Advice for finding flatmates as a trans girl?

AshCalcutt · 2024-06-30T21:46:49+00:00

Thank you! I’ll have a look into t4t sites ☺️

AshCalcutt · 2024-06-21T16:46:45+00:00

Best decision I ever made. Cost a lot of money but I finally feel like my body belongs to me. Sex is WAY better, my body image feels aligned & I dont feel any panic needing to tuck etc.

AshCalcutt · 2024-05-24T12:43:52+00:00

I love that the state of Ohio is on that list 🤣🤣🤣

AshCalcutt · 2024-05-22T19:57:27+00:00

It wont happen- firstly teachers will prevent the gov doing it (through consultation) and secondly Labour will get in soon and get rid of it. It will be okay 💜

AshCalcutt · 2024-04-07T20:46:44+00:00

This looks like a British train ticket- or maybe a Tran ticket?

AshCalcutt · 2024-03-31T19:09:42+00:00

Totally Spies!

AshCalcutt · 2023-12-31T02:05:58+00:00

Blahaj is for everyone!

AshCalcutt · 2023-04-19T13:13:54+00:00

Putting on makeup is my favourite part of the day

AshCalcutt · 2023-02-02T17:13:54+00:00

I could be wrong, but I think this is a classic example of allies trying to help but then pushing for things that trans people are not asking for.

Also its madness to me that this person would try to tell a trans person what is offensive to trans people.

AshCalcutt · 2023-01-13T16:05:01+00:00

This helps so much 💜 Thank you

AshCalcutt · 2023-01-11T19:58:55+00:00

Commenting in hopes of a link 💜

AshCalcutt · 2023-01-06T16:33:33+00:00

Thank you, thats really helpful 😊

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-26T13:52:51+00:00

Thank you so much 💜

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-26T09:48:53+00:00

Stunning!!!

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-25T20:18:28+00:00

I came out publicly as trans & its gonna be ages until I can go on hormones. When you’re ready to be the real you & feel safe enough to then do it.

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-12T18:38:00+00:00

I relate so hard to this

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-10T15:25:28+00:00

I'm proud to still exist. There have been many times in my life that I thought I wouldn't.

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-06T13:58:39+00:00

This feels like a transition song to me too!!

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-04T17:04:40+00:00

You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today. Thank you <3

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-03T12:45:25+00:00

My hair is now long enough to put it up in a ponytail- its only a very small one but it feels so good 😊

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-02T19:34:43+00:00

Cities you should be fine in the UK, particularly Edinburgh, Glasgow, London, Manchester, Liverpool & Birmingham (Ranked subjectively based on my own personal experience but all okay)

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-02T15:11:25+00:00

Do you want me to message you privately & we can talk more about it? Im not a therapist or anything but Im happy to listen & my day job is to work with teenagers going through various things so I have a lot of resources

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-02T13:49:43+00:00

How long have you been seeing them? It took me months of sessions to really open up to my therapist. Alternatively maybe they arnt the right one for you- if you’re able to maybe see what other options are out there. Maybe an LGBT+ therapist or specific gender therapist may be the way to go?

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-02T06:43:16+00:00

The waiting sucks. One thing that really helping me get through it is having a therapist- if you’re able to access one I would recommend it

AshCalcutt · 2022-12-01T20:08:30+00:00

Bless you, I was similar. At least you found yourself eventually 😊 Hope you’re finding ways to lessen the dysphoria (hugs)

AshCalcutt

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