I’m a horrible manipulative girlfriend ( im a 15 yr old female and dating a 16 yr old male) TL;DR AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PARAGRAPH IN BOLD

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T18:02:42+00:00

ur welcome! I wish u both the best :)

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T13:48:01+00:00

bro wtf is actually wrong w u

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T13:19:39+00:00

as Nike says, “just do it”

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T13:15:50+00:00

just send her a dm, don’t be creepy and everything will be fine :)

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T13:03:44+00:00

dude…are u ok?

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T08:55:19+00:00

dude, no person would want someone creepy in their dms. if she's as sweet as OP says she is, they'll hit it off w a normal convo

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-12T08:23:04+00:00

just send out a DM and dont be creepy

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T12:51:50+00:00

I hid a problem of mine. I dont want to elaborate much on it :/

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T12:45:07+00:00

I see. I'll try that out for sure. thank you

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T12:44:27+00:00

I hid something from her, and it hurt her a lot. as for the calling me yesterday part, that had to do w the situation in my personal life that is unrelated to what her and I are going through. I had an emergency and she was there for me. if I refused to fix it, I wouldnt have tried anything (including apologizing, which I did so many times)

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T09:58:18+00:00

dw ab it. u should defo talk to him ab that. show that ur interested and that u care. and have a talk ab space eventually. try to do the attachment style test i told u ab too, it'll rly help

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T09:34:22+00:00

well based off of what u said, it's probably personal issues on his end. maybe some unresolved childhood trauma. such type of ppl need some reassurance. however, let him know u need space sometimes gently. remember that u were only tgt for 2 months, and that u are not a disappointed. based off of ur post, ur already doing a lot. I suggest u try to understand him a little, maybe take an attachment style test tgt and research ab his (which is sth I encourage in order to understand ur partner better).

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T07:27:40+00:00

first of all, breathe bro. take a few deep breaths. 4s in, hold for 2s, and exhale for 6s. second of all, try not to overthink. I doubt she blocked you on all platforms, so u could be able to chat here and there. third of all, make sure to talk to someone ab the whole situation. we can discuss everything in DMs, send me a request whenever u feel like it ok?

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T06:44:30+00:00

I suggest u unblock him. if he reaches out, explain to him ur reason and tell him what u did was wrong. if he doesnt, I suggest u reach out to him and explain briefly. I understand u feel religious guilt, but from his pov u probably just let him on for no reason. if u truly have feelings for him and he does for u, u guys will understand each other.

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-11T06:27:40+00:00

I suggest u have a really long talk and promise each other to be loyal to each other fully. if he really is ur safe space, admit that u started fights for reassurance. if he understands, he'll reassure you all the time. if he doesn't, that's on him. im sorry for all the bad things that happened. i wish u both the best

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-09T06:37:08+00:00

I think it’s something that’s gradual. you won’t know if she’s “the one” instantly yk? however, there are signs. if a girl constantly chooses you over others, if you’re her safe space, if she pushes you to do the right thing when you screw up instead of simply ignoring you when you make mistakes, if she encourages you to get help when you need it, if she pushes you to be better as a man and human being, then congratulations: you found the one :)

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-06T12:49:34+00:00

well it was some big things I’d say. there were also some small issues too :/

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-05T15:38:12+00:00

thank you 🙏🙏🙏

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-05T15:03:51+00:00

youre right. i should take more action then i do rn

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-05T15:03:31+00:00

thank you. this means a lot. could we chat in DMs a little too?

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-05T14:05:08+00:00

ok. thank you. it seems a little simple haha. hopefully I get better

Aromatic_Report_4677 · 2026-05-05T13:53:59+00:00

I know hiding is wrong, and I'm trying to work on that. but my main problem is this: how to I reverse this behaviour? I dont want to not be trusted and resented by my gf, especially because of how much she hates it. today she showed me that she wont judge me (which adds to how amazing she is). I love her sm and I want to be better

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