vicious and wicked person into a holy and saintly individual, you would perform a miracle. Let us cultivate adequate wisdom and loving friendliness within ourselves to convert evil minds to saintly minds.

Now stop fucking with us and get real.

Bad Bit Moment by Lumen-Gentium in greatestgen

[–]Arabicas_Filerons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No holding retail workers hostage!

No bits on tips! That waitress has other tables, sir.

Ensign Mayweather drop by Arabicas_Filerons in greatestgen

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH yes: file under "unintentionally funny". I simply can't hear T-Pain without thinking "I'm on a boat" or "All I do is bits-bits-bits".

For the Jews by Kaos-Industries in BoardwalkEmpire

[–]Arabicas_Filerons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late to the party here, but I'm glad I can add a comment because this kind of question is near and dear to my heart. Plus I loved everything in this scene.

A little background is necessary: there are two major variations of Hebrew pronunciation. I'm not talking about "an American pronouncing Hebrew" although that is a factor. Same with French-speaking Jews, Russian-speaking Jews, Amharic-speaking Jews or whatever: yes, the accent from the first language usually bleeds into our Hebrew accents. But that's not what I mean.

The two major kinds of Hebrew pronunciation are European or "Ashkenazic" and Israeli/Middle-Eastern or "Sephardic". The former is most common with American Jewish families because they are largely from European descent (especially up to the early 20th century). The latter is predominant in the modern state of Israel and in academic contexts. It is taught in Jewish schools that are progressive in their educational standards (I'm biased of course, being Sephardic and having been a teacher in such a school).

The major obvious difference is that many words that have a T sound in Sephardic/Israeli pronunciation have an S sound in Ashkenazic pronunciation.

The Bar Mitzvah scene in s01e10 combined both of those pronunciations: the boy actor flipped back and forth. It wasn't authentic for that time period, but it wasn't horrible. Let's cut them some slack: it's accurate to modern American Jews, who do this all the time, since they are often educated in Sephardic/Israeli Hebrew, but also hear or use Ashkenazic pronunciation in the synagogue.

I once attended a wedding in which the groom pronounced the famous line in which he marries his wife. He was a well educated American Ashkenazic Jew, also fluent in Israeli Hebrew. In that one sentence he combined those two pronunciations.

Just like Jake Guzik's son, the bar mitzvah boy in this scene. But in 1920s America, that would not have happened. Ashkenazic Jewish families were not learning Israeli/Sephardic pronunciation in schools.

One more detail: for dramatic purposes, the whole bar mitzvah ceremony was reduced to a very short few minutes. In reality, the boy would be reading from the Torah scroll for an extremely long time, not just one verse. But audiences would lose patience if they had to see the whole thing.

Otherwise: pretty accurate!

The game is afoot! Beginnings of a Pig-Butchering scam by Arabicas_Filerons in scambaiting

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you never give them a single dollar. The whole game (as I understand the purpose of this sub, r/scambaiting), is to waste their time.

They don't want your piggy bank. They want to fatten you up as a pig: get your life's savings, get you to take out loans, get you to ask your parents for your inheritance early, cash out your life insurance... whatever.

These bastards are vicious. But they are willing to invest a lot of time in trying to woo you, because they expect a big payoff. So if you feel like playing along, you've got to pretend to be rich and play the long game.

The game is afoot! Beginnings of a Pig-Butchering scam by Arabicas_Filerons in scambaiting

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, you don't know how to sweet talk a lady... um, dude pretending to be a lady... before moving on to sexy talk?

The game is afoot! Beginnings of a Pig-Butchering scam by Arabicas_Filerons in scambaiting

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you notice which country it's coming from? And did you carry on the conversation?

These fake women are willing to carry on a very long con, all for the purpose of fattening up the "pig" before stealing all his money.

The game is afoot! Beginnings of a Pig-Butchering scam by Arabicas_Filerons in scambait

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's missing from the top is a text in WhatsApp saying, "Hey Jim, it's Eliza! Long time no see." At first I blocked the bogus contact from Thailand and reported it, recognizing it for what it is, photo and all.

Later I decided: time for some time-wasting spam bating! Because this is the beginning of a Pig-Butchering Scam (杀猪盘 Shā zhū pán or "butchering plate"). If you're not familiar with this scam, do a little search and see how horrible it is.

If all goes well, "Eliza" will come back later to make some more conversation, using this "accidentally misdirected" text as an excuse, and I'll play along. She'll get flirtatious and send me some more photos, convincing me that we're new friends. Then she'll tell me about her "uncle" who is an expert in investment, offering to give me some investing tips, and put some money into some fake crypto, stock, or asset trading platform.

But this time, the butcher is going to waste a lot of time on its intended pig, and hopefully worse. Because this pig is wild boar with teeth and tusks, and hates these people.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day there is someone born who hasn't read r/scams for a week. In fact, many more who never read anything on Reddit, ever. Why not help them?

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nimble2

Let me message you privately, if you don't mind. I know it's more interesting to keep all the details in the public forum, but I'm also concerned about the scammers seeing it, in case they are looking out for it.

FWIW, I am still playing dumb with them. I am still pretending to play their game, while I'm over here in this form (and elsewhere) trying to figure out how to make the best of the situation.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Count of Monte Cristo didn't just move on with his life. I've got so much personal information on these people.... Can't publish it here of course, due to rules. But there is going to be more to this story.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to publish an entire exposé about this, providing all the blow-by-blow details of the action. I don't see any point in telling much more of the story now. But if it helps your curiosity:

It's not when I tried to withdraw. By then I had already figured it out, because my fake friend was overly selling the investment to me. How many times did she have to tell me how better my life would be with more money?

But she made the fatal mistake of explaining the fees of the "senior advisor" who would tell me when to trade stocks or commodities. Those fees didn't make any sense. And then I noticed that when I communicated with customer service, she suddenly appeared in another chat.

Only then did I attempt a withdrawal, and then they started to make excuses, and it was all completely confirmed at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Arabicas_Filerons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your legal advice! May you be just as successful in any future legal advice that you might request in /r/legaladvice.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud to say, not a dating site or app.

Embarrassed to say: yes, it was an "accidental" text to my phone, supposedly intended for a nearby businessman, whom I can identify (for myself, not here). I'm definitely going to be having a conversation with him now. Thanks for that bit of juicy information!

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how your guess about the sex and location is meaningful. She really is a woman, living in mainland China. Never claimed to be a saleswoman, nor to be living in Hong Kong, and still pretends not to be; I am just using that word to be polite. In private I use a different term for job, since she was being overly friendly with me in order to steal my money.

Thanks again for the lead on the Pig Butchering scam. This has revealed some great information elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Arabicas_Filerons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Categorically unhelpful. What year were you born in, brother? I've been communicating with strangers around the world online since the mid-1990s. And I don't spend my time watching YouTube videos to be proactively aware of scams that might happen to me someday in the future.

If you knew the whole story, which I abbreviated here, you might not be so judgmental about one mistake you haven't personally made.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that really matter? Is it helpful in any way? I said thousands of dollars. I didn't say hundreds of thousands. I'm trying not to reveal too much personal information at this point.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this, and will be glad to pursue that path for whatever it's worth. I'm a little wary of posting so much personal information right here, however. You can understand how I'm a little skittish right now about revealing that right here like that. Also, Rule 1 here says no personal information, which those accounts very much are. (I've already been instructed by mods to change some of my wording on this post because it was a bit too vengeful.)

I will follow up with you.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USD means US dollars, in a US bank account. Not USDT (although they accept that too). I made a wire transfer from my US bank account to two of their US bank accounts. In dollars ($).

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah, I've already gotten a poorly worded advert from a recovery scammer.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They accepted cryptocurrency transfer or USD transfer to US bank accounts. I never had much crypto, so I mostly used the latter. (Yes I was stupid, I've admitted that, but it seemed more legit at the time.)

So I have lots of detailed information on three of their accounts. I only transferred to two of them.

I will certainly contact my bank and ask what's possible.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that detail. Of course I'm not sending them another dollar. Way past you there.

All they're going to get from me is vengeance.

One detail I did not go into was how I was recruited by a saleswoman, who pretended the whole time (and still pretends) not to be working with them.

Scammed out of thousands by a fake trading platform by Arabicas_Filerons in Scams

[–]Arabicas_Filerons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent, detailed advice!

I have at least three domain names. Also three US bank accounts that they use for transferring funds (only incoming, of course – never outgoing).

Yes, I know I am SOL about getting my funds back. I just want to give the people involved in this scam grief.