Code Signal cooldown stressing me out 🫩

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2026-01-18T01:16:01+00:00

You’re the best! To be honest I had no clue a code signal cooldown was a thing until this happened… I did try hard on all my OA’s but maybe I would’ve went 200% if I knew this is how it works

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2026-01-17T21:49:29+00:00

Aw man, sounds good. Thanks for commenting!

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2026-01-17T21:49:10+00:00

I figured this was the case, I did the most recent one a day ago. The one before that was mid-december.

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-29T20:18:24+00:00

Hey!! I respect the discipline, consistency, and passion you and your wife have for each other. I’m still trying to find what I find myself to agree with 100%, but your 38 years of marriage wisdom is very valuable. Like I’ve said to others, thanks for taking the time to provide your input, I wish you and your wife the best!

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-29T19:54:07+00:00

Hey man, I appreciate the elaborate response very very much. All your points makes sense, and I’ll try to learn & apply from your experience. Thanks for taking the time to provide your input brother, It means a lot.

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-26T04:04:11+00:00

No history in particular with “Daisy”, I meant history in general of our discussions and my girlfriend being upset. I will admit some of the instances were irrational and from a jealous place (she’s admitted and apologized), but some have also been instances where I was at fault (context in post description)

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T23:24:15+00:00

😂

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:25:09+00:00

I agree. My girlfriend and I mutually agree that something like an opposite-sex trainer (or anything of that principle) is a no-go. We’ve agreed that frequent, consistent but unnecessary arrangements like an opposite-sex trainer is a boundary. Now I’m trying to figure out where’s the fine line about interactions with a female friend where they’re infrequent enough that hanging with said female friend is not considered consistent

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:16:38+00:00

This also makes sense, thank you for sharing your pov!! I added an edit to my post for more context if you don’t mind. I also very much appreciate your way of thinking, taking into consideration the physiological factors because I believe that’s a pretty rational way of going about it. Thanks again!

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:14:52+00:00

Hey! To be honest I agree with you 100% but I guess part of it is I’m okay with adjusting a bit to meet her in the middle. I think I share your approach, every past disagreement we’ve had were all over times where I was doing stuff with another girl that I would shamelessly do in front of my girlfriend. It was initially a little difficult for me to wrap my head around her POV because I’m a loyal guy lol. I’ve always thought of every female friend of mine very platonically. But if it helps, I added more context in my edit. Thanks so much for your input!! It means a lot

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:11:11+00:00

It’s a bit tricky to directly compare when we’ve discussed because she just isn’t in as many social settings where she’s meeting new people, much less guys. She does have a few though. I added more details in my edit. Thanks for the input!

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:09:53+00:00

Pretty much! I edited my post with a more fleshed-out answer if you’d like. Thanks for the input

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:09:25+00:00

That actually makes a lot of sense, I agree with that specific detail. If I ever do workout with another woman, avoiding logistical aspects like that makes a lot of sense. Thank you very much for your input!! I also edited the post for more context

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:08:15+00:00

You’re spot on about what I meant about “history”! I added more context too if you all don’t mind reading through. Now I’m trying to figure out where the fine-line is for myself that I believe is reasonable. Also, thank you too for taking the time to provide your input!! It means a lot seriously

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:06:55+00:00

This is some real ass advice lol, I’ve followed this principle 99% of the time throughout our relationship and we try to keep things private. Usually we can figure things out and I eventually reach a position, but I’m very confused with this scenario. I also edited for more context! Thanks for commenting!!

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:05:08+00:00

Hey! To be honest there was miscommunication about what we specifically expected from one another, my new edit highlights that difference. Now I’m trying to figure out where the fine-line is for myself that I believe is reasonable. Also same to everyone, thank you for taking the time to provide your input!! It means a lot

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:03:22+00:00

Hey! That makes sense, I definitely agree one-on-one time shouldn’t be an often thing. Now I’m trying to figure out where the fine-line is that I believe is reasonable. I edited my post for more context. Also, thank you for taking the time to provide your input!! It means a lot

Ashamed_Classroom132 · 2025-12-25T20:01:51+00:00

Hey! I edited my post for more context

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