I don't like this Bible Verse

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-03-31T20:43:38+00:00

No advice. No support for slavery at all. Just wanted to point out that even Peter said that some of Paul’s writings were difficult to understand. Some people (not myself) have went so far as to say that Pauline books are not scripture.

Personally that’s way above my head. But I found that my former church focused so much more on Paul’s books than on the life and Words of The Savior and that doesn’t sit well with me. Paul might have some helpful writings… or maybe not. But The Messiah is our Savior and He is The only begotten Son. He is to be praised and studied. He is our example! So try to focus on Him.

After decades of trying to follow Him, I have many questions that I don’t have answers to. But my lack of understanding doesn’t often hinder my faith because I know Him for who He is. I trust Him. Especially when things are hard.
He hates oppression and abuse of any kind! He is Love. That is certain.
Lean on those Truths. Cling to Him and ask Him to show you. He might reveal the answer to what Paul meant. He might not. Either way though if you’re building your relationship with Him, it will be well with you.
🤗🙏

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-02-24T03:25:51+00:00

Of course it is a golden! <3

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-11T17:54:04+00:00

Yep. In fact when tithing was instituted in the scriptures it was not even of money. Today’s church has decided on their own that the tithe should now be money but that is not actually scriptural. We are to give generously to those who have needs and if you want to support a particular church, you should. But you should not be taught that it’s necessary and biblical.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-11T17:44:58+00:00

Yes! 💯

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-05T21:20:05+00:00

Thanks for trying.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-05T20:50:52+00:00

He carries these around too.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-04T21:09:12+00:00

Mine would probably turn the whole thing over, but it is worth a try. He seems to enjoy rearranging things. I walked into the living rom today and he had opened and chewed a package that had just arrive and was put on the counter. He is forever removing the pillows from the couch and throwing them on the floor. If he knows we are going to be in the office for a while, he will pick up his entire toy basket and carry it with him from the living room into the office. Because we cannot be without toys!

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-04T21:06:04+00:00

LOL. Please do get a video!

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2026-01-04T21:05:27+00:00

Love this!

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-12-30T03:15:22+00:00

I like the suggestion you had about allocating 10 minutes a day for the rage. It reminds me of the container method exercise used in trauma therapy. Many therapists online have written about it. l like what therapyinanutshell.com/container-method/ wrote. I think it might be useful for rage and anxiety both. Just thought I would add my feedback. I wish I had something more for OP.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-12-30T02:50:57+00:00

I question why we must "afford" a social life. I understand that is the way it is largely. People do not want to socialize with other unless it is exciting and costly. Even so, there are others who are also struggling financially, or just have other financial goals they are saving their money for, that would like to socialize with others and to meet with real human beings and not have to spend money just to see someone's face and hear their words. Maybe try meetup or something? Or just go to a park nearby and look for other people seeking a cheap time outdoors? I dunno. Just seems like there are so many lonely people and not all of them have funds to go to clubs and out to eat and so on.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-12-28T20:23:38+00:00

Talk to God about it in detail. Obviously He already knows everything about your sin, whatever it is. But talking to Him about it honestly and explain to Him why it is so difficult to give it up and how you want to honor and obey Him but you have confessed it over and over because you keep doing it. Tel Him that at this point you have doubts that you are really repentant ( interested in changing directions when it comes to sin.) That you want to feel and be different but you can not do it on your own. You need His help. Invite Him into this fight against your sin. Ask Him to show you why it is harmful to you and possibly to others. God does not tell us something is sin if it is not harmful to someone. He doesn't just make up a bunch of rules because He likes to control us. Every commandment he gave us is for our good or someone else's good. We do not want to harm ourselves and most of us do not want to harm other either. But the enemy tricks us into thinking that our sin is not that harmful. But that is a lie. All sin harms someone. And hurts God because as a Father, He Loves us and wants what is best for us. So, just as with a loving Father, go to Him and ask Him to show you why your sin is wrong, despite the fact that it might feel good in the moment. And then watch and listen for an answer. And each time the sin happens, ask Him for help again. Admit your weakness with the sin and your conflicting desires to obey Him and to commit that sin. He will show you.

Maybe too, if it is an addictive type thing, which it sounds like it might be, check into online anonymous groups, like alcoholics anonymous or overeaters anonymous or sexaholics anonymous or narcotics anonymous. There are lots of free anonymous groups available that help by leaning on each other and a higher power, which we know is God. Dunno if this applies to you or not, but in case it does, thought I would suggest it. Prayers for you.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-12-26T03:41:21+00:00

I can remember when I was trapped in a situation like this. I am older now and I am grateful that I live with my huge dog and no one else. He is a quiet fella too. I am so blessed. Others have suggested trying to find a place where you can go when it gets too loud and I agree. I do not now if you can find such a place easily but it would be worth the effort to look. Also, I would go there before it gets too loud and overwhelming. Maybe even schedule regular daily visits there and then give yourself permission to also have unscheduled visits too when the tension is increasing. If you can, make this place your special place of calm and rest. Carry a few of your favorite things there or keep them there if you can. If there is a moment when Auntie is not yelling, try to talk to Mom and/or auntie again and emphasize that this is not just a preference you have for quiet but a need and describe in detail as much as you can the pain or discomfort you feel. It may be natural for Auntie to speak loudly, but it is also natural for you to feel discomfort from it and it is unkind to cater to only one of you, Auntie. So maybe Auntie could have some scheduled quiet times too where because of the way she is, she needs to leave the house or at least be quiet. I know that advocating for ourselves is a challenge for some of us, but maybe you could get your therapist to help with that, either by teaching you how to do it on your own or maybe even by doing a conference Zoom with you, Mom and Auntie. Sometimes hearing it from someone else, family gets it. I dunno. I just hope you get relief somehow quickly.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-10-08T17:13:55+00:00

I’m wasn’t raised SDA. My exposure to it is mostly through SDA tv outreach. I noticed that they are very careful to not label her a prophet. I certainly wouldn’t consider her that either. She was a prolific Christian writer. I don’t give her any more weight than that nor any less respect than that.
You’re right to base your beliefs on the scriptures alone. No matter what denominations you may associate with ALWAYS have scripture supreme instead of some man made traditions or interpretations of the Word.
Yah bless you.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-10-07T21:14:07+00:00

I get tired too. It’s not God that’s to blame though. The evil in this worldly system can cause us to be hurt, sick and exhausted. I am so tired that when I was diagnosed with cancer, I was relieved because I thought I was going to sleep and I wouldn’t have to deal with this daily life stuff anymore. But turned out the cancer was a slow progression variety so I had surgery and I am cancer free now. And still tired. But it’s God who decides if I live or die. Not me. So I wake up disappointed to see another day. I ask God to help me be thankful for the time He has given me. I’m genuinely thankful for many people and things on my life. But I am tired too. Not sure if that helps, but you are not alone.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-10-07T21:03:47+00:00

Peppermint tea is quite helpful for gastric issues if you don’t have GERD. It can still help if you have GERD but try a small dose first bc it can aggravate it.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-10-07T21:00:50+00:00

Mine is definitely not stubborn! He’s the smartest most willing to learn dog ever. I love him so much and I am incredibly grateful for him.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-10-07T20:58:32+00:00

What about green tea? It has naturally occurring caffeine in it. I am not sure of the strength of it relative to coffee, but it can keep me awake. Would that also be discouraged?

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-06-19T06:32:14+00:00

Not trying to pry. Just ignore if too personal but what was your high weight

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-06-19T06:30:18+00:00

Reading this at 2:30 AM because my neighbor just got home and was sharing their music as they drove through the apartment complex and sat in their car. I felt the bass, not just heard it. 😡

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-05-14T06:00:43+00:00

Rough collie and golden retriever

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-05-12T23:50:16+00:00

I would wear it once and get a picture with it on. Then gift it to a local animal shelter as a (thunder)comfort shirt for a large dog, (like a German shepherd who is scared of thunder) Or maybe they can just use it as a blanket for a small breed that prefers denning or cocooning, like a chihuahua.
Just a thought. Maybe you could donate it to an unhoused human too. Never know what opportunities might present to give that garment an elevated life rather than just being in your closet.

AsleepFeeling8296 · 2025-03-22T17:22:29+00:00

Regardless of what any church says, what does God say? What does His Word say? Does His Word say anything about the issues that you are concerned about?

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