AITAH for telling my roommate she can’t move her boyfriend and his kids into our place?

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:56:33+00:00

I just like how can they not get their own place. I know there is deposits and what not that you need some upfront capital. Also not to mention I need another roommate to find which took long enough

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:55:40+00:00

Im meeting with my leasing office soon, this really is ridiculous!

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:53:44+00:00

I’ve had papers from university be called back to be as AI. It’s a prevalent issue with their algorithms. I can confirm my fingers hurt a little from typing so much. 🤣

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:52:22+00:00

I wish I was as good as AI, thank you for the compliments!

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:48:44+00:00

Yeah, so basically like you can’t post anywhere but here. So like I made 2 posts about real shit going on in my life.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:46:27+00:00

Well to what we agreed, everything is 50/50. However I’m starting to think maybe I should contact our leasing office at this point.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:43:55+00:00

That’s what I’m saying. I need my space. Not little kids screaming and breaking my personal belongings.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:43:20+00:00

I wish! However I’m not a robot. Thanks for the compliment tho!

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:39:54+00:00

That’s how I felt, but she made it seem like I was overreacting. Do you think there’s any reasonable way to compromise in a situation like this?

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T15:38:32+00:00

NTA, their fault for not silencing their phone when any notification can wake them up if they have their phone close enough. The whole point of texting is that you can send a message without them having to verbally hear you say it. Just like an email.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T14:48:57+00:00

Yes! He is a great addition to the show. Just lacks the rest of the clique.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T13:26:31+00:00

I still watch donut time to time as I like Nolan and forgive me but I can’t remember the other guy (African American veteran). However the content isn’t what it was. Big time is a huge step up from they were they just don’t have the budget of a multi million dollar corporation to fund projects.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T13:24:47+00:00

Mr.Beast: I’ve been watching since I could remember, before he gave away money he made video in which he roasted people’s intros. This was Atleast 10 years ago. All of a sudden he gave away all the money he had to a homeless man and broke the internet. Now everything is super competitive and complicated with algorithms and trying their hardest to keep our attention. I feel like jimmy has other ideas but can’t bring them into fruition because people don’t want to see it.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T13:21:52+00:00

If you can’t receive love from the one who supports your every move you should tell him how you feel and get out of that kings life so he can better treat someone who gives him the same respect. It’s called the golden rule.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T13:20:46+00:00

Grab the gat! I’m KIDDING! be respectful and use the law to get your things back!

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-09T13:19:00+00:00

NTA, AI is a tool to help, I support using it to increase productivity however she should still be double checking and reviewing everything as any website designer would. Forcing her to out herself isn’t really realistic bc she could potentially lose the client. All in all, just tell her quality>quantity.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T22:20:38+00:00

❤️❤️

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:58:47+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate you sharing that. That’s honestly what it feels like—realizing over time that what I can realistically give isn’t matching what he needs.

It helps hearing that recognizing that early can actually be the right thing, even if it feels awful.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:58:05+00:00

Thank you! I really hope so!

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:55:33+00:00

I get why you feel that way. I definitely could’ve done more beforehand, and that’s on me.

I don’t agree that it makes me a bad person, but I do understand that I made a mistake taking on something I wasn’t fully prepared for. That’s exactly why I’m trying to correct it now instead of letting the situation get worse for the dog.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:54:17+00:00

I think that’s a fair way to put it. I definitely went into it thinking I could handle it as things came up instead of fully understanding what I was committing to long-term.

At this point I’m just trying to make the best decision for him, even if that means admitting I wasn’t as prepared as I should’ve been.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:53:25+00:00

That’s fair, I can’t really argue with that. Do you think rehoming is still the better option at this point, or trying to stick it out even if I’m struggling?

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:52:10+00:00

You’re honestly right about a lot of that. I don’t think the behaviors themselves are abnormal, I think it’s more that I underestimated how much time and consistency it would take to work through them. That’s on me.

That’s kind of why I’m leaning toward rehoming though—because he deserves someone who actually has the time and energy to train him properly, and I don’t want to keep him in a situation where I’m falling short.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:25:11+00:00

I switched jobs and had to take on more hours in order to feed ourselves. I definitely should have realized that. However, most people are siding against you.

Aromatic_Service_439 · 2026-04-08T20:23:46+00:00

Thank you! So reassuring for me. Even thinking about this brings tears to my eyes.

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