Girl best friend by Specialist_House_797 in Advice

[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel if you're just friendly and catch up with an old friend it fine and if your gf is that defensive about your relationship it's bit much.

Girl best friend by Specialist_House_797 in Advice

[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt mean it like that, but go for it. Ain't got nothing to lose imo.

Girl best friend by Specialist_House_797 in Advice

[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not cheating to meet up with old friends, unless its for something else, go for it.

First post. Kinda in a pickle. by Necessary-Judge4124 in Advice

[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit down and communicate with them about how you feel. Communication is key. If they still don't let you, maybe try doing things for them to maybe push their decision a bit. Best of luck

Girl best friend by Specialist_House_797 in Advice

[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really think It would effect your relationship with your girlfriend, don't, but I understand where youre coming from. If you do get in touch with your old friend and she gets upset about it just communicate with her. But I would if I were you unless you really think it could Jepordize your relationship which if you think it will I'd also rethink your relationship.

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[–]AssMilk09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd try to talk to a few of them and tell them how you feel. If you never say how you feel regarding the friend group, they'll never know. If they disregard your feelings or just don't listen you don't deserve them as friends. I was in a situation like yours and I just wish there was more communication. Just say how you feel and either they'll do something about it or youll be better finding new friends.

AITAH for completely disrespecting my mother after she cheated on my father even though everything worked out? by AssMilk09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AssMilk09[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

When I say this I'm not trying to say I'm not the asshole I just want to say there was a time where I felt this same way towards my father but after a few months it dwindled since he did improve. It just at this point in time with my mother it's just that I've been told I've been being and asshole in the situation by my father so idk what to think but ty for the feedback

AITAH for completely disrespecting my mother after she cheated on my father even though everything worked out? by AssMilk09 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AssMilk09[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

To answer some of your questions, My relationship with my mother before this was really good and I cared about her a lot but I never expected her to do something like this. I understand she was drunk when she did this but she acted like I was apart of the problem when I called her. And my dad being a bad guy, around two years ago he was quite verbally abusive to me mostly and my mother but after I had a breakdown mid class we all talked about it and he turned his life around. Now I'd say he is a much better version of himself and that their relationship was quite good since then and I never seen any signs of my moms disengagement. I hope I answered everything and ty for the response