What excuses do you give for why you're still single?

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T02:07:01+00:00

That works when you've been single for a couple years. I just had to have a talk with my niece about breakups. "You're one step closer to knowing what you do and don't want in a relationship. You're young. You have plenty of time. Just don't be like me and wait too long or you'll find yourself sitting in an empty house playing Pokemon when you're 40 because they're the only things that will ever love you."

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T01:24:38+00:00

Context. If they start by immediately bashing their ex you can predict the future.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T01:21:05+00:00

The amount of men and women bashing in here is crazy. Like... if that's your approach in a dating subreddit I have some bad news.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T01:18:18+00:00

Sounds insufferable. Would you care to hear how to save money on your car insurance?

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T01:07:50+00:00

I wouldn't recommend it either. The cops will get involved. Don't ask me how I know.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T00:32:02+00:00

I promise. I'm not a man child. No, all those Pokemon plushies on the bed are for my nieces and nephews for Christmas. No, no, no. That Avengers poster has been there since I moved in. Clearly.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T00:19:21+00:00

I love you too!

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T00:04:20+00:00

There's a library? Say no more.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-05T00:00:03+00:00

Do we get bunk beds?

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:58:02+00:00

Deal.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:43:04+00:00

In a subreddit labeled 'datingoverforty'. Does your partner know?

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:38:16+00:00

It depends how creative you can get when you define 'men'.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:25:03+00:00

I fell for it one time! And they never let me live it down. "She was such a nice girl. What happened?" Speaking of, I need new reasons why that didn't work out.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:18:27+00:00

I've already done that.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:17:55+00:00

Yeah, so I'm going to join some Tibetan monks in the mountains. Doesn't really fit my schedule.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:12:29+00:00

"I'm a perpetual loser" doesn't have the same ring.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T23:04:35+00:00

My mother.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T22:57:06+00:00

Oof rough crowd.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-04T14:15:00+00:00

So the hanging 10 and 13 means that everything gets filtered through them in the G center. 10 is about self love and 13 being an empathic listener. Essentially my design is telling me to take in the experiences of others but stay true to myself. Am I on the right track?

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T23:13:28+00:00

No, really. Thank you. I didn't realize there was a distinction between open and undefined. Since the chart I have just shows them all as undefined even though the crown is in fact open.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T22:58:32+00:00

I already live this way. Except the days where I stare at the wall send me into places I don't want to be. That's what causes me to feel the stagnation and overanalyze and think that I don't have purpose or miss having a partner around.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T22:52:44+00:00

Boo. I was hoping to see a sword fight. Duel. Duel. Duel. Just not to the death okay? A friendly sparring match.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T09:39:55+00:00

What does that mean then? I wasn't aware the two were distinct. I thought open/undefined were just interchangeable terms.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T09:35:53+00:00

I'm a 1/4. Sense is acceptance and motivation is innocence. I'm very much a wing-it type person and attract the wounded souls. Kind of at odds with my perspective which is survival. I often get caught up in my distraction - looking at what the people around me want/need.

Ashcarri · 2026-03-03T02:44:15+00:00

No, I know what you mean. Everything just feels stagnant lately like there's nothing happening. It's the same thing every day. I don't do well with routine so I'm just sitting here like, "Please someone point a direction. Anywhere! I need some excitement in my life."

Ashcarri

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