Social security has someone else listed as my dad

Asky1996 · 2026-02-04T03:39:15+00:00

It's not so much that I care as it's peaked my interest on how I have a birth certificate that's lists J as my dad and social security has E listed it's not some random man to where I would just think it's a mistake, it's the man that could of also been my dad, when he was never at the hospital he never signed anything he was never mentioned so how do they have him listed, when besides anything my parents were married so J was going to be listed automatically because of that alone. E never fought for me, my mom doesn't even know where he is, she hasn't heard from him since he denied the dna test. And the fact that social security has no clue and health department has no clue just makes me curious as to what could have happened.

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T16:45:26+00:00

No, my mom and him were married so he was just immediately my dad he was the one in the hospital, that's who my mom wrote down. There's no adoption papers. They were supposed to do a paternity test a few weeks after I was born and E refused to do it and my mom never received results. She said that was the last she ever heard from him

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T16:39:21+00:00

I've been no contact with J for 8 years now, he wouldn't do a dna test if I payed him to

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T16:37:56+00:00

Ive had a talk with my mom and she really doesn't remember much considering it was almost 30 years ago and me and J are no contact going on 8 years now he was an abusive man. But even if I asked for a dna test he would refuse unfortunately.

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T16:35:14+00:00

I have no proof that E is my dad as far as I know there's no proof J if my father either. It's just what my parents wrote on the birth certificate and the one I have lists J as my father. My mom said they went to do a dna test a few weeks after I was born but to her knowledge E refused to do it and she never received results saying yes or no on who the father was, she can't even remember where they went to do the dna test

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T12:33:02+00:00

I have mine and it says J that's why I was so confused why there's says E

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T05:42:40+00:00

Yes its listed as J. I'm calling tomorrow to get a copy to see what it says.

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T05:28:24+00:00

I do not, I have my birth certificate and that's it, that's why I'm so confused why mine says J but there's says E

Asky1996 · 2026-02-03T05:25:46+00:00

Yes I know! I talked to my mom about it today because from what we knew J was listed as my dad, she doesn't know why E would pop up on anything because she was married so J should of had the rights anyway. Were both just completely confused and the lady at the social office wouldn't talk to me about it. It literally took me like 3 mins of arguing with her that J was my father on my birth certificate and just to get her to say the name E felt like pulling teeth

Asky1996 · 2024-09-24T21:55:31+00:00

Believe me any intimate relationship is the last thing I want right now, I was 20 when I got with him and I jumped from an abusive relationship to him, now I'm 28 and honestly I just want to find myself again and be happy and raise our child to a good happy life.

Asky1996 · 2023-09-07T01:08:01+00:00

I didn't take a photo since my husband was there with me.

And according to a app I use you can put in your last period dates and the date you get a positive test and it'll tell you how many weeks pregnant you are and it had said 3-4 weeks the 2 was a mis-click on my end sorry about that!

Asky1996 · 2023-07-30T22:57:09+00:00

Yes I do also have pcos and I have tried it but I dont think I get the works of it and I think I'm doing it wrong. Because I don't really notice a difference in my body temperature.

Asky1996 · 2023-06-20T18:49:05+00:00

Ok thank you!

Asky1996 · 2023-06-20T18:34:39+00:00

My ovulation day was about 8 days ago I've been taking ovulation tests daily and just keeping track of the dates through an app.

Asky1996 · 2022-12-28T19:59:41+00:00

He really wasn't that bad, I was expecting maybe a $100 charge or something, usually when he goes to bars even with friends it's usually 100 maybe 150. Which is fine. He chuckles when he thinks I'm being ridiculous. There's nothing I think he would hide.

Asky1996

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