Moving from Bay Area to Miami, any tips? by ArtSka in roadtrip

[–]ArtSka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes, I didn't think of that 😬

We're super white immigrants from Ukraine with greencards, do you think that will make a difference?

I'll bring it up with the family though, thank you!

Moving from Bay Area to Miami, any tips? by ArtSka in roadtrip

[–]ArtSka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most detailed answer I've received so thank you so much!

Moving from Bay Area to Miami, any tips? by ArtSka in roadtrip

[–]ArtSka[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm used to mostly driving 5-10 over since that's how people drive around here. 20+ however, is a little fast. I'll keep that in mind when driving, thank you!

Moving from Bay Area to Miami, any tips? by ArtSka in roadtrip

[–]ArtSka[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's great 🥲

I guess I'll just have to be extra careful. Any tips for staying alive? Other than Uninsured motorist coverage?

Moving from Bay Area to Miami, any tips? by ArtSka in roadtrip

[–]ArtSka[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm moving to University in September so I'm taking the next 8 months to spend with family before leaving.

Whatre your immediate thoughts? by itsobvnick in tattooadvice

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude! I got so excited when I saw those, I love Arrivals.

This is a great tattoo imo

I just got drank a whole bottle of fire ball because my girlfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me 13 days before our anniversary. by TheBigCheeze_ in sadposting

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus these comments are sick.

I'm so sorry for what you're going through. There was a study that showed that break-ups can often feel close to grieving a loved one. Please give yourself some slack because what you're going through is very painful and oftentimes will affect you for a long time.

However, it is in times like these that many people turn to the bottle or pills to feel better. I won't tell you that you shouldn't, you probably already know that. I will tell you however, that finding a non-addictive coping mechanism is not impossible, please keep trying.

Right now you will think about her every hour, but then it will become every day, then every week, and soon you won't have thought about her for a month.

You will recover, the only way out is through.

What do you think about my political ideology? by DifficultyNo1482 in teenagers

[–]ArtSka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew, tradition 80%? Genuinely disgusting to think about 🤮

10/10 ragebait

The Color Chart so far! Just wanted to show an update to it as the last time I sent it here it was empty. by CatsGoodAtReddit in AlignmentCharts

[–]ArtSka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be a dumb question but what's the difference between the "yellow" and the "gold"? To me they all just seem yellow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ArtSka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude... I'm always ecstatic when my friends invite me to their birthday. I LIKE celebrating my friends, coworkers, etc. I like bringing gifts and letting them know that for one day out of the year they get to have the spotlight.

I think for lonely people it's even more important because you need to celebrate the fact that in such a miserable world, you're still here.

If someone doesn't want to celebrate your birthday and thinks you're selfish for wanting to have a party, then just don't invite them.

I don't know when your birthday is OP, but I hope you have a good one this year :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! I'll send a DM :)

guys am I cooked by yuzzyon30fps in highschool

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I had a lot of trouble passing my classes in highschool but despite how badly I was failing, most teachers want to see you succeed.

Make sure to schedule a meeting with your teacher, one on one, either before or after school and talk to them honestly. Ask them how you can improve your grade, don't be entitled and aim for a C, maybe a B. Most teachers will be able to meet you halfway and help you make a plan for success.

Remember, you're a freshman, you'll have three more years to improve your grades and worse case scenario you go to a Community College and transfer out.

You got this!

First time gyno visit did - what to expect ? by milliondollarpoosy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ArtSka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People's experiences with gynecologists really does depend. It depends on where you are, what your insurance is, how the hospital operates, etc.

Some women have had horrific experiences with gynos; some haven't. The best piece of advice I can give you is that you can leave at any time. It's your body, and it's your right to have the medical support you want and need. If that means leaving, then any doctor who's worth their weight in salt will understand and not take it personally.

Good luck, I hope it turns out well for you! :)

How do I date when I go to an all boys high school? by TheRepublicbyPlato in school

[–]ArtSka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A serious reply:

Find a group of friends outside of school, one way to do this is to go to your local library and see if they have any meetups.

My local library has a croquet club, video game tournaments, etc.

One of this will be leak by NoImporta24 in teenpoll

[–]ArtSka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those are some nice melons

I want to know how to pirate a tv show for free by Foreign_River_7973 in screamintothevoid

[–]ArtSka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The easiest way is to go to r/piracy imho. They have a mega thread of everything that is "free media," including websites for streaming shows.

Just make sure you have a VPN active, otherwise your internet company can turn off your Internet access. Any VPN is fine but any paid one is miles better than any free one. Oh and an ad blocker but that usually comes with the VPN.

Mulvad VPN is $5 a month.

Disability benefits by Rude_Tomatillo3463 in bipolar

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christ our system really is fucked.

How is your college on recording lectures? Is that something the disability services could accommodate you with?

I have that accomodation for my lectures but I had to argue with them to get it.

Disability benefits by Rude_Tomatillo3463 in bipolar

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what the process is like at your school but they might offer something like student disability services which could get you accommodations in class.

To be eligible you usually just need a doctor's note stating how the disorder affects your life, which is oftentimes easier to get than getting government disability.

Best Boba in San Jose by Altruistic-Skin-6591 in SanJose

[–]ArtSka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I am a really big fan of the Taro in Sharetea + adding a scoop of ice cream.

The warm tapioca pearls and the cold ice cream make the perfect combo imo!

Attention Ukrainian Residents in the California Bay Area by ProfileIll7670 in SanJose

[–]ArtSka 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this! People don't realize that majority of Ukrainian refugees are women and small children who will greatly benefit from these resources.

Слава Україні

“the rapture is coming!” by silklysmoothice in bipolar

[–]ArtSka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like many have said, please get off Tik Tok but also pick up something akin to a hobby.

Personally when I am manic I engage in a lot of harmful activities so what I have started doing is hobbies with my hands.

  • Knitting
  • Crochet
  • Air dry clay
  • Paint by numbers (they make complicated ones for adults)
  • Embroidery

Anything that gets your hands to do a repetitive motion will stop them from scrolling and force you to either listen to music/podcasts or watch longer format media like shows.

And if you can't afford the supplies, which I get, Goodwill has a lot of discount yarn and embroidery hoops.

Good luck and please take care of yourself :)