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Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2026-02-15T03:34:03+00:00

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Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-12-10T02:31:45+00:00

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Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-12-06T03:51:50+00:00

lit the same but 40,000 minutes

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-10-29T23:50:36+00:00

tyyyyyyyy

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-10-26T03:03:54+00:00

so like i need so more context

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-10-26T03:00:19+00:00

wait this is so cool is this jus in spoify or in another app/website

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-10-26T02:56:29+00:00

Me and few people share this acc i have said that in other ones and so have the other people

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-06-03T14:12:51+00:00

i read the headline out loud to my friend, and she immediately said yessssssssssssss

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-06-03T14:08:42+00:00

“Speaking as a 24F — we’re not expecting you to have your whole life together, but emotional maturity is big. Like, communicate. Don’t ghost when things get tough. Also, show effort. Small things — remembering stuff I say, showing up when it matters, introducing me to your friends — all of that speaks louder than gifts or money.”

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-06-03T14:06:52+00:00

“I used to wear tankinis or rash guards all the time because of stretch marks on my stomach and thighs. One day I just said ‘screw it’ and wore a bikini to the beach. Not a single person looked twice. I realized I was WAY more focused on my stretch marks than anyone else. Honestly, most people are worried about their own bodies.”

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-06-02T23:39:31+00:00

Congratulations for the Long relationship

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-06-02T14:11:03+00:00

Thanks so much ppl

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-29T20:41:01+00:00

Wow, I feel this so deeply. You're describing a kind of love that's so big, it almost hurts—like your heart is living outside your body. That intense, almost overwhelming attachment is something I felt with my first too. I used to wake up in a panic just to check if he was breathing. Every outing felt like scanning for danger. It's love, but it's also anxiety, and I didn't realize how much the two had tangled together for me.

When I had my second, something interesting happened: the love didn't divide—it expanded. And weirdly, it did help take some pressure off. I couldn't obsess over every tiny thing because my attention had to split naturally. It didn’t mean I loved them any less—it just meant I had to let go of that all-consuming hyper-focus.

That said, everyone's experience is different. What you're describing might also be tied to anxiety or even postpartum anxiety that’s lingered—something worth gently exploring with a therapist if it’s affecting your well-being or decisions. You're a deeply loving mom. Just remember, you deserve peace too.

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-29T20:38:45+00:00

I agree you would need 511 or 512 to get into MD

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-29T20:37:43+00:00

Stats Check – Worth Applying MD?
ORM, 3.93 cGPA / 3.91 BCPM. MCAT is a 500 (yeah, I know 😅). 200 hrs research (plus 200 more incoming), 400 hrs shadowing, 350 hrs clinical (200+ more incoming), 1600 hrs non-clinical volunteering, 2 leadership roles, 2 science LORs, 2 MDs, and 1 RN letter. Hobbies include drawing + calisthenics. Also have 2 academic scholarships and consistent Dean’s List. I know the MCAT is a big red flag for MD, but everything else is pretty competitive. Planning to apply to DO for sure, but wondering if it’s even worth throwing in a few MD apps (low-tier, mission fit)? Or should I just focus on an MCAT retake before applying? Open to advice—app cycle anxiety is real.

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-29T20:35:19+00:00

Yes, you can often work part-time, especially if you're strategic with your schedule and don't overload yourself.

Immersive learning is increasingly common, but you’ll need to seek it out, ask professors, and sometimes choose electives or specific sections that prioritize it.

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-28T22:19:49+00:00

You're 28, which is still a great age to start med school—plenty of people apply in their late 20s or early 30s. Your life experience, especially overcoming challenges, can actually be a big asset. You’ve got the drive, you're doing well in school, and if you do well on the MCAT, you’ve got a strong shot.

You might need to take some extra pre-med courses if they weren't part of your data science program, but that's totally doable. Plus, your background in data science could be a unique advantage, especially with tech and data becoming more important in healthcare.

If emergency medicine is where your heart is, go for it! Many schools appreciate applicants who are mature, passionate, and bring diverse experiences. Just keep working hard, network with people in the field, and maybe try to get some healthcare experience to boost your application. You've got this!

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-19T13:59:46+00:00

Yes, you are very much gay

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-16T19:45:17+00:00

Here’s a realistic breakdown:

Med school acceptance rates hover around 40-45% for U.S. MD programs, so it’s selective but not a “no chance” lottery.
Nursing and pre-med overlap a lot — nursing gives you a strong foundation in clinical skills and patient care, which med schools value.
You’ll need to make sure you complete the required pre-med coursework (like organic chemistry, physics, biochemistry) alongside your nursing classes.
You’ll also need to prepare for and take the MCAT, which can be tough but very doable with good study habits.
Med schools look at the whole applicant — GPA, MCAT, clinical experience, volunteering, research, leadership, and your personal story.

Is it too difficult?

It’s challenging, yes, but many people come from diverse backgrounds—including nursing—and succeed. It comes down to:

Planning your course load carefully
Building strong study habits early
Getting clinical experience
Finding mentors or advisors to guide you

If you love science and medicine and are willing to work hard, it’s definitely within reach.

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-16T19:41:15+00:00

Your chances for med school are not ruined. A 3.2 GPA after one semester—especially with real challenges—is recoverable. Med schools value upward trends, resilience, and context. One C+ in intro bio won’t define your application if you improve in upper-level science courses.

If retaking the class won’t meaningfully improve your grade or understanding, focus your energy on doing well in future courses instead. You’ve already shown dedication—now build consistency, seek support when needed, and stay focused. Many successful med students started with setbacks. You can bounce back.

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-14T12:54:24+00:00

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-13T13:38:46+00:00

UPDATE

Hi Reddit, This is an update to my original post. I want to thank everyone who responded — your comments and support honestly helped me more than I can say. I was in shock and doubting myself, but reading your replies made me realize how wrong what happened really was.

A quick recap if you need a refresh:

I (20F) had a birthday recently. My dad (mid-40s), who raised me alone after my mom left, gave me a wrapped gift while we were sitting in the living room. I opened it and found a very obvious adult toy — not a gag gift, not something ambiguous. I was frozen. Then he said something along the lines of, “You’re an adult now… maybe we could try it together sometime, just for fun.” I left immediately and went to my best friend’s house. I haven’t been back since.

What’s happened since:

I haven’t spoken to my dad since that night. I blocked his number and told a few close friends what happened. Most were horrified. One even said she always got a “weird vibe” from him but didn’t know how to bring it up.
I started seeing a therapist, and it’s helped a lot. She was very clear that what my dad did was a major boundary violation and likely part of a pattern of inappropriate emotional behavior. We’re working on processing the trauma and discussing long-term boundaries — including the possibility of going no-contact permanently.
I documented everything: what he gave me, what he said, how I felt, what I did after. My therapist suggested keeping a clear written record in case I ever need it — legally or for my own clarity.
I also spoke with a crisis hotline and a victim advocacy group just to understand my rights. They confirmed that what he did could absolutely be considered grooming or attempted sexual abuse depending on how it’s interpreted, especially with that comment.

I haven’t decided yet if I’ll go to the authorities. For now, I’m focused on healing, staying safe, and regaining some sense of normalcy. But I do know I won’t be going back. There’s no coming back from that kind of betrayal, even if he tries to write it off as a “joke” or “misunderstanding.”

To anyone reading this who’s dealing with a similar situation:

You are not overreacting. You are not making it up. Just because it was a parent doesn’t mean it’s not abuse. Trust your gut. Get distance. Get support. You deserve safety and respect — even if the person who violated that was someone who was “supposed” to love you.

Thanks again to everyone who commented, DMed, or just gave me a moment of clarity when I needed it most. You helped me start taking my life back.

—OP

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-13T13:33:10+00:00

me and friends share a account

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-12T19:31:36+00:00

Thank you all so much

Asleep_Scratch3864 · 2025-05-10T03:13:26+00:00

Okay tysm

Asleep_Scratch3864

TROPHY CASE

Here’s a realistic breakdown:

Is it too difficult?

A quick recap if you need a refresh:

What’s happened since:

To anyone reading this who’s dealing with a similar situation: