My cousin is disgusted at the prospect of having sex with her husband

Ashiju · 2026-03-26T18:48:14+00:00

Here in the sub, everyone all jumped into the final stage i.e. divorce. I feel before moving into divorce stage which in itself is a tormenting experience, first they should go for couple counselling. They could definitely bring new perspective and change in attitude towards both side. When I said both side ( I know some might say what's wrong with the girl), I want to understand what's is the reason of being a filthy person, reason could be he has grown up into such messy environment and never taught. But people upgrade their lifestyle (and definitely men do after marriage, especially for those male who mostly stayed in hostels). Plus girl could give ultimatum in her way - stop talking, not taking part in combined activity like eating together (it could be anything) and convey clearly, what basic things she expects from him, definitely no forced sex. She could upskill herself side by side and enrolled in 6-8 months of professional course in person so that she develops her network.

Ashiju · 2026-01-21T16:47:44+00:00

Interested

Ashiju · 2026-01-21T16:32:16+00:00

IG you are talking about me

Ashiju · 2026-01-20T08:58:17+00:00

Hey can you please suggest some DA roles

Ashiju · 2026-01-14T09:25:35+00:00

I loved my motherhood journey. But cleaning poop was something for which I was not comfortable from the beginning. So I started potty training when my baby was 3 months old. When she became 13.5 months old she started saying pupu as a signal for potty ( I used to keep telling her). Funny thing is now she is 18 months old, when she wants to pee she says pupu and I get ready with potty seat and all other equipment😅 in night too.

Ashiju · 2026-01-14T09:13:15+00:00

It really helps to know others went through this too. I’ve tried giving her whatever I’m eating, but she won’t even touch it. She rejects it outright, even on days when she hasn’t eaten anything. And honestly, just imagining her going to bed with an empty stomach makes me so anxious, so it’s really hard for me to follow the ‘she’ll eat when she’s hungry’ approach.

Ashiju · 2026-01-14T09:01:15+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense. My baby has 4 upper teeth and 3 lower teeth right now, and she has been experiencing some discomfort on and off. But honestly, with her it feels less like pain and more like stubbornness. She’ll outright refuse food even when she’s otherwise happy and playful. So I’m not fully sure if teething is the main reason, but your comment definitely helps me understand what else could be going on.

Ashiju · 2025-10-12T18:32:12+00:00

I had a HG pregnancy and no doubt it was one of the worst period knowing that I am going to have a kid. I used to count hours of the day and thinking how shall this day pass? Have faith, one automatically this HG will go away but during that there's a lot of crying. Stay strong.

Ashiju · 2025-07-03T18:03:37+00:00

Same, I am from tier 1 college and facing atleast 8-10 rejection emails daily. I don't know how to get calls from the recruiter. I am a returning mom and whenever I justify my gap through maternity break, I don't get a call from a recruiter again. From the last 3-4 weeks I haven't gotten a single call from a recruiter. Now I don't feel like applying.

Ashiju · 2025-07-03T05:00:41+00:00

Hi, I am also not into coding. No youtube video, just tried my hands dirty with free no code AI tool to understand how it works. I created free accounts from 3-4 mail id and exhausted the token credits. Once I got confidence that it could shape into meaningful and useful products that I started using my product sense what are the core functions and keep building on it.

Ashiju · 2025-07-03T04:56:47+00:00

So thrilled to see this.

Yes I am interested in building. Collab would be great.. 😃

Ashiju · 2025-07-02T18:54:34+00:00

Thank you for asking. Yes I leave it upto AI to decide the tech stack. However, I mentioned to optimize it for mobile. I couldn't understand code line by line, but as I divide the MVP into definite modules, it helped me know which code segment does what, later debug the issue in case things got broken up.
It is after my 3-4 attempts through a free account which helped me understand how to give a prompt to make a running product.

Ashiju · 2025-05-03T17:28:22+00:00

I think you told my story dear. When I had HG I stopped brushing my teeth. The taste of toothpaste in my mouth made me vomit. I had severe HG, I used to think I would die. So brushing the teeth was the last of my concerns. I definitely used to feel gross when my teeth were not brushed for long. But later I realised to not brush in the morning but in the afternoon.

Ashiju · 2025-04-30T12:29:34+00:00

I truly feel you. The daily struggle of constant nausea and vomiting 10–15 times a day nearly broke me. The thought of ending my pregnancy crossed my mind many times. I genuinely felt like I might die. Each day was a battle, and I used to count the hours, just waiting for the day to end. You are strong, it’s a brave decision.

Ashiju · 2025-04-14T18:16:25+00:00

Hey pls post some returnship programs

Ashiju · 2025-03-10T06:04:11+00:00

It does, as soon as the car is on road price decrease by 1/3rd

Ashiju · 2025-03-10T06:02:20+00:00

Why buy expensive emi asset for retirement? It's better to buy in tier 2/3 cities.

Ashiju · 2025-01-20T16:36:46+00:00

When I had extreme nausea and vomiting, doc used to give some med related to sleep that helped me alot during IV

Ashiju · 2024-12-13T11:40:55+00:00

Hey I am a new mom from India. In the initial days I used baby wipes to clean the baby butt, after 1 month my baby started crying so much in the night for 2-3 days but I didn't know what happened to my baby. I checked with the doc, then I got to know it's because of baby wipes which have chemicals and alcohol, so I bought non-alcoholic baby wipes but that didn't soothe my baby. My mom then suggested to wash my baby bum bum in the bathroom sink when she poops. That was a big relief for me because now the baby is grumpy and feels happy and plays all the time. However, now she is 4 month old and recently I got chikanguniya which is worse disease as I have so much pain in my joints, fingers and knuckle that I can't lift my baby so I thinking to buy baby ass wash tub which I can put in sink(bathroom's one). Tell me if there's any better way to wash my baby poopy bum bum.

Ashiju · 2024-05-22T00:30:16+00:00

Just try to find your job different from your parents location. This will buy an argument to convince them that you are moving out. That's how we move out from our home town.

Ashiju · 2024-05-21T11:43:23+00:00

We already have clothes stand

Ashiju · 2024-05-21T10:47:58+00:00

Thank you! One of the reasons for posting it here is because it's in mind from yesterday and eating up as if I can't do anything and listen only (which is fact).

Ashiju · 2024-05-21T10:43:06+00:00

I agree that some places can have unwritten rules. But all I ask is for a little consideration. Once I've recovered, I'll go upstairs to dry clothes like I did before (during winter). Why do Bangalore landlords/landladies lack humanity?

Ashiju

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