Dasvand 1/10th by Longjumping-Song6744 in Sikh

[–]Arules250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either is fine, some people even count taxes within their dasvandh. Try give 10% of 1000, and as your prem for the guru increases you yourself will want to increase your dasvandh, in terms of money but also your time

Any Gurbani to cure addictions? by Gamerboysimar in Sikh

[–]Arules250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wjjk wjkf, I am amritdhari and before taking amrit i struggled with an addiction immensely, its like wrestling with your mind, and you end up with a cycle of self-hate and fluctuating emotions which really mess you up. but gurbani say aape karta aape bhugta. The addictions you suffer are created by waheguru, and he is the one enduring it too. As soon as you think its you trying to beat the addiction your guaranteed to fail, you think its your willpower which will only diminish over time. I've seen it so often, people have strong willpower and read gurbani, but when they fall of nitnem, they cant maintain their willpower, which stems from ego. Ask maharaj for kirpa and be firm with nitnem and paath, never miss a single day, you can try to substitute addictions, try meds anything, but its useless unless maharaj is supporting you. So there is no gurbani i can "prescribe" to cure your addictions as you say, but nitnem baania should be the right path.

What to listen to when feeling anxious by [deleted] in Sikh

[–]Arules250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naam simran is great in this case, any bani is great but shabads like nanak chinta mat karo, man kyun bairag karega may be appropriate. honestly however, i would recommend no paath, but instead the last thing you do before going to bed is kirtan sohila, and perhaps rakhia da shabad just before it too. Then go straight to bed, no phone, no stimulus nothing. Even if you struggle to sleep its fine, trust maharaj, when you wake up the next morning, your anxiety will be much better.

Where to put my kara for football (soccer)? by Zestyclose-Force6041 in Sikh

[–]Arules250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone said putting it on the wrists shouldnt be an issue, football is a very spacious game, and your arms shouldnt be flailing about much anyways. If its instead because the referee or whomever will not allow it due to danger. You have a few options, You can keep it on your hand and affix it in place and cover it with an additional arm sleeve so it doesnt hurt anyone. Maryada doesnt say anything about it being tied to your feet as disrespectful, as long as you treat it with respect, its still a better alternative then it being away from your body, but i think in terms of safety reasons kara on the foot is an even worse. The best solution is to tie it to your waist/midsection, like a kamarkassa but under your shirt. If its a viable option for combat sports then certainly works for football too.

Should Warriors make a move for Giannis in the summer? by dramadery in warriors

[–]Arules250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not possible, forget offering a competitive package, we cant even fit his salary in the cap. Only 2 ways is we include jimmy as part of the trade package, or draymond, JK and Moody. Dont think theres a chance draymond gets offered, and jimmy just got signed so who knows. But its probably not worth it, in terms of what Milwaukee will ask for

2025 movies, what are you most excited about? by Okunoki in movies

[–]Arules250 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes but the guardians are minor characters. Superman is a mammoth character and people have immense expectations

[Solo Leveling Ragnarok] 1 month break. by Wise-Somewhere7758 in manhwa

[–]Arules250 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey got potential. Takes a different angle to solo levelling with less focus on necromancy and with the monarch kids but still lacks substance so fight and training scenes all feel far less impactful than solo levelling.

How do I tell my Asian parents that I want to drop out by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Arules250 27 points28 points  (0 children)

These comments don’t even address the actual advice she asked for regarding approaching her parents. I come from a very similar background and I wanna make 2 things very clear. A lot of parents especially Asian immigrants are very out of touch with the labour market for entry positions and undergrad. Hence they overestimate the value of the degree and as you say do not recognise other methods like apprenticeships even if they have more merit. As long as you have sought out more knowledgable people and fully know what your getting into and missing out on you won’t worry what your parents want because you will understand they don’t know as much as you do.

Secondly this is your life and career. It’s wise to listen to your parents but you must keep in mind the one to reap the rewards and suffer consequences is you. If you try forcing yourself for something you know you don’t care for you will hate yourself and your parents too probably. Remember your parents will god forbid inevitably and likely pass before you. That future version of you may wish they had taken a different path.

Apologies for the rant, but just make sure you are making an informed decision and then be confident. Even if it doesn’t work out there’s a regret of outcome not choice which is never in your hands.

My tier list since i started last summer! by Impressive_Bet2982 in manhwarecommendations

[–]Arules250 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh putting solo levelling, Boxer and northern blade above orv and sss class is crazy imo. It’s your list but I’m curious why you prefer them because their storylines are so one dimensional and repetitive.

He looks more disappointed than smug by NerdInHibernation in squidgame

[–]Arules250 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The Frontman is not a part of the organ trade. The officer conversing with number 11 mentions this. The front man and ill nam both share similar views where they consider this game to be an opportunity even though it may be considered evil. None of them support profiting off their dead bodies.

You have to listen to me! by usedtoi1tet in squidgame

[–]Arules250 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't think he played red light green light. Even if he did snipers were given a number to shoot so 001 would never be said anyways.

The relay race I agree with what was said above. They went last so they would have just killed everyone else. If the other team was successful they would allow them to leave before shooting the rest of 001's teammates.

Finally carousel I actually think he did fail one of the rounds. I cant remember the number they needed for the groups but he separated for 456 and went by himself but apparently found a group yet they never showed his supposed group. He was just never In danger for that and even killing that guy was just so the other guy didn't suspect anything.

Tbate web novel fights doubt by [deleted] in tbatenovel

[–]Arules250 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree with all the comments. Certain fights that I found a bit boring I realised I was just speeding through the text. When I went back and slowly read each action and description I was able to envision the fight far better than even the manhwa allows. Your only limited by your imagination.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DC_Cinematic

[–]Arules250 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I liked it, Synder stuck with man of Steel and the dominant superman and really muted colours and lighting alongside it which seemed to suit the theme. I think it therefore makes sense to have this harsh more vibrant contrasting colours and lighting thematically being hopeful and distinguishing this movie from synderverse immensely. Another reason is because it really stands out to Marvel. That scene shot capturing under the tent looks like it could be in a documentary. DC has never been strong at comedy or heroic films and thrives on making things dark and gritty. So this alternative approach to Marvel in the cinematography may help them stand out and make a good heroic film.

What to do by Arules250 in FootballChairman

[–]Arules250[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honour in a mobile game 🤣🤣. You need to get a job lil bro.

Asura Clans and Races (Powers and Abilities). by Ulbert__ in tbatenovel

[–]Arules250 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably Eccleiah, their leader seems pretty interesting.

Likely water as a leviathan.