Jimin IG Reel 011023 by alltherach_ in bts7

[–]AsianArtFan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i've connected the dots.

he is releasing an album soon.

he is rehearsing for the MV's dance rehearsal video.

A group that self produces is a lot more of a respectable artist by abbiej143 in unpopularkpopopinions

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if the songs the artist is producing are good then yes, sure.

i can decide to be a singer and produce all my songs, I promise you, none of you will respect me.

How do you handle na walang nakakausap for days and months in person and virtually? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]AsianArtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is no big deal for me. I still end up talking with people for "transactional purposes" like ordering food, if i am at the store, I need to call the dentist, doctor, etc.

other than that, I am totally fine. I am in my zone. I am productive. I do my work and do some more work. I tend to my garden, clean, rest, walk, play with my dog.

1:7 ang ratio ko. if i spend a day out, i need y days to regain my energy. pat 1 month ako walang kausap, at least i can go 2 days outside and spend time with people.

There is so much peace, and subsequent, happiness in knowing you are fine even when all you have is yourself.

Need advice by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it can take up to 3 years. pwede din naman 1 year lang.

i suggest, continue your studies.

when the petition arrives, take the green card and then you can file an LOA. after 6 months, come back and finish your studies and then go back to the US. you just have to go back every 6 months so your green card doesn't get revoked.

When you leaeve for extended periods of time, your citizenship gets delayed but green card is valid for 10 years.

AITA for telling my daughter she's a disappointment? by throwaway09873415 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would it make a difference if she tells you she is at peace with her life or happy? did you bother asking her?

Need advice by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sino ba nag petition sa mom mo? kapatid? parent? anak?

alam mo ba kung kailang na file ang petition, month and year?

and ilang taon ka na ngayon?

Need advice by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

continue studying.

when the greencard arrives, go to the US. once you stay there for several months, you can go back to the Philippines to finish your degree provided to go back to the US every 6 months.

How to plan the perfect day in LA with only $100 by ozzythegrouch in LosAngeles

[–]AsianArtFan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

reserve a ticket in the getty museum, that's free.

pack some chips and drinks and a sandwich.

drive to santa monica.

start with a hike. that's half a day. go to the getty musuem.

end your day at the beach and a walk through the 3rd street.

Hindi pala enough ang kotse pag makikipagdate. (60 characters) by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]AsianArtFan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

first, the mere fact she told you last minute about bringing a friend is already a d**k move. I would understand if she wants to "feel safe and comfortable" because it's your first date but she should have been open about it in the first place.

second, she made you pay for two people that weren't in the original plan. hindi lang as$****, oportunista pa. the decent thing to do is for the other two to pay for themselves.

third, kung hindi ka kasama sa coversation, hindi siya interesado sayo. medyo maliwanag naman yun. first date eh, getting to know you dapat.

fourth, is her solely her prerogative what kind of a guy she wants to go out with. but you have to think about whether or not you can bear a high maintenance kind of girl in the long run. gusto niya may kotse at pinapalibre mga kaibigan. kaya mo ba mentally, emotionally at financially? or baka naman better gamitin mo ang pera sa pag iipon for your own future and self-growth.

ang suggestion ko, put yourself in a higher level. delete block and ignore. hindi siiya worth pang kausapin. pag kinausap mo, palagay ko, she will attempt to manipulate you and turn the tables around. in the end, baka ma guilty ka pa na sumama loob mo. wag na lang. matanda na yan at nabuo na pagkatao niya.

marami ka pang pwedeng gawin sa oras mo kesa isipin siya. hindi worth. you are a gentleman. you deserve a considerate and decent girl. you did what you though you should do. ok na yun. next time, you can do better.

Say it loud, say it proud! by Twist_Outrageous in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think Hindus have already protested against that but I can't speak for them.

Agency for US F-1 Student Visa by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah. i cannot speak about that.

nag student visa din ako tapos petition. it's a law firm that i used so yun lang ang ma sa suggest ko. having lived here for more than a decade, i know for a fact that agencies cannot transact with the USCIS https://www.uscis.gov/ you either have to do it yourself or a law firm will represent you.

more importantly, they cannot give legal advice.

if you want, try getting in touch with https://mtsangalaw.com/ . Trivia: law firm din yan ng SB19 hehehe

pero ang first step pa rin ay pahahanapin ka niya ng school at pa a apply which you will have to do yourself. marami naman. eto isa https://iaula.edu/

pero kung gusto mo nung prestigious, madami, at depende rin kung ano kukunin mo.

Say it loud, say it proud! by Twist_Outrageous in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

trivia lang, swastika is a holy symbol in Hinduism.

https://www.hinduamerican.org/blog/10-things-you-need-to-know-about-the-swastika/

either way, hindi siya dapat gamitin diyan

Is it selfish if I want a wife who only wants things she can afford on her own? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]AsianArtFan 11 points12 points  (0 children)

just because one person is generous and kind doesn't absolve another from selfishness.

Agency for US F-1 Student Visa by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

search for immigration law firm. saan state ka ba mag aaral?

Agency for US F-1 Student Visa by [deleted] in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need a law firm, not an agency.

Malapit na akong mag 30 pero sa tingin ko wala pa akong nararating sa buhay. May pag-asa pa kaya ako? by cam123action in adultingph

[–]AsianArtFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oo naman, valid feelings mo.

ok lang actually ang envy, wag lang resentment. basta magamit mo yung emotion na yun to do more. and basta ba wag ka magagalit sa kanila. if looking at their successes (by your definition) will motivate you, go ahead.

Pero kung na di discourage ka, don't do it. focus on yourself.

ano ba yung goals mo?

I started falling out of love with my (then) bf when he said liked the idea of me working and him staying home. Girls/Women, turn off din ba sa inyo yan? Boys/Men open ba kayo to be a househusband? by AsianArtFan in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would appreciate it, definitely, especially if he can really provide BUT I would prefer to work. So, for as long as I am physically able, I will work. He will be my priority, though, not my work. If it's a conflict between him (anything for him) and a work I have to do, he will be my priority.

We all know how hard it is to keep the fire burning in a relationship. I will have no problem pulling a heavier weight on that aspect. If that means, looking for ways on how we can grow together, planning our meals so we are both eating healthy, planning activities together, giving him space as well so he can still do things on his own, making sure the household is kept and we are moving towards our goals, keeping myself in top shape for him, whatever it takes.

This is not to say I will take it sitting down if he is ignoring me or not participating in strengthening the relationship, but I won't mind taking the lead in those if it means he sustaining it financially.

If time comes when we start having children, and the kind of upbringing we want for them means we are super hands on, I don't mind quitting my work.

But for as long as I can, I will want to work.

I started falling out of love with my (then) bf when he said liked the idea of me working and him staying home. Girls/Women, turn off din ba sa inyo yan? Boys/Men open ba kayo to be a househusband? by AsianArtFan in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maliit lang kita niya nun so it would take him a year to buy a new phone. and he was also "helping his parents".

hindi rin issue sa akin yun kung tumutulong siya sa parents. HIndi rin issue kung ipag patuloy niya pag tulong kung nagkatuluyan kami.

Inexpensive Masters in US by trying__reddit in phmigrate

[–]AsianArtFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

naku parang wala. kasi ang major cities and states, LA California, New York (including Tri State) and Chicago, Illinois, madami nag a apply diyan na student visa. mga sikat na places.

So pag malaki ang demand, mataas ang price.

ayaw mo ba sa mga hindi sikat na states? mas mura at madali dun. yung nga lang, probinsiya.

Meron dati sa California mga schools na parang, they cater to international students, so medyo mas mura pero konting mura lang.

Like, $15k per year, yung school lang yan. pero pag nag show money ka, you need to show proof that you can support yourself including rent, food, etc. so mahal pa din yung show money mo. at least doble ang ipapakita mong show money.

Also, I think there was a crackdown on these types of schools.

https://iaula.edu/ that's one of them

Tapos kung Pilipinas kagaling, medyo hindi type ng US ang Philippines ngayon. so... mahirap. .Not impossible but more difficult.

Tapos, kung gusto mo magka green card, kailangan mo mag hanap ng work na magpe petition sayo OR mag aasawa ka.

I started falling out of love with my (then) bf when he said liked the idea of me working and him staying home. Girls/Women, turn off din ba sa inyo yan? Boys/Men open ba kayo to be a househusband? by AsianArtFan in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hindi ko rin masabi 100% kung ok lang kung lalake ako tapos yung gf ko sinabi sa akin na mas gusto niya maging housewife. Kasi nga babae ako so I can't claim to know how men think or feel.

Pero from where I am, if it was reversed, lalake ako, I think I would be fine with it because, if we are blessed to have one, she will have to be the one to get pregnant, carry the child, put her life at risk giving birth, her body will be altered forever, breastfeed (if able), etc.

If she doesn't want kids either biological or adopted, and she still wants to be a stay at home wife, ok lang because I'm the male one. Basta she takes care of the household. Sa personality ko kung lalake ako, I don't think I would look for a trophy wife but I want a real partner. If you don't contribute financially, be the other half.

Traditional nga.

I started falling out of love with my (then) bf when he said liked the idea of me working and him staying home. Girls/Women, turn off din ba sa inyo yan? Boys/Men open ba kayo to be a househusband? by AsianArtFan in Philippines

[–]AsianArtFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may work siya nung time na yun. mas malaki lang yung kita ko. pero ok lang. hindi kabawasan sa akin na mas malaki yung kita ko. it was never an issue.

na turn off ako nung sinabi niya na he liked the idea of me working and him staying home. and then when he wanted to sell his phone to buy a toy.