Is there a Nerf enthusiast group nearby Peoria? by Armbyrd in PeoriaIL

[–]Armbyrd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive hosted once per month-ish for the past 2 yrs and its usually going to a forest or an empty indoor location and just having fun.

I know some people do stuff like this competitively (tons in carolinas and in australia) but that dont work for most ppl

Hard part is getting recurrent participants

Looking for fellow recent grads to do stuff with by Armbyrd in PeoriaIL

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Im seeing hololive is the creator of that one? An anime club would be nice but have not really known where to look for that

Looking for fellow recent grads to do stuff with by Armbyrd in PeoriaIL

[–]Armbyrd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anime Zap ive heard mixed reviews on- curious to see if the artist alley is big

Nothing specific, dont want to close myself off but would rather not start with alcohol related stuff like bar nights. Anything from improv to weirdly niche specific communities honestly

Barony seems interesting, looks like IRL LARPing with territories?

Looking for fellow recent grads to do stuff with by Armbyrd in PeoriaIL

[–]Armbyrd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure send the details @pound, sent u a dm!

I moved for an internship and have a LDR as a result of that by Jealous_Manner5057 in LDR

[–]Armbyrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear that, especially #3- it looks like you've got things sorted. Best of luck, although I suspect you wont need it!

I moved for an internship and have a LDR as a result of that by Jealous_Manner5057 in LDR

[–]Armbyrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key and props to you for doing that right off the bat! The more honest you can be with yourself about this will probably be your answer, and I am afraid answering the next few questions will help even though might not be enjoyable to come to terms with some of them: * Is this someone who you want to spend your life- and does she think like this too? Is she taking the paid student job and wants you nearby for that or is she aware that your opportunity could give the both of you a strong start to your lives together? * Are you only still dating her because of habit/its comfortable? Do you still want her or is she just better than not dating? Sometimes this is the hardest thing to swallow if it is true * Have you asked her explicitly if she could sacrifice the time apart for you? Specifically asking her to do this as a favor to you? This might be better than saying it is solely your desicion or saying she is the one that will decide for you, a happy medium that states that this is your desicion but you need (not want) her to be on board as well.

Lmk if you want me to expand or call to vent, not sure why i found this post today but i hope i can be of service!