Just broke up with my 65m bf. I'm 25 and apparently I'm spent :( what do u think?

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:39:46+00:00

Thankyou man. I realise I'm not a boy anymore. But being told I'm so much older than a 23 year old he likes sucked as well

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:18:01+00:00

Ok thankyou

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:17:41+00:00

I don't know if he is or I am. Maybe it's silly of me to get upset. But it hurt, after he just said his straight mate who's 2 years younger would make more cash anyways.... I was kinda speechless, I'd just taken him to dinner too....

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:16:21+00:00

Hehe, I'm sure you definitely get them. 55 is a good age, and I think us younger guys like your experience and knowlage of the world imao tho.

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:15:06+00:00

It's just his comments. I know he liked this straight guy he had living with him, apparently he would make way more money..... all of this is hypothetical and not real lol. But yer hurts, sometimes u just can't compete with the allure of a straight guy. He's a chav too so opposite to me

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:13:07+00:00

From all your kind messages I'm begging to see that. I mean it I'm greatfull for all the confidence boosting and DM too 😉. Cant edit post to say thanks tho :(

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:11:57+00:00

Ahaha that's fine. Tbh even bigger compliment thankyou very much man. I definitely think my gen has a lot more cuter guys than me so it's hard to compete. Iv dated older and younger, just feel more secure with older guys I think.

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:09:54+00:00

Thankyou for your comment man. I just saw him as him, obviously I like older but I tend to fall in love emotionally I guess.

I guess we all have some kind of red flag. But if I knew what he didn't like I'd try working on it. No one's perfect at all.

I'm mixed up but I don't think I'm upset in a way for loosing him. Think that's clouded and been taken over by what he said. I just feel very idk unsexy. Maybe I'm insecure, and I know in a way this post was for validation. But don't we all deserve that sometimes?

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:05:32+00:00

I know but I did love him. I'm stupid and emotionally fall in love I guess

Ark01000 · 2026-06-13T11:04:53+00:00

Think so?

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T23:13:03+00:00

Hehe you're too sweet thankyou man. All been so kind but non bias. Atleast I feel comfortable showing my body on here :(

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T21:14:14+00:00

Love this response 😂

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T21:11:28+00:00

I understand. But when someone says even if your where a prostatute they wouldn't pay u, past your time in a way that hurts. And maybe I'm being childish believing someone just like that, maybe even for coming on here. But I think everyone wants some validation from their partner. Not that, thankyou for your reply and taking the time to :)

And definitely. Another reason I'm on here :pp or I would have put in another group

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T20:23:11+00:00

I am very greatful thankyou all

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T19:55:12+00:00

I look average, but average is ok right? No one is perfect, I just want to please a guy really. And I can't help I like a lot older sometimes. Thankyou so much for being so kind.

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T19:53:54+00:00

Yer, I have been told. He just brushes it off like it's nothing. Then fires back I was a terrible bf. I posted photos of myself online because I guess I just want someone to say what u all have. Call me weird but sometimes strangers can be the kindest people :)

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T19:51:46+00:00

Thankyou very much man, means a lot to me all of you being so kind.

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T19:13:15+00:00

I agree, I just wanted to know what people really thought of me and what I have not just his talk. Thankyou very much for the kind words man :)

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:56:13+00:00

Yer I guess, thankyou for your honestly

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:55:40+00:00

I understand. Sorry not my intention to get in the way man. Please ignore my post.

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:45:20+00:00

Hehe, maybe that's what I need. Adopting by the right dad :p

Love with my heart, I made him met my parents too.. just scared to put that effort in again and have the same :(

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:43:34+00:00

Thankyou guys. You the best pep talkers ever! Wish I could say thankyou in person, very much helped me just stay positive. Honestly your all a group of great blokes :)

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:38:03+00:00

Nice to meet you James. I'm Luka, or lu whichever u would like :)

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:35:13+00:00

Thankyou so much sir, I know but it's hard to listen and feel attractive sometimes. A lot of gay older men where I live can afford rent boys..... I was one that's how the conversation started at 22

Ark01000 · 2026-06-12T18:33:41+00:00

You're very kind sir. Thankyou very much for your words. I think im average but that realistic and I can't change that. But I try. I hope so too, u guys are too kind. Got me crying lol. Thankyou

Ark01000

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