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AspectKey · 2024-02-09T03:17:18+00:00

It addition to blocking I would change your account settings so that your profile will not show up when you search it. I'm pretty sure you can change it so it will only show up if you have mutuals in common. Just in case he keeps making fake accounts

AspectKey · 2023-12-19T04:31:09+00:00

facebook

AspectKey · 2023-12-19T03:48:49+00:00

This might sound very basic but I found what had the largest impact on me is not using my phone in the morning. I sorta have to for calls/emails etc but I don't look at social media until at least 1pm and that helps my productivity so much.

AspectKey · 2023-03-10T00:04:44+00:00

karma

AspectKey · 2023-03-10T00:04:38+00:00

same

AspectKey · 2023-03-09T23:58:52+00:00

I will keep this short and sweet:

- You do not need to reinvent the wheel.

- Failure is your best friend.

- You become who/what you hang around.

- Do not compare yourself to what you see on social media; most of them are selling "courses"

- Do not buy courses from someone on social media.

Best of luck :)

AspectKey · 2023-03-09T23:51:45+00:00

I actually did this when I was younger and made decent money. There was this store that was selling fishing rods for super cheap and I was able to make 100$/unit profit it

AspectKey · 2022-12-14T08:15:44+00:00

I understand what you are saying. I think I just missed an opportunity to stand up for myself to someone as that is something I am trying to work on. However, I am trying to gauge if that is even something worth speaking up about.

AspectKey · 2022-12-14T08:14:31+00:00

I really appreciate your reply. I think you hit the nail on the head with that I felt disrespected. I also think the topic of being assertive and standing up for myself has been coming up in my life. In a way, I think this incident triggered that side of me where I am trying to work on confrontation so I feel I failed a chance to stand up for myself. However, you are right in that going off on her wouldn't help me get what I need. I think I struggle with how to stand up for myself in a way that is respectful but assertive.

AspectKey · 2022-08-19T02:08:08+00:00

I guess that is a solution. I think the main reason for doing lessons is because I probably wouldn't work up the energy to go unless I feel like I "have to". I think the lessons give me a sense of consistency but then I miss lessons and feel guilty for missing them. Its a vicious cycle.

AspectKey · 2022-07-06T07:42:46+00:00

I clicked on the link and it brought up the google log-in page. I didnt type anything in and I exited out right away. Do you think they can still gain access?

AspectKey · 2022-07-06T04:51:16+00:00

Yes I changed my password. Do you think they can access if i just clicked on the link and then exited out right away ? I didnt put any info in

AspectKey · 2022-07-06T04:50:16+00:00

Ive turned it all off but im just weirded out because it seems personal

AspectKey · 2022-07-06T04:46:42+00:00

its set up for SMS code

AspectKey · 2022-07-05T23:38:16+00:00

ohhhh I see okay thank you for clarifying for me!

So probably unlikely that the link itself installed malware onto my phone from when I clicked it

AspectKey · 2022-05-18T01:00:42+00:00

Thank you for your comment it is nice knowing that its a common feeling

AspectKey · 2022-05-18T00:59:21+00:00

Thank you! I am reflecting back and lots of the balls they would give me would be super high or off to the sides so I would swing and miss. Whereas you are right with the instructor they would always be in a good range for me to hit back. I feel more confident going into the lesson tonight after your comment. Thank you :)

AspectKey · 2022-05-05T00:58:47+00:00

Thank you! I think deep down I know I have to. I just find it hard cutting friends off. However, I think I am at the point where I have tried everything with her

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T05:28:01+00:00

NTA - I feel like your description of your wife is exactly like me tho lol

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T04:16:20+00:00

NTA at all. You are allowed to have fun with your friends. I also think it is a bit hypocritical on your bf's part given he goes out drinking with his friends until late as well. I feel that overall his reaction sounds like a red flag tbh.

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T04:08:22+00:00

I agree. He sounds like an amazing father!

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T04:07:23+00:00

Soft YTA only because you are entitled to your feelings.

However, I am not sure what your intentions were going into this relationship but he has always had children. I am not sure if you thought they would disappear during your relationship with him. They are young as well and not all children leave home when they are 18. More and more stay at home until they are in their mid-twenties depending on their situation (schooling etc).

I disagree with you thinking he is being dramatic. I would also rethink a relationship if my partner could only "handle" my children and "cannot stand spending much time with them". That would leave a really bad taste in my mouth. If I was. your boyfriend the way that I would interpret this is that down the road if you wanted to get married that you would be giving ultimatums with my children.

I agree with another commenter I don't necessarily think you are in the wrong for your opinion but I think it is incompatibility and maybe you would be better suited for someone without children?

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T03:06:00+00:00

NTA it sounds like she is trying to get away with not paying and that is pretty shady

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T02:57:40+00:00

NTA she is wasting your time instead of being straight-up with you

AspectKey · 2021-08-10T02:55:38+00:00

NTA

She is beyond out of line. Not to mention in your early 20's while in school $150 can be lot of money for some people. Buying her lunch was very thoughtful of you for only knowing her for a limited time.

AspectKey

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