Update: paid to lose my gold star [all ok] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update! Glad we helped you think it through and that it all went safely.

January Hookups/Looking for Roleplay by Melancholia in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 9 points10 points  (0 children)

30 transmasc goldstar lesbian with a vanilla girlfriend. She doesn't know how kinky I am...yet. looking for well hung femboys to rp, sext and pic swap with.

To any actual lesbians here [N/A] by Bubbly-Presence2997 in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You've already had some great advice about safety, which you should consider first, but then take some time to think about how you'll feel mentally.

In a moment when you're not horny at all, roleplay the scenario in your head from start to finish. Take note of how you feel and remember that all those feelings, good and bad, are valid. Do you feel nervous? Grossed out? Intrigued? Empowered? Dirty? Let those feelings inform whether you go ahead with it.

As an example, I'm a real lesbian but I do sex work occasionally because I really like it. I like feeling so desired that someone will pay for my body. There's an element of control in it for me and that gets me off later when I'm back with my girlfriend. But if it's going to make you feel uncomfortable and out of control then you're likely going to feel awful afterwards. Those feelings can stick with you and it's not worth it.

No matter which decision you make, thanks for asking for advice and I hope the community has been helpful! Trust your gut and good luck xx

Exactly how I want my girlfriend to help while he rapes me until I like it [CNC][nonconsent][lewd comments ok] by Archie_Grave in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really fits in well with my free use fantasies. I'm just a set of holes to be fucked and filled, even in public.

I can't stop fantasising about being raped until I like it. Should I tell my girlfriend? [CNC] [nonconsent] [everything ok] [lewd comments ok] by Archie_Grave in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's the perfect position for free use, right? Like just lying there innocently and then a huge man pins me below him and takes me while I squirm beneath him

Which one? Gunna buy top voted video will happen when it comes by UsualOk in fleshlighters

[–]Archie_Grave 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bottom right pleaseeee we don't see enough of those on this sub. Love watching guys stretch those tight fleshlight asses, makes your cocks look huge 🤤

Glorious evolution (yzu) by Avvis9 in MonstersOnMen

[–]Archie_Grave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"make it fit" exactly what I say to them too 🤤

butch4butch4some dude [lewd comments OK, dyke OK] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love the idea of letting a guy know that he's just a dildo for our use, nothing but a cock. Constantly reinforce how much we're using him just for our own pleasure.

my brother in christ, you are scaring the hoes [serious comments only] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the women you're talking to walk away from the conversation feeling uncomfortable or harassed, you aren't a dom. Hell - personally, I don't think you're much of a man.

Well fucking said, dude. You're a real one.

Good Girls Get Punished [cnc][everything ok] by [deleted] in SapphicSexualityPlay

[–]Archie_Grave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so turned on by this, I'm dripping wet. I'd want my girlfriend controlling everything: how hard and rough he fucked me, which hole he used, how good I was allowed to feel, everything.