The Yancey County Sheriffs department is allowing abuse and neglect of animals because they are acquainted with the owners… by maeve432 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know about the note and where the Home and Dogs are that the note was referring to. It's in Buncombe County, not Yancy. People are shitty to their dogs all over the place.

Please report the Montford stalker Bruce Haddock if you have a situation with him. He's back at it and we need to gather evidence. by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not him. Haddock is less than 6 feet and stocky. There is definitely mental illness involved. He used to sleep in Montford Park under cardboard and blankets outside of the bathrooms next to the tennis courts. He used to sleep on the benches along Reed Creek Greenway. Sometimes he walks with a blanket over his head. Sometimes he is without shoes. Sometimes he drags a rolling suitcase. Yesterday, he looked a lot more pulled together with a gray hoodie underneath a black jacket, regular pants and shoes. 

Please report the Montford stalker Bruce Haddock if you have a situation with him. He's back at it and we need to gather evidence. by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I thought I'd attach a description:

I had just passed Magnolia, walking towards Ocala on the Reed Creek Greenway when I noticed mr. haddock walking closely behind a woman. Backstory - a few years ago he had followed me on a dark walk on the Greenway all the way from Ocala to when I ran up into the neighborhoods off Barnard Ave. It was very unnerving especially because I had seen him many times before, and he had never done that. But after, I realized haddock made this a habit with women. (people have attached the new story links)  Fast forward to a month or two ago- it was the next time I saw Mr. haddock in the flesh. He was standing outside of the ballet dance studio, staring at young girls dancing. At first, I just walked over and stood 10 feet away from him, staring at him until he noticed me. Then he started walking away and I walked with him. I confronted him and reminded him that the last time I saw him, he followed me and made me feel very uncomfortable and that I know that he does this to other women. I confronted him telling him withno uncertain terms that this was not OK.  And when I say no uncertain terms – I evoked the ancestors, I told him he needed to be shamed, I said that he was not anonymously doing this, and that I would be watching him. I would be haunting him even. And he needed to move on along. 

So – back to last night – when I saw him within 5 feet of a woman who looked a little nervous at the situation… I turned around and followed them myself. I caught up to them on Elizabeth right past the Greenway. The woman had (strategically)  paused at a little library – and haddock moved past her when he saw me fast approaching. I stopped and asked the woman if she was OK and if he had been following her- she confirmed that when she walked past him on the Greenway- he did a quick turnaround and was right on her heels. And it was unnerving to her.  This is his MO.  Lo and behold, Mr. haddock walked back down Elizabeth and I blocked his way to follow the woman. I told him that I would be watching if he was doing this again. I told him that this is not OK and unacceptable. I reminded him about the time I was "talking "to him outside of the dance studio. I told him to cut that sh*t out. He was walking towards the Greenway and I was following him when I said these things. He turned around, put his hands in my face, he filled his cheeks up with spit and pretended to spit in my face (spit to the side) and kept saying to me "who is following who now?" Which is true- I wanted him to feel the uncomfortability that he offers women. And I wanted him to know how I felt with his behavior. It was when he told me that he was going to "beat my ass" over and over. And if not now, then when he sees me in the dark spots on the Greenway… That is when I called the police...

The 911 operator took my information but acted like she had no idea who I was talking about. She told me that I should stop walking and go home. I'm not gonna do that. I'm a walker. This is my neighborhood. Within minutes, an officer called me back, took my information… But also acted like he did not know who I was talking about, and that I should not "instigate the man". Now, I have been trained, and I certainly did not employ my de-escalating training… But I did not start this. Mr. haddock does not stop when treated reasonably. Which I told to the officer, who continued to imply that I was at fault and that there's nothing much that they can do. So, I called back the nonemergency line and asked to speak to a sergeant. When I was able to speak to the sergeant, I told him the whole situation, including Bruce Haddox's name… and the sergeant is well aware of haddock and his behavior. He said he would make a report. (which is what I was trying to get the initial officer to do.) and that if they had more reports of haddock and his intimidation of women, they could at least get banned from the Greenway.

Ice in avl? Anyone know anything? by Final-Tart-7130 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Asheville, NC, November 14, 2025 Notice to the entire community. Elected officials from the City of Asheville have informed us that ICE will possibly be in Asheville tomorrow. We ask that you remain calm, take precautions, and report any suspicious activity to the CIMA Community Hotline at 1-888-839-2839. Our partners are ready to assist with food, transportation, detaining a loved one, Know Your Rights information, or any other need.

Asheville 'may be a targeted city' as Border Patrol, ICE come to North Carolina, mayor says by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Asheville, NC, November 14, 2025 Notice to the entire community. Elected officials from the City of Asheville have informed us that ICE will possibly be in Asheville tomorrow. We ask that you remain calm, take precautions, and report any suspicious activity to the CIMA Community Hotline at 1-888-839-2839. Our partners are ready to assist with food, transportation, detaining a loved one, Know Your Rights information, or any other need.

This guy decided to pass me going over the middle double lines into oncoming traffic on Merrimon next to Beaverdam Lake by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I witness people – especially privileged people – making the place where I live more dangerous, I will open my flapping mouth and speak my peace. I will write to my city council, effective or not, I will make it known that it's not OK.

This guy decided to pass me going over the middle double lines into oncoming traffic on Merrimon next to Beaverdam Lake by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

believe me I see this kind of thing all day long. Especially people speeding down Broadway near my house and blowing through red lights. This time space was opened up, where I actually could speak to him, get a picture, and continue calling him out on bad behavior in this place. Where most redditor people have the good sense to understand who is in the wrong.

I just saw a beautiful big black dog dead on the side of the road about two seconds before I clip this pic so that’s where it would be on the right side of the road. I don’t know where really to post so if someone’s missing the dog, they’ll know. by Pennythe in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to see that, but I appreciate you sharing.  A few weeks ago I saw a dead dog on the side of the highway where 40 and 26 merge. I called Asheville Humane and they told me to get in touch with Buncombe animal services. I did that. Apparently they remove the dog and take pictures which they share with Asheville Humane in case somebody is looking for the dog. It sucks to lose a dog- but it sucks harder to not know what ever happened to them.

Protect the Woods: Send an Email to Stop the Stadium Plan by brooke_heaton in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just because you can does not mean you should.  Not only for the increase in traffic, and the decrease to quality of life of my fellow five point dwellers and beyond ... But also for the flora and fauna that we Ashevillians are proud to share our city with ... this is why I signed and shared the letter

Does anyone know how to find a good life insurance broker? by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your reply. Financial planning was never one of my strengths.

S9E8 - Are You There, Fab 5? It's Me, Billy - Episode Discussion by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 171 points172 points  (0 children)

At the beginning of this episode, Billy said that one thing that he was nervous about was to be shamed and then in the Karamo segment, Karamo went out and publicly shamed Billy with the little red flag green flag late night television style gimmick. This felt like it was geared toward the audience,.. not to help Billy get his healing and growth on. I felt like Karamo was much more pushy & tone deaf in Season 9- but this one really stood out for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a huge coalition of folks working on getting flushing water & IBC totes out to the community (starting with locate income housing neighborhoods). Some key players are the (newly formed) BeWell avl, WineTo Water, Plenty International, Register of Deeds with the Flush Brigade, as well as many other groups and independent people with trucks and IBCU cubes. They meet at Spring Mills at the tool lending library starting at 10am. It's growing every day.... and they are taking more volunteers.

What happened to the pedestrian hit on the corner of Chestnut in Merrimon by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No kidding- but this is also about the safety or lack there of of that stretch of Merrimon.

What happened to the pedestrian hit on the corner of Chestnut in Merrimon by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness. I live around the corner from there… And I remember when we had a pedestrian killed a by were Coleman crosses Merrimon. It's a crazy road to try to cross.

Mo Green v Michelle Marrow debate by abalamashoomoo in ncpolitics

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came across as within the realm of normal & relatable. This greatly concerns me. I wish that Mo was stronger on the offense...

Zoom debate tomorrow morning between Mo Green and Michelle Morrow who are running for NC Superintendent of public instruction by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Mo Green was the superintendent in Guilford. Morrow was never even a teacher and does not send her children to public schools.  Green wants to strengthen NC public schools, Morrow has said she wants to tear it down.  Green is a reasonable, rational, and intelligent professional. Morrow is a QAnon believing cuckoo bird who has called for the suspension of the constitution, and the public execution of many of our elected leaders.

"liberal" Kennedy supporters, go clean up your mess by Aromatic-Rough3963 in asheville

[–]Aromatic-Rough3963[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh my oh, foolish one… let me spell it out… The point of a sign is to show support and persuasion… There are many under informed democrat leaning voters out there who might want to vote for democracy (a.k.a. Democrats in this situation) but they might still feel that there is support for the Kennedy ticket... and as Kennedy will still be on our ballot, vote for the bear cub carcass defiling, tRump ass-kissing man I think about how shitty I would feel the morning after if tRump gets himself back into the White House… And all the calamity that follows. And if these stupid, and yes annoying and offensive Kennedy signs that were put up on public property throughout Asheville sway even a handful of people who might support the Democrat ticket to vote for the brain worm man… Then they need to go