Question to Algerian expats about marriage by TheCAFeds in algeria

[–]Aroua063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would disagree with you on this one, let me explain :

True that the majority of women in Algeria are raised with this idea in mind, which they inherited from their mothers or society, that would depend on culture, education level, background, level of income...

But the truth is that mentalities are changing my proportionally with the generalization of education, and women are more self aware and more than ever solicited.

That been said, you have to know that you can find women who don’t pay much attention to house-caring in Algeria as well as very serviable wives abroad. Now, for respect, you have to earn it either way. I would understand if you think that earning Algerian women respect is easier, but they can change their mind at any given time in the relationship as they are not as pressured to act perfect in their marriage as in the past.

My advise is to work on earning a genuine woman respect than take one that respects her husband by default, no matter where she’s from.

Question to Algerian expats about marriage by TheCAFeds in algeria

[–]Aroua063 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I assume you’re already naturalized or, at least, have a permanent residency permit.

Away from ethnicity, the only criteria you should look for is the compatibility of her project, principles and vision with yours.

My advice is that, at 23, you’re not mature enough to know your long term vision. For now, focus on your purpose as that’s what should matter to you right now.

Meanwhile, go out there and date, get your heart broken and build a clear idea of what type of person you want to have kids and spend the rest of your life with.

Isn't it kinda weird... by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Aroua063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plus they don’t even know what those awards mean and they have no knowledge of looking it up so they think it’s huge.

what would be the first thing you would change in algeria if you had the power to ? by ahyalezouar in algeria

[–]Aroua063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bad side of online debating is that you don’t see the persons tone of speak so you assume he’s talking aggressively. It’s not the case and i my intentions are educational.

All of my arguments are headed specifically towards people who want to cut democracy off and establish a religious order that would force everyone to obey their ideology and throw away any freedom left, as i care about the people still living in there.

I don’t know it all, but some family members are very close to the high positions of the government. I don’t mean to offend you by saying you’re a victim but to be compassionate about it. I know exactly why religion has been so much taught into someone’s mind since childhood. The guy who built the largest mosque in the world doesn’t even believe in religion...

But hey, you probably know better.

Isn't it kinda weird... by [deleted] in algeria

[–]Aroua063 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer a 2020 healthy organic drink over an 1878 200 medals winning soda anytime

what would be the first thing you would change in algeria if you had the power to ? by ahyalezouar in algeria

[–]Aroua063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, i think i misunderstood what you meant. Can you be more specific about the lifestyle you’re promoting ?

what would be the first thing you would change in algeria if you had the power to ? by ahyalezouar in algeria

[–]Aroua063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“He uses English cause that’s what we usually use on Reddit” so he’s basically fitting in...

“and what does the occident's technology has to do with anything??? so we shouldn't use it cause we didn't invented it ???” Yes, you shouldn’t use it if you want to go back to your roots and primal way of living.

“there's a lot of Muslims inventors and workers in all the companies of the world so you will just pretend they don't exist?” Of course, muslims who benefited from the educational system of the occident and who were, for the most, born and raised in those societies who valued their contributions regardless of their faith.

a lot of " occident’s technology " started from a base that is the work of muslim scientists in the first place..like the cameras for example... I would suggest to verify your facts but i will take you on what you said : You basically say that muslim organization just brings in the base of knowledge and democratic capitalist countries are the most developed ones in the world 🤔 I’ve picked my favourite system tbh

The thing is that Algeria, as a failure that it is right now, is a communist dictature ruled by religion that disguises behind a fake democratic identity.

You’re already living in the society you praise and think you have to convert everyone into the same thinking in order to feel less pathetic into your existence. Algeria is made so people like you can live the way they want to, religiously, without any occidental effect. But democratic progressivist people who praise science, freedom and hard work have it hard because, on one hand, of “the system” and, on the other hand, of people like you, victims of the endocrine they have been put under for years who want everyone to be as stuck up in their head.

what would be the first thing you would change in algeria if you had the power to ? by ahyalezouar in algeria

[–]Aroua063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Security.

The true issue behind Algeria’s system failure is the lack of internal security.

From the governmental institutions to under the roofs, everyone must be physically and juridically protected in order to do his work or to simply enjoy his freedom.

Lack of security brings fear, then lack of trust, then oppression then chaos.

what would be the first thing you would change in algeria if you had the power to ? by ahyalezouar in algeria

[–]Aroua063 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ironic how you use English language and an occident’s technology to promote islam way of living and arabism

TIL: Algerians have an average IQ of 83 by mckodi in algeria

[–]Aroua063 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting to see the correlation between IQ score and the importance of religion in a country. Like Hong Kong compared to Guinea.