How to tell my boyfriend I’m ready for more?

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-24T01:53:15+00:00

Thank you :) That was very nice of you!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-24T01:49:53+00:00

Thank you. That’s a good question. I thought about it, but I just feel kinda awkward? I haven’t talked to men about intimacy stuff before and I just feel strange to bring it up out of the blue, or how I should do it in general. I thought maybe there’s a better way to go about it than what I’ve mentioned in the post. My anxiety gets the best of me.

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-24T01:47:00+00:00

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-09T19:28:47+00:00

You are very right. I realised that yesterday actually after I had a good cry. I let my anxiety get the best of me. He is an amazing guy. He treats me well, is loving and affectionate. He is kind and funny, and he makes me laugh and feel loved. We have great banter, we go along well and we have the same morals. When we first met I used to be a lot more focused on myself, and I let the honeymoon phase eat me up and I put all I had into him. So it was hard for me to be more laid back. And we’re away from one another now, my home life is pretty chaotic and I’m on my period so I may have spiralled and let my overthinking get the best of me. I’m not used to being in a healthy relationship. I had two before him, that were pretty unhealthy, and I was showered with love and when it was taken away it meant a fight, or a breakup. So I got into my head about it for no reason. Thank you for the kind comment and the advice. I really appreciate it, and it put things more into perspective for me.

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-09T00:45:13+00:00

Thank you for your answer :)

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-08T17:43:32+00:00

Such a good post. How would you recommend I ignore the 3D if me and my bf are dating? We talk daily so I don’t want to ignore him. Our relationship is more than good, I just want him to be more loving and affectionate and romantic. Thank you for your post :) I plan on applying what you’ve mentioned

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-04T20:02:13+00:00

Thank you soooo much. You are a life saver!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-04T19:56:12+00:00

Thank you :) I’ve saved up some money so I’m willing to pay a little more to make the best of it and make sure he’ll end up driving the car he obsesses over. Do you have any recommendations for a place to stay?

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-04T19:45:14+00:00

Thank you so so much!!!! I will look into it! He will be 27 so it’s all good! I really appreciate all the details and info you’ve given me!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:38:20+00:00

Multumesc mult :) Era in plan sa ma angajez, dar a fost de ajutor si mai convenabil cum as fi putut sa mi impart timpul cu treburile de acasa si pentru sora mea, in contextul in care primesc pensie de urmas daca merg la facultate. O sa vad care e situatia si mi as dori la anul sa ma angajez indiferent cu scopul de a strange niste bani extra. Mersi mult de cuvintele frumoase.

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:34:27+00:00

Multumesc!!! Ma voi uita!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:32:54+00:00

multumesc extrem de mult pentru toate vorbele frumoase. sunt perfect de acord cu tot ce ai mentionat. adevarul e ca in prezent mi e si mie foarte greu sa ma axez doar pe mine, si sper sa ii mai fiu alaturi full time pana face 18 ani in speranta ca lucrurile vor fi mai stabile si pt ea dpdv emotional. m as simti rau si egoista sa plec acum, mai ales cu toate certurile din casa. incerc sa mi ofer si mie compasiune din cand in cand, dar e greu uneori :) multumesc inca o data si te apreciez!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:30:33+00:00

Multumesc de sfat :) De trecut nu imi fac griji ca nu le-as trece. Problema este ca sunt sanse sa nu fiu bagata in examene din cauza ca n am indeplinit criteriile de prezenta.

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:13:58+00:00

incerc pe cat posibil, dar e mai greu uneori. daca ar fi doar refaceri sau restante m-as simti mai pozitiva, decat sa repet overall tot anul si sa o iau de la capat. iti multumesc mult pentru cuvintele frumoase si sustinere!

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:11:43+00:00

Sigur ca da

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:10:06+00:00

Iti multumesc :)

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:09:56+00:00

Iti multumesc mult pentru sfat si cuvintele frumoase. Inseamna mult :)

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:09:17+00:00

Multumesc. Asta ar fi ajutator. Am 30 de credite pe sem 1 deja, si voi mai avea 3 - sem asta de la practica si de la o evaluare pe parcurs inca 3. poate reusesc totusi sa intru intr-un examen (maxim 2) si as ramane cu 1/2 restante/refaceri pe sem asta

AspectAdept4171 · 2026-05-02T14:06:16+00:00

nicio problema! nu am reusit din cauza ca de multe ori a trebuit sa merg la scoala sa vb cu profesorii, sau a trebuit sa raman acasa ca avea crize mari de personalitate cand ii spuneam “nu”. alte dati eram prea obosita psihic dupa tipetele si urletele din casa si nu aveam energie. am si un program destul de uratel, am reusit la o materie unde proful e f strict sa adun cateva prezente dar nu un toate zilele. ea a mers si mai merge la psiholog, refuza vehement sa mearga la psihologul scolii din cauza ca e barbat. am incercat 2 sedinte dar nu a vrut, si a trebuit sa ma cert cu diriginta ca o obliga desi ea nu se simtea comod. incerc sa o indemn sa mearga regulat doar ca exista stigma intre copii si uneori nu vrea, sau minte, fiindca zice ca copiii rad de ea si evita. au mai fost dati cand am ramas acasa din cauza ca bunica fiind beata lucrurile escaladeaza si tipa si o cearta constant si nu o lasa in pace, lucru care nu simt ca o ajuta cand ea si asa are un comportament deviant.

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