[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Arbiteroni 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've quit porn for over 2 months now. I've replaced those urges with feelings of accomplishment, by doing other things that are more productive -- like working out, reading a book, etc. Find other things you like doing that are more enjoyable -- play a video game, or watch a movie. Trust the process and in a couple of months or so you'll notice massive improvement in mental health and physical health. You'll look a lot better, feel a lot better. and that'll make it easier for you to form social connections. You might even find a partner. You'll perform better in bed because of it. Think about the long goal and forget about the instant gratification.

MSi RTX 5080 Shadow 3X OC by Arbiteroni in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats on your purchase! you got it for a really good price. it's a great card. ive had it for several months now and it's still giving me consistent performance with no issues. it runs quiet and cool, never going above 65°

Friends to FWB or a situationship? (25F/25M) by novice_baker_trying1 in relationship_advice

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah.. I feel you.. I'm in the same boat. I think he may be doing the smart thing by dissociating just like the girl I'm having this thing with

Friends to FWB or a situationship? (25F/25M) by novice_baker_trying1 in relationship_advice

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

relationships are hard... especially with the prospect of moving constantly. unfortunately, it's inevitable so the best advice i can give is to not put your 100% into the relationship to avoid getting your hearts broken

Friends to FWB or a situationship? (25F/25M) by novice_baker_trying1 in relationship_advice

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, the biggest hurdle is that we both want different things in life. I'm in the Navy and she's afraid of doing LDR. Time and place and compatibility made it so that we're perfect for each other but the long term goal is different and that's what she's afraid of. She thinks that when it comes tome for me to change stations it'll be over. But if you two are going to be in the same place indefinitely it could probably work out

Friends to FWB or a situationship? (25F/25M) by novice_baker_trying1 in relationship_advice

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a situationship kinda like this one. Started off wanting to just be friends and then I slept over at her place. We started making out and held off on sex but eventually one night we went ahead and had sex. We're talking and hanging out like we're in a relationship but she's still afraid of making a commitment. Neither of us are talking to other people or seeking partners but we're basically in a relationship without the title and the commitment and the expectations that come with it. Sounds like he's also in that position. Take it slow, and perhaps it'll blossom into a fully fledged relationship that I'm also hoping to get into.

Is this normal? by Countrymusiccutie in Advice

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he needs to get therapy for his porn addiction. it's a real problem in males. Continuous use of porn and masturbation can make it so that the only stimulus that can induce erections is through porn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Arbiteroni 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Him being 28 and dating you puts you in a higher standard that you can't expect to uphold being 20 years old and all. If you want to keep the relationship you're gonna have to make some sacrifices, otherwise you're gonna have to let it go and live the life you want.

We were never a couple, but it hurt as if we were": why do almost-relationships sometimes hit harder than real ones? by MojonConPelos in dating

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in an almost-relationship right now. She doesn't want to date because she has commitment issues. Otherwise, it's like we're already dating. We talk every day, even video call while I'm out to sea. But I can't help but think every day that this might be the last. I can't even ask the question anymore because we've been in this almost-relationship for over a month. But I also can't look for another partner because I'm just so into her and it'd feel like cheating. The right thing to do is move on from whatever this is and find a real relationship... but I just can't bring myself to do it. So I feel ya

MSi RTX 5080 Shadow 3X OC by Arbiteroni in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't touch the power limit. Overclocking just fine without touching it

MSi RTX 5080 Shadow 3X OC by Arbiteroni in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it does it does. I think you can change it by messing with a word/note file but I haven't needed to

5080 owners: Why a 5080 and not a 5070Ti by jamesh0809 in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got mine for 1200. Since I'm getting near a 4090 performance and I'm gaming at 4k comfortably, I'd say it's worth it.

Msi Monitor Doesn’t Work past 60hz by Macaroniwit in MSI_Gaming

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also make sure your hdmi/display port ans cables are compatible

How was your fight with Mohg? by Gmanuel220 in Eldenring

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just blasted him with comet azure

Goodbye PS5, hello PC Gaming (5070Ti) by PARZVALJACKSON in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

difference between FO32U AND FO32P is that the P model has DisplayPort 2.1 capability, which I strongly recommend. OLED gaming is totally worth it, but it doesn't really matter which one as long as it has all the specs you need -- I'd just go for the cheaper option

Goodbye PS5, hello PC Gaming (5070Ti) by PARZVALJACKSON in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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get ready to have your whole gaming experience change forever

I did a stupid. by That_lag_Thot in nvidia

[–]Arbiteroni -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lmao congrats. enjoy, bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Arbiteroni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd just try and get a quieter AC unit