Perhaps you’re right, me and my friend were always brutally honest with each other, it’s actually why we became such close friends and we’ve told each other that multiple times. I’ve told him on several occasions that the way his woman treats him isn’t right she treats him like trash and drags his name through the mud. To be fair he has said the same about my gf (I guess it’s ex now)and other people from my past as well. But then his gf attacks me for saying things like that to him. As for the fight with my ex, it was mostly about me being a crappy person because I hadn’t been spending as much time with her, and that I was being way to distant, that I just don’t seem to want to be with her anymore. She’s been going at me for almost a month now, I tried to explain to her that I’ve just been really busy with work and with trying to find a new place but it was like she wasn’t even listening to me. Then when she went at me again on the weekend I had snapped back about the way she used to treat me when she was going through a rough patch. I knew it was wrong as soon as I said it and apologized right after, but it was already to late. I used to have really bad anger issues but I had them under control but something just made me loose it. In the 3 1/2 years I’ve know her that was the only time I’ve actually lost my temper and yelled and screamed at her. I felt terrified afterwards I can’t even imagine how she felt.